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I recently signed an offer with a software company that has around 200 employees. After accepting, I was informed about a potential 2-week onboarding trip to their London office. While the company will cover the trip, it involves a significant commitment, including a 15-hour flight each way, and I would need to rearrange a lot at home. My wife has work commitments as well, which adds to the complexity of this situation. I was surprised that this trip was only mentioned after I signed the offer, and it raises some concerns for me. I’ve had a previous onboarding experience that ended with a layoff, so I’m feeling a bit cautious about this. I’m wondering if it’s common for companies, especially smaller ones, to spring such plans on new hires after the offer is signed. For those who have joined international companies, do you think this is a good sign or a red flag? I’m also curious if this type of onboarding trip is typically presented as a benefit during the recruitment process. I’d appreciate any insights or advice on how to handle this situation.

I've been really struggling in the job market as an engineer. This month, I applied to three positions and managed to land interviews for all of them, but unfortunately, I faced rejection each time. I even took a day off from my job at the post office to attend one of the interviews. During one interview, the interviewer was so impressed that they thought I was using AI to answer questions. I was taken aback by that but assured them I wasn't. They mentioned moving me to the next round with the regional sales manager, but then I was ghosted completely. I checked my application status and saw I was not selected, and despite reaching out for an update, I didn't get any response. It hit me hard, and I shed a few tears over it. But reflecting on it, I realized that getting three interviews in such a short time is a sign that I'm on the right track. I just need to keep refining my approach and applying more. The job market feels like a numbers game, and I'm determined to keep pushing forward. Tomorrow, I plan to use tools like Claude to help tailor my applications and apply to even more jobs. Additionally, I applied for a pre-apprenticeship program specifically for women, which is unpaid but offers valuable trade skills. I tested into the program and received an email for a physical assessment, which I'm grateful the post office allowed me to take another day off for. This program could significantly improve my chances of getting a job with the Illinois Department of Labor. I refuse to go back to school and take on more loans after my experience with my mechanical engineering degree. Instead, I'm pursuing this trade route, which only takes three months and offers certifications like OSHA 10 and First Aid/CPR. This is my Plan B if I can't find a job soon.

I was laid off from my job as a host at a local restaurant due to an overstaffing issue. It was tough to hear that I was one of the chosen ones to go, and I felt a mix of anger and disappointment towards my boss. However, I believe there’s no bad blood between us, at least from his perspective. Now, I’m contemplating whether it’s okay to return to the restaurant as a customer because they have the best gelato and french fries. I'm worried about how awkward it might be, and I’m wondering how soon is too soon to go back after being laid off. Some friends suggested giving it a month, while others said I should just go enjoy the food without stressing about it. I really just want to avoid any uncomfortable interactions.

I'm 17 years old and have never attended high school due to severe mental health issues and a lot of instability in my life. I plan to start GED courses once I turn 18, which is a requirement in my area. I've never had a job before, but I'm eager to find something simple, like a retail position. I've been considering applying to Michael's because I think the environment would be manageable for me, unlike fast-food jobs which I know I couldn't handle. I've felt incredibly isolated throughout my teenage years and only made a few friends recently. Social situations have been challenging for me, often leading to anxiety attacks. However, I've been working on improving my social skills by attending local live music shows. Still, I feel like I lack basic knowledge and skills that most people my age have. I don't have a resume, any prior work experience, or special skills. I know it's possible to get a job, but I'm unsure where to start. Many online applications ask for educational background, which I don't have, and I worry that my applications won't even be considered. I'm also anxious about how to approach asking for a job in person and what that process entails. I really want to gain work experience and contribute to society, but I'm feeling lost and would appreciate any advice or guidance on how to move forward.

I applied to my dream company on February 15, 2026, thanks to a referral. Just two days later, a recruiter contacted me, and the interview process kicked off. I was informed there would be three rounds, so I prepared myself for a lengthy journey. The first round involved a technical assessment, which I had 10 days to complete. I took every single one of those days, but by the time I submitted it, I was convinced I had failed. The stress was overwhelming, and I hesitated to follow up with the recruiter for almost two weeks after submitting my work. Eventually, I decided I needed closure and sent an email. To my surprise, a week later, I received a reply saying I had actually passed that round. I was shocked and elated. After some time passed, I followed up again and learned that the second round was a take-home assessment, again with a 10-day deadline. This assignment consumed my life for those ten days, and I submitted it at the very last moment. Two weeks went by without any news, so I reached out again. Shortly after, I found out I had cleared that round too. Now, fast forward to today: it's been five months since that initial recruiter call, and I'm still waiting for the third and final round. Each time I follow up, I hear about another delay. They’ve recently informed me that there are currently no roles available. What’s frustrating is that I can see open positions listed, and the role I applied for was supposed to be generic and team-matched later. At this point, I’ve officially lost hope in landing a position at my dream company.

