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Today, I received a text from my boss asking me to come in early for a meeting with her and the directors. Shortly after, she told me not to come in and that someone from HR would call me instead. I got the call, and they said that someone from HR wanted to discuss a few things with me before I could return to work, advising me not to go back until everything is resolved. I was told to expect a call on Monday. This situation is particularly stressful for me as I've never been fired or suspended before. I teach from August to May and work at a basketball camp during the summer. Recently, I started at a new camp after moving closer to my teaching job, having previously worked at the same camp since summer 2022. Just a few days before this incident, my boss had texted me and the directors asking us to review the employee handbook, emphasizing that they don’t want counselors instigating issues. I reached out to my directors to see if I had done anything wrong, and they mentioned it was related to behavior issues with a group I supervise, particularly concerning a specific child who has made offensive comments. I had already brought these issues up with my directors, but I’m unsure how they were addressed. I’m feeling anxious about the uncertainty of this situation and what it might mean for my job.

I'm relocating to a small rural town in Indiana in about a week to help take care of my grandmother. I have extensive experience in sales, tech, and customer service, but the job market here seems limited to farms and factories. I'm looking for suggestions on remote jobs that are actually hiring. I've heard that remote positions are becoming harder to find, with many employers advertising them but then requiring in-person work instead. If anyone has leads or advice on where to look for legitimate remote opportunities, I would greatly appreciate it!

I recently completed my job search journey after 2.5 years of applying for full-time positions post-graduation, submitting around 300 applications in total. During this time, I took on freelance and contracting work to build my experience, supplementing my 3 to 4 internships. Throughout the process, I found myself suppressing a lot of emotions just to cope with the overwhelming situation. Now that I've finally secured a job, I’ve started talking to a mental health professional about the emotional toll this experience has taken on me. I’ve realized that feelings of isolation, helplessness, and being trapped were common for me during this time. I'm curious if others have faced similar challenges with their mental health during their job searches and how they managed to work through it.

I filed for unemployment nearly a month ago after finishing my school year in New York, but I haven't heard anything back. I've received no emails, phone calls, or messages through the website. The automated system just says my claim is "pending," and I can't seem to reach a real person to get answers. My colleagues, who also work at the school, have filed for unemployment in the past without issues, so I'm confused about why I'm facing these difficulties. It's frustrating to feel ignored during this process.

I found an interesting opportunity to connect with others who are also navigating layoffs. This Monday, June 22, I'll be joining a hiking group in Los Gatos, CA, specifically for those who are laid off or between jobs. The hike is a 5.4-mile loop with an elevation gain of 1,085 feet, and it's a great chance to clear my head and meet people in similar situations. I'm looking forward to the experience and hope to see some new faces there!

I was recently laid off from my position as a Shopify developer, where I had around 8+ years of experience as a Senior eCommerce Developer. My main focus was on Shopify Plus, custom theme development, app development, and working with GraphQL APIs and BigCommerce Stencil development. Since the layoff, I've been actively applying for new roles in Shopify and BigCommerce, but I'm finding that I'm getting very few responses or interview calls. I've been using LinkedIn, job portals, and company career pages to search for opportunities, but it feels like I'm missing something in my approach. I'm reaching out to this community for advice on what might work better in today's job market for Shopify developers. Specifically, I'm curious about: - The importance of referrals or networking compared to just submitting applications. - Any platforms or strategies that have proven more effective than traditional job boards. - Tips on how to improve response rates from recruiters or companies. I'm also open to freelance, contract, or agency work while I continue my job search. Any guidance or feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

I was laid off in 2024 and it has been a rough journey since then. After losing my job, I took two UX courses to improve my skills and managed to land a job in 2025, but I was laid off again shortly after. Since October 2025, I've been actively applying for jobs, making it to the final rounds multiple times, but either I don’t get selected or, even worse, I get ghosted at the last stage. This ongoing struggle has taken a toll on my mental health. I ran out of money in December, and my girlfriend helped me out during that tough time, but the stress of my situation eventually led her to leave me after five years together. I completely understand her decision, as it has been a lot to handle. Now, I'm trying to pick up the pieces and feeling like a failure, especially as a man. The layoff in 2024 really threw me off course. Just three weeks ago, I had a third-round interview, but I haven't heard back despite following up for updates. It's disheartening.

I was laid off three months ago after working as a project manager at a tech company for over five years. During my time there, I mostly coasted, doing the bare minimum and occasionally putting in extra effort. I avoided office politics and kept my social interactions to a minimum, which seemed to work well for me. However, being unemployed has shifted my perspective on workplace behavior. I've started to notice why some people engage in behaviors I once dismissed as inauthentic, like attending social events or expressing excessive gratitude towards the company. I used to think that asking obvious questions in meetings was just a way to seek visibility, but now I see it differently. When you have responsibilities, you often feel the need to do whatever it takes to keep your job and income secure. While I still don't fully endorse these behaviors, I understand them much better now. Experiencing unemployment has made me reevaluate how I approach work and the value of certain workplace behaviors. I'm curious if others have had similar revelations after experiencing layoffs or periods of unemployment.

