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I had a job interview today at a home health agency. My background is in home health aid, but I left that role because the pay was just not sufficient. During the interview, they asked about my car and insurance, which I found a bit odd since it's been a while since I worked as a HHA. I don’t recall getting gas reimbursed in the past. I mentioned my availability and stated that I would need at least $17.50 per hour. The interviewer initially offered $16.25, but then mentioned $20.00 only for special shifts or if someone cancels. I understand that jobs are hard to come by right now, but my rent alone is more than what I would make in two weeks at $16.25 before taxes. I'm considering negotiating my pay rate and asking about gas reimbursement with the agency. I have 15 years of experience in healthcare and 10 years as a HHA/CNA, so I feel I have a strong case.

I was laid off on Monday from my UX research position at a company with around 200 employees. They decided to let go of about 40 people due to financial issues. The severance package I received includes 6 weeks of pay, which is one week for each year of service. I was just one week shy of my 7-year anniversary, so I felt a bit disappointed they didn't round it up to 7 weeks. I'm planning to reach out to the HR representative to see if there's any room for negotiation on the severance package. I have a feeling they might say no, but I think it's worth asking respectfully. I'm curious if anyone has had success in negotiating their severance packages. Have you tried and been told no, or did you manage to get something better?

I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed at my job lately. I work as a supervisor at a manufacturing company, and my shifts run from 3:30 PM to 3:00 AM. It’s exhausting, and I often don’t even get to leave right at 3 AM. I’m grateful to have a job after months of searching, but I can’t shake the frustration of being on a salary while my coworkers make more than I do. To make matters worse, I’ll soon be the only supervisor on shift when my colleague goes on leave, which adds even more pressure. I know the job market is tough right now, and I’m worried about finding something else if I decide to leave. I just needed to vent a bit because I feel really alone in this situation.

I recently submitted 100 job applications, went through 3 interviews, and finally received an accepted offer! However, I won’t be able to start working for another month due to background checks, transcript checks, and company training, along with the slow response times from the employer. Being out of school and not having a job is making me feel really anxious. I've been trying to stay busy, but I'm considering looking for a second job to keep myself motivated until my new role officially begins. I had also thought about applying for grad school, but now I feel a bit lost. Has anyone else experienced something similar? I would appreciate any advice!

I started my first full-time job as a bank teller in August after leaving a toxic environment at a movie theater. I was excited to utilize my Master's degree in Business Analytics, but the transition has been tough. After a month of online training, I began working on the floor, and it's been a struggle ever since. I've been on the floor for about three weeks now, and I often find myself overwhelmed by the various situations that arise with customers. I feel like I’m constantly asking my coworkers for help or searching through company resources for answers. Some of them have expressed frustration at my repeated questions, which adds to my anxiety. I've made mistakes too, and I'm worried that if I continue down this path, it could lead to bigger issues. Feedback about my communication style has also been difficult to digest. I've been told that I share too much information, speak too loudly, and need to be more precise in my checks. This has made me feel like I can't be myself at work, and I find myself constantly editing my behavior to fit the role. I expected a more professional environment, but I've encountered some rude customers, which reminds me of my previous job. Now, I'm questioning if this position is the right fit for me. Although it's entry-level, the stress and pressure are overwhelming, and I don't see myself in finance or banking long-term. I'm torn between giving myself more time to adjust or recognizing that this role may not be suitable for me. I'm reaching out to see if anyone else has faced similar challenges in their first professional job and how they determined if it was just a learning curve or a sign to move on.

I recently faced a significant challenge after recovering from a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) that occurred two years ago while working. The accident happened when I was unloading a front loader off a landoll trailer; a gust of wind slammed a heavy steel door into the back of my head. It took an immense amount of effort and dedication to get back on my feet, including physical, cognitive, and psychological therapies, multiple MRIs, EEGs, and outpatient care. After two years of hard work, I was finally cleared to drive a tractor trailer again, which felt like a huge victory for me. However, re-entering the workforce has proven to be quite difficult. The two-year gap in my CDL has made insurance companies view me as a new trucker, despite my nearly five years of experience in flatbed and heavy equipment hauling in New York City. This gap is affecting my ability to apply for both CDL and non-CDL jobs, as my resume is heavily focused on high-demand trucking roles that typically come with higher pay. I'm contemplating whether it would be beneficial to take a job, even if it's not in trucking, just to fill the gap on my resume and get back into the workforce. I genuinely enjoyed my previous work in trucking; it was challenging, physical, and exciting, and I miss it. I'm at a crossroads and could use some advice on how to navigate this situation.