I’ve been navigating the job market after a series of layoffs, and one of the toughest challenges I’ve faced is the lack of support from former coworkers when it comes to professional references. I’ve developed a thick skin regarding rejection from recruiters, but it’s been disheartening to reach out to people I thought I had good relationships with, only to be met with silence or polite refusals. They often say something like, "I don’t know your work well enough to recommend you," which I understand, but it still stings. I’m not asking for anyone to exaggerate my skills; I just want an honest account of our time working together. It’s especially difficult when my last job didn’t leave me in a strong position for references. As an entry-level assistant, I didn’t have much influence over my relationships with managers, so I’ve relied on peers for references. While a few have been supportive, it feels like they are the exception rather than the rule. It’s frustrating, especially in a culture where employers expect multiple references. I’ve spoken with friends from other countries who are surprised by this reluctance, as providing references is often seen as a normal courtesy there. I’m left wondering if this is just the standard workplace culture in the US or if I’m missing something.

I had a frustrating experience today while interviewing for a position at a local restaurant where my friend works. She had referred me, and I was told to come in for an interview the next day. When I arrived, it quickly became clear that nobody at the restaurant was aware of my scheduled interview. The manager seemed confused and couldn't recall any details about my visit. He asked for my name and then proceeded to conduct what he called an 'interview,' but it felt more like a screening. He was reading off a script and seemed unprepared, which made me uncomfortable. I’ve never encountered an interview where the person interviewing me didn’t even know who I was. After the awkward exchange, the manager casually mentioned that this wasn’t really an interview but just a screening, and he asked for my name again before I left. It left me feeling pretty disheartened about the whole process. I texted my friend afterward to share my experience, and she was equally upset since the manager had previously told her it would be an easy hire. I’m not feeling optimistic about this opportunity.

I recently got fired from a part-time job I held for two months, and the whole experience left me feeling furious and betrayed. I found the position through Indeed and was excited when they reached out for an interview. The interview went well, and I started my training shortly after. However, from day one, I sensed a toxic environment. My coworkers, particularly a group of girls, made it clear I wasn't welcome. Despite my efforts to be friendly—like buying donuts for the team—they treated me poorly, calling me names and spreading rumors about my work ethic. After a couple of shifts, my manager pulled me aside, citing complaints from these coworkers about my performance. I was shocked because I had been working hard and even suggested checking the security footage to prove my innocence, but he dismissed my concerns, saying he trusted the supervisors. Fast forward to my last day, I felt I had done everything right, but later that night, my manager texted me asking to talk. When we spoke the next morning, he told me I was 'not a good fit' and that they had 'voted me out.' I was speechless. A coworker who had become a friend later revealed that they had created a group chat from my first day, planning how to get rid of me. It was one of the most toxic experiences I've ever faced, but I've moved on and am now focused on my studies and finding a real career. I can't shake off the unfairness of it all, though. Has anyone else dealt with a similar situation? How did you cope?

I just experienced layoffs at my company, where I've worked for the past four years. Before the pandemic, it was a thriving place, but we went through some significant cuts during that time. I joined as a new hire when things started to improve, working alongside two long-tenured colleagues in my department. One of them has been with the company for over 20 years. Recently, I had been anxious about potential layoffs since our only client filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy a few months ago. They had a restructuring plan, which allowed us to continue working, but then we lost some of their business. I felt that layoffs were imminent. I was bracing myself to be let go, considering I was the last one hired. Surprisingly, it was one of my coworkers who was laid off, not the one with the longest tenure. I'm feeling really upset about this. My laid-off coworker is older than me and was very close friends with the other colleague. I can't imagine going to work and not feeling the sadness of this situation. I'm confused, scared, and sad. I lost faith in the company because it feels like there's no loyalty to employees. I was actually out sick when the layoffs happened, and I dread going back to work tomorrow, knowing that my coworker and I will likely just be upset and cry together.