I'm feeling really frustrated with my job search lately. I've applied to hundreds of positions, and I keep getting stuck at the second interview stage, only to be rejected afterward. In many cases, I don't even get an interview before being turned down, which is disheartening. What's even more surprising is that I just got rejected for a warehouse job, something I've never experienced before. I only applied because it was nearby and offered decent pay. I have a history of working in warehouse roles when I was younger, so this rejection really hit hard. Now, I'm shifting my focus to sales positions, where I have years of experience. I'm starting to wonder if these companies are genuinely hiring. It seems like many job ads have been up for ages, and I can't help but think that some companies just keep them open to collect resumes without any real intention of filling the roles. It's exhausting trying to figure out what these companies are looking for.

I started a summer internship at a kid's camp, expecting to work on research projects related to my field of study and teach kids occasionally. The job description and interview led me to believe I would mostly be working independently, with just a few hours of interaction with the kids each day. However, upon arrival, I discovered that I was expected to take on almost full counselor duties. My days now stretch to 10-12 hours with minimal breaks, and I'm leading games and managing conflicts among kids, which is overwhelming for me. The pay ends up being about $5/hour, and I barely have time to breathe, let alone focus on my research. I'm feeling burnt out and frustrated because this isn't what I signed up for. I can't even vent to my coworkers since they think my role is easier than theirs. This experience has made me realize that I definitely don't want kids, and while I'm grateful this job is paid (unlike many unpaid internships), I can't shake the feeling of being misled during the hiring process.

I was laid off multiple times in my early twenties, just a few years after graduating from college. It's been a tough journey, and I'm reaching out to hear some positive turnaround stories from others who have faced similar challenges. I know my situation isn't unique, but I feel the need to vent a bit. It seems like job security is a thing of the past, and layoffs are becoming an everyday occurrence. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about rent or bills right now, but I do have my dogs to keep me company. I'm looking for some encouragement or success stories about finding new roles after being laid off. I could really use a boost to get through the rest of the week.

I've been working in corporate communications at a publicly traded company that has been tightening its belt for the past year. We've had a hiring freeze, no travel, and no team events. Over the last six months, my team of 35 has shrunk by 5-6 people due to vague 'strategic' layoffs. The atmosphere is tense, and my remaining colleagues are on edge, as we've been warned that more cuts are coming. This environment has led to an increase in petty backstabbing and unnecessary hostility among team members, which is particularly frustrating in a role where collaboration is key. The information hoarding is making us look unprofessional, and honestly, I'm so fed up with the negativity that I wouldn't mind being laid off at this point. Just hoping for the best, but it's hard to stay positive in this situation.

I've been with my company for over a decade, and it feels like we've been on a rollercoaster since the pandemic hit. We're a publicly traded company and still profitable, but the profits aren't what the board wants, so we've been going through quarterly layoffs for the past few years. Every time someone gets laid off, it shocks everyone around them. People keep saying, "I can't believe they let them go; they did so much for us!" It seems like the higher-ups are just as blindsided as we are. What frustrates me the most is how random it feels. The board of directors, who are just stockholders and not involved in the day-to-day operations, seem to be making decisions based purely on numbers on a spreadsheet. They cut higher-paid employees without any real understanding of their contributions. It makes me wonder if aiming for a higher salary is actually a liability in this environment. It seems like the lower your pay, the more secure your job is. Even though the business is acquiring other companies and not going negative, the layoffs feel arbitrary. It's disheartening to think that our fates are determined by people who don’t know what we do or how we add value. I can't help but feel like we’re all just numbers to a few wealthy individuals.

I recently graduated with a T-Level in mechanical engineering and took a gap year to search for apprenticeships, but unfortunately, I didn’t get accepted into any due to high competition. I’ve managed to gain some experience, like a week of work at a nearby space company and volunteering at an aircraft museum, but it feels like I’m falling behind. Everyone tells me my CV is impressive, but I’m too late for this year’s apprenticeship cycle and now I’m considering looking for a part-time job while I prepare to apply again for 2027. I’ve been thinking about my future and what I want to achieve. I’ve started looking into becoming a pilot, but I feel stuck in my current situation. I still live with my parents and have a dog that I can’t leave alone for long periods, which limits my options. I read about someone taking a week off work, and I can’t even imagine that right now. I’m young and haven’t had a proper job aside from placements, but the thought of working continuously and the stress of not wasting my free time is overwhelming. I’m worried about finding a career I love because it’s such a significant part of life, and I want to avoid student debt by pursuing an apprenticeship instead of going to university. I had my sights set on aerospace, but the options in the UK seem limited, and my childhood dream of becoming an astronaut feels out of reach. I keep hearing about designing turbines, which is interesting, but I’d rather be involved in operating them. Overall, I’m struggling to find my place in the workforce and feeling stressed about making the right choices.