I had my final interview for an internal position on September 10th and sent a thank you email the following Monday. The recruiter, who has been coordinating the interview process, mentioned that they were wrapping up interviews last week and that I should expect to hear back this week. I have direct communication with the hiring manager, who initially moved my application along quickly and indicated I would receive a prompt response. However, I've noticed that the hiring manager's director was out right after my interview and just returned this week, while the hiring manager is going to be out for a week starting Thursday afternoon. This has me wondering if hearing back this week is realistic or if the recruiter's timeline was just a generic statement. I’m also feeling anxious about my performance during the interview; I was sick and struggled with brain fog, which affected my responses. I’m concerned that I might have blown my chances due to my performance. Should I follow up with the recruiter now, knowing the hiring manager will be out soon, or would that just clutter their inboxes?

I just got fired from my job, and it's a tough pill to swallow since I've never experienced this before. Honestly, it feels pretty terrible, but I have to admit that I really disliked working there, so maybe it's a blessing in disguise. I was already trying to find a way out, but they beat me to it. They didn't give me a clear reason for the termination—just a sudden decision that left me feeling blindsided. On the bright side, I still have four weeks of pay and health insurance coverage until October, which gives me a little breathing room. I'm still trying to process everything, but I'm planning to take a few days to gather my thoughts, update my resume, and start reaching out to my network for new opportunities.

I recently completed an online medical assistant program and earned my certification, but I have no real job experience aside from some volunteering. I had a prescreen interview for a medical assistant position, and the recruiter was incredibly enthusiastic. She even called me to see if we could move the interview to an earlier time. During the call, she acknowledged my lack of hands-on experience but was quick to mention that they could arrange an externship for me by next Monday, with an official start date of October 5th. She went on about the benefits and described the clinic as a family-like environment. I felt like she was overly praising me for simply submitting the required documents on time, which felt a bit excessive. Despite my concerns, I have an official interview scheduled for tomorrow, and I'm trying to keep an open mind. However, I can't shake the feeling that something might be off about this situation. It feels like a choice between this opportunity or facing more months of unemployment.

I’ve been noticing a lot of job postings on various job boards that seem suspicious. They’re often from brand new accounts, just created, and I can't shake the feeling that they might be scams. These posts typically lack any details about the company or the specific role, which makes me hesitant to reach out. I’ve seen comments from others echoing my concerns, suggesting that legitimate companies wouldn’t resort to Reddit for hiring, especially for roles that seem basic like answering emails. It’s disheartening to think that the job market has come to this, where even job ads have turned into potential scams. I’m trying to be cautious and avoid wasting my time on these listings.

I've been struggling to find a job for the past year, and it's been really tough. I never graduated from college due to disabilities that went untreated at the time, and now I'm considering whether going back to school or taking online classes would be a good move. I feel like not having a degree puts me at a serious disadvantage compared to other applicants. My partner and I could manage financially with my loans while I study, and I'm hoping that graduating could lead to better job opportunities in the future. But honestly, I'm feeling lost about what to do next.

I just completed my first job search and it was quite the experience! I had five interviews lined up in just one week. It felt intense but also exciting to be in the running for multiple positions. Each interview was with a different company, and I had to quickly adapt my approach and responses based on the role and company culture. It was a great learning opportunity for me, and I feel more confident in my interviewing skills now. I'm hopeful that one of these opportunities will lead to a job offer!

I'm feeling really down about starting my new job. I used to work at a large company in a demanding industry where I formed strong friendships with my coworkers over three years. We celebrated birthdays, New Year's, and even traveled together. After resigning earlier this year, I've been at my new company for two years now, and I can't shake this feeling of loss. It feels like a breakup; I've hardly heard from my old friends, and it seems like they've moved on without me. My new colleagues are nice, but I miss the deep connections I had before. I know it's probably not as fun for them without me as I imagine, but every day I walk into work surrounded by unfamiliar faces, and it just makes me sad.

I was laid off three weeks ago after spending four years as a Software Engineer in the fintech sector. My last day was September 1st, and although it hasn't been long, I'm already feeling quite demotivated in this challenging job market. During my time in the industry, I built and maintained banking applications, supported production issues, and worked on automated and functional testing, including performance testing for client-specific releases. My tech stack is pretty extensive, including Java, Spring Boot, REST APIs, Kubernetes, Docker, Cucumber, Jenkins, GCP, React, YAML, Bash/Shell, and Linux. In the past three weeks, I've sent out nearly 200 applications for various roles like Software Engineer, application/product support, QA/SDET, and DevOps. Unfortunately, I'm hardly receiving any calls back. It feels overwhelming to see job postings with 100+ applicants, which makes me doubt my chances of getting back into the industry. I find myself obsessively checking job boards like Indeed and LinkedIn throughout the day, even considering unrelated jobs that pay around $50k, which is concerning me. I've had two screening calls, but I was so discouraged going into them that I feel my energy was off. The worst part is the nagging voice in my head telling me I'm wasting my time applying and that I should look for something else to do. Knowing people in tech who have been searching for months only adds to my anxiety. I'm reaching out to anyone who has been laid off recently or has gone through this before: how did you manage to stay motivated? Did you eventually find another role in tech?