I’ve officially joined the ranks of the laid-off. I was working remotely as an IT teacher for a non-profit, but due to ongoing funding issues, my position was eliminated. On Monday, we received an email indicating that five roles would be cut, with those affected to be notified on Wednesday. However, I was unexpectedly pulled into a one-on-one meeting today, and my gut feeling was confirmed—I was one of the layoffs. My background primarily includes teaching and holding IT certificates, but I don’t have a bachelor’s degree. I opted for an associate's instead, prioritizing hands-on experience over accumulating debt. Now, I find myself at a crossroads. I will receive severance and need to file for unemployment, but I’m uncertain about my next steps. Interestingly, a recruiter reached out to me for a position just two hours before I got the news, so there’s a glimmer of hope there. I’ve always had unconventional needs, especially with my bipolar disorder, and the remote work setup was beneficial for my mental health. I know I can’t afford to be picky, but this situation is really weighing on me. To add to the complexity, I’ve been dealing with personal issues that have left me feeling lost and questioning my identity. It’s strange—people from my past have started reaching out unexpectedly, which adds to the weirdness of it all. If I can’t secure a new job before my severance and unemployment run out, I’m not sure what I’ll do. My family struggles financially and lives far away, and I’ve always been seen as the ‘successful’ one. The thought of having to start over and potentially move in with a friend feels humiliating, especially considering how proud I was to achieve this level of independence given my family's circumstances.

I am currently in the process of pivoting my career towards the healthcare sector, but I have some concerns about my employment history, which isn't the strongest. I'm looking for advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation. How did you manage to navigate the interview process and the thorough background checks that are common in healthcare roles? Any tips or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated!

I was laid off in May from my marketing role at a corporation, and honestly, I saw it coming. I had been trying to leave before it happened, but the timing just didn’t work out. Now, I’m grappling with an existential crisis. I’ve always considered myself more of a writer and editor, but the competition in those fields is overwhelming, especially with the rise of AI. I’ve realized that I don’t enjoy marketing at all, and working in an office is something I truly dislike. During my unemployment, I’ve gone through a significant identity crisis. I’m not sure what direction I want to take my career anymore. I’ve been dabbling in pet care, which I enjoy because it allows me to interact with both people and animals, but so far, it’s only earned me some pocket change. I’m uncertain about its viability as a full-time job. This whole situation has left me feeling extremely depressed. I’m supposed to help a friend with a writing project, but I’m so exhausted that I can’t muster the energy to do it. I find myself just wanting to sleep all the time. I can manage basic tasks like making food and walking dogs, but I feel averse to anything related to job hunting. The thought of returning to an office fills me with despair, yet I’m at a loss for what to do next. I could really use some advice or insights from anyone who has been through something similar.

I recently received a letter notifying me about my upcoming appeal hearing regarding my unemployment benefits, and I’m feeling quite anxious about it. I had to quit my previous job due to a hostile work environment that made me dread going in every day. I often felt nauseous and was constantly on edge, especially after being told to watch my back. There was even a grievance meeting where it was revealed that someone in the office was going to be fired, which only added to the tension. After leaving that job, I was hired at another practice in the same field, where I worked for about 2.5 months. However, communication from my manager dwindled after one of our doctors left unexpectedly, which left me in a confusing situation. I stopped receiving messages about my availability, and I felt uncertain about my position there. Now, as I prepare for the appeal, I’m wondering if I should gather any text messages from coworkers that might support my case. This is my first time going through this process, and I’m looking for any advice on how to best prepare for the hearing.

I experienced a tough layoff back in 2018 when I was working in a marketing role. Everyone around me was talking about how the job market was booming, yet I found myself without a job and no one seemed to care. I was met with responses like, "Stop complaining" and "Just network harder." It felt like I was being told to simply pull myself up by my bootstraps without any real understanding of my situation. Determined to rebuild my career, I took on jobs that weren't ideal for me and put my pride aside. It was a challenging time, and I had to work hard to get back on my feet. Now, as I see others expressing their frustrations about the current job market, I can't help but notice how quickly some of the same people who once preached personal responsibility are now seeking empathy. It seems like the narrative has shifted from "just work harder" to "the system is broken" now that they are facing difficulties themselves. I guess I feel a bit jaded about it all, having gone through my own struggles without much sympathy back then. I needed to vent about this observation, as it brings back memories of my own tough experience.