I recently got a referral to UGI Gas Company, and I'm feeling quite nervous about the potential job. I've heard mixed things about the company; while they seem to hire a lot, I've also been informed that layoffs happen frequently. This uncertainty makes me question the stability and reliability of the position. I'm curious if anyone has experience working there and can share insights on how to avoid being laid off. The starting pay is $19.38 an hour, which is a slight improvement over my current earnings, but I'm still apprehensive about taking the leap.

I was unexpectedly laid off from my position at a tech company, which came as a complete shock. They informed me that they were downsizing and moving away from my sector, claiming it was no longer profitable. I received a severance offer of 6 weeks of pay, which I assume is based on my 6 years of service, along with health insurance coverage for another month. I'm also entitled to my last paycheck for this pay period and any unused PTO. I haven't seen the official severance package yet, but I'm considering negotiating for 2 weeks of pay for each year of service instead. I believe I have some leverage due to my contributions during a merger two years ago, where I helped bring in profitable assets, as well as my willingness to take on extra unpaid work to ensure projects were completed. I know that negotiating severance can be tricky, especially since it often depends on the company's needs rather than my past performance. I'm reaching out to see if anyone has successfully negotiated their severance packages and if they have any tips or experiences to share.

I just received an email from my casual contract job informing me that they are terminating my contract. This is my first job ever, and I'm feeling confused and worried about the situation. The last time I worked was on April 18th, which means I haven't worked for them in over three months. I had been keeping them updated about my availability, but it seems that wasn't enough. They want me to return my swipecard, which I plan to do, but I've also emailed them to ask for the reason behind the termination. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to ask this, but I feel like I need some clarity on what went wrong. I can't help but feel a bit ashamed about losing this opportunity.

I quit my job in September 2025 after enduring a toxic work environment that turned my once dream job into a nightmare. I had started working as a Microsoft ERP software developer in April 2021, and for the first couple of years, everything seemed perfect. I was making double my previous salary, had a great rapport with my bosses, and was finally lifting my family out of poverty. I was even traveling internationally for projects, which felt like a dream come true. However, things took a turn in mid-2024 after a major implementation project I managed. Despite the success of the project, my boss, who lacked technical expertise, misinterpreted an audit report and publicly blamed me for failures that were not my fault. He began to undermine my work, prevented me from collaborating with other companies, and made derogatory comments about my worth to the company. The pressure was immense, with me working 16-hour days just to meet unrealistic deadlines. After months of this treatment, I decided to leave the company abruptly. Now, I’m freelancing, which has been mentally refreshing, but the work is scarce, and I’m struggling to make ends meet. I’m uncertain about my future and whether I made the right decision to leave such a high-paying job, but I know I couldn't continue in that toxic environment.

I was laid off over a year ago and have been struggling to find a decent job since then. Currently, I'm working delivery jobs, but the pay is really low. My boyfriend, who comes from a wealthy background and has never had to deal with low-paying jobs, thinks I'm lazy for not having a stable job. This really hurts because I come from a difficult background, having lost both my parents and growing up as an orphan. I have my own physical and mental health challenges, and I've been trying hard to make something of myself despite all this. Today, he made a comment that made me realize he views me as lazy, which broke something inside me. We live together and split rent equally, but he mostly pays for groceries while I cook. We've been together for over a year, and I can count on one hand how many times he has taken me out to eat. I’m not asking for much, but it feels like he doesn't truly support me. I even told him I would be willing to drive two hours for a stable job, but his attitude makes me feel undervalued. I'm just venting about how this situation is affecting me.

I recently faced a tough decision at my job where I was presented with the option of a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) that I was told I would likely fail, or a Mutual Separation Agreement (MSA). I chose the MSA because it seemed like the better option to avoid a negative mark on my record. The reasons for the PIP felt very subjective to me, especially since my manager tends to micromanage and doesn't communicate well, despite my efforts to improve my speaking skills through Toastmasters. I was assured that if anyone called for a reference, they would say positive things about me and my work ethic. However, I'm now questioning whether I can trust them to follow through on that promise, especially since they were prepared to put me on a PIP. I also learned from HR that if I apply for internal positions, they would disclose that my separation was performance-based, which adds to my concerns about my future prospects here. I genuinely like the company but feel out of place in this division. I'm left wondering if my chances of staying with the company are completely gone because of this situation.