I had a preliminary phone interview today for a position that I realized isn't a good fit for me. I had initially scheduled an in-person interview, but after the phone call, I decided I really don't want to pursue this job. The in-person interview is about 30 miles away, and I don't want to make that trip for a position I'm not interested in. I'm debating whether to just not show up or to send a note to cancel it. I know it's important to communicate, so I think I will send a message to let them know I'm withdrawing from the candidate pool and wish them luck in finding the right fit.

I currently work for a large multinational corporation that has a significant presence in the US and is expanding internationally. The ongoing layoffs and restructuring have become a constant in our environment, alongside frequent discussions at senior levels about AI and a stream of consultants providing advice on various topics, from EU regulations to pricing strategies in India. However, I've noticed that AI isn't the real driving force behind the job cuts. Instead, I see entire functions being outsourced to countries like Colombia, Lithuania, and India, primarily because labor costs are lower there. The quality of work we receive back is often subpar, but it seems the priority is on cutting costs, which benefits the executives who are already well-compensated. I have a sinking feeling that my colleagues in Germany will be the next to face layoffs, with their roles likely moving to Eastern Europe. Following that, I anticipate more services and finance positions will be eliminated in the US and shifted to locations further south. I can't help but feel that the emphasis on AI is just a convenient excuse for these decisions. It feels more like a strategy to justify moving jobs overseas rather than a genuine shift towards automation. I'm curious if others are experiencing similar situations in their companies.

I recently found myself in a tough situation after being fired from my job at a small family-owned business in Texas. I had been working there for almost three years and had consistently received perfect performance reviews. However, everything changed when I reported a hostile work environment created by my boss. I was blindsided when I was let go without any warning, and now my former employer is appealing my unemployment claim with false accusations of misconduct. The work environment was toxic, with frequent shouting matches among the family members who ran the business. I often found myself in the middle of these conflicts, trying to support my coworkers who were affected by the chaos. After I requested a higher raise during my performance review, I overheard my boss yelling and cursing, which prompted me to bring my concerns to HR (who is also his wife). Despite my attempts to address the issue, they accused me of 'sowing dissent' among my coworkers. After a frustrating meeting with HR, I decided to follow their advice and keep my head down, which meant I stopped going above and beyond in my role. Unfortunately, my motivation waned in the increasingly hostile environment. When HR called me in for a performance discussion, they brought up old issues that had never been communicated to me as problems. It felt like they were searching for any reason to justify my termination. During the meeting, I remained calm but was clearly frustrated. HR suggested I was at an impasse, and when I bluntly stated that I was there for a paycheck, it seemed to push her over the edge. Ultimately, she told me I was fired, and when I asked for documentation, she admitted she didn't have any prepared. Now, I’m preparing for an appeal hearing with the Texas Workforce Commission, feeling anxious about the false claims my former employer is making against me. I’m trying to gather my thoughts and prepare for what to expect at the hearing.

My husband was recently let go from a local family-owned mowing and landscaping business. He received his paycheck for the previous week, but it only reflected 6 hours of work, despite him actually working around 36 hours. He forgot to clock out on two days, but he has coworkers who can confirm his hours. When he approached his boss about the missing pay, he was told, "Well that’s all you’re getting paid," and later, when he went to clock out, his boss informed him he wouldn’t need to clock out because he wouldn’t be returning to the job. Now, we’re unsure of what steps to take next since they seem unwilling to address the issue of his unpaid wages. I’m looking for advice on who to contact regarding this situation, as it seems they have no intention of paying him for the hours he worked.

I wanted to take a moment to vent about my job search journey, which feels like it has been going on for years, even though it's only been 11 months since I left my last position. I made the tough decision to leave my job in August 2025 due to a toxic manager, choosing a career transition over a performance improvement plan. Since then, I've sent out around 200 applications and only managed to land 4 interviews. It's frustrating to feel inadequate, especially when I see how long I've been searching with so few responses. I know I should be grateful for any opportunities, but I'm really hoping to find something that I will enjoy and not just settle for any job. If anyone has suggestions on companies to apply to or avoid, or tips on how to improve my job search, I would really appreciate it. It would be great to hear from others who are in a similar situation.

I recently went through a grueling 5-hour panel interview process for a position I was excited about. The interviews were intense, with no breaks in between, and I really felt like I was showcasing my skills and experience effectively. However, at the end of it all, I was offered a bait-and-switch deal for an hourly job that was not what I had anticipated. It was disheartening to invest so much time and energy only to be presented with an offer that felt like a letdown.