I recently started a new job at a company after being laid off from a high-paying role earlier this year. I took some time off, then applied to a bunch of positions and accepted the first offer I received, even though it was the lowest-paying option. Now, just under a month in, I'm feeling like I made a huge mistake. There are numerous red flags, including a lack of structure, documentation, and clear expectations, plus a culture that seems to encourage being always on. This is exactly what I wanted to avoid, and I'm regretting my decision. Conventional wisdom suggests I should stick it out for at least a few months, but I'm worried this experience will look bad on my resume if I leave so soon. I have the savings to support myself while I continue my job search, but I've never been in this situation before where I want to leave a job so quickly.

I recently got laid off from my software engineering position, and honestly, it's been really tough. My mental health has been taking a hit every day since the news broke. I came across a video from Business Insider featuring other software engineers who were laid off from FAANG companies, and it seems like they are also struggling to find new opportunities. I feel like we could really benefit from forming a community to support each other during this challenging time. It would be great to share our side projects and experiences as we navigate the job market together. Anyone else interested in creating a supportive space?

I recently faced a tough rejection from a job I was really excited about. As a recent HR graduate, I've been job searching for months and had a few interviews, but nothing has panned out yet. When I came across a People Operations Coordinator role, I felt it was a perfect match for my skills in HR, employee experience, and recruitment. I dedicated a lot of time to prepare for the interview, researching the company, understanding their mission and values, and practicing my responses to behavioral questions. I even prepared thoughtful questions to ask during the interview. During the interview, I felt a genuine connection with the interviewer, and the conversation flowed smoothly. She mentioned there would be two more rounds of interviews, which made me hopeful that I could be moving forward in the process. I left the interview feeling optimistic, thinking that this could be the opportunity I had been waiting for. However, the very next day, I received an automated rejection email stating they had chosen to move forward with another candidate. It was disheartening, especially since I had invested so much effort and truly envisioned myself in that role. I understand that rejection doesn’t always reflect my abilities; they could have found someone with more experience or an internal candidate. Still, it stings, especially when you really want the job. I know people often say to keep applying or that something better will come along, but honestly, I'm feeling drained. I've been tailoring resumes, writing cover letters, networking, and preparing for interviews, only to face rejection again. This one hit particularly hard because I could see myself thriving in that position. I just needed to vent about it.

I'm currently at a crossroads regarding my job situation. I've been working at my current job, which I'll call Job A, for over a year now. Recently, I received an offer from a new position, Job B, and I'm torn about whether to stay at A or make the switch to B. Job B is appealing because it's much closer to my home, which would save me commuting time. However, the schedule for Job B is a bit unpredictable; while I usually work morning shifts, there are times I’d have to cover afternoon or evening shifts, and I'm concerned that this could negatively impact my health. Both jobs offer similar benefits, like health and dental insurance, but Job A provides more paid time off compared to Job B. Although the pay at Job B is slightly higher, Job A has the advantage of a fixed schedule, which I appreciate. Given the current job market, which isn't the best, I'm hesitant to turn down Job B, but I'm also unsure if it's the right move for me. I'm really struggling to make a decision and weighing the pros and cons of both options.

I recently graduated college and moved back home after working as a mortgage loan originator for a big mortgage company. While the salary was great, the 60-70 hour work weeks left me with no quality of life. My goal is to work in housing, particularly for the government, and I had an interview last month with my desired agency, but unfortunately, I wasn't hired. I'm still actively applying for positions there. Currently, I'm working at a restaurant just to cover my student loan payments and maintain my savings. I recently received an offer for a teacher's assistant position with the city government, which pays $21.50 per hour and includes benefits—something my restaurant job lacks. However, I'm torn because I don't see this role as a long-term career and plan to leave as soon as I can secure a position with the housing agency. I'm seeking advice on whether I should accept this teacher's assistant job or stay in my current role at the restaurant.

I find myself in a tough situation after spending over 16 years at my current job in marketing. Unfortunately, I've lost all my references due to various circumstances, including the passing of my previous references during and after Covid. My department head is willing to provide a reference, but since I'm still working under her, I feel it's not the best option. The person I report to has also become untrustworthy, and I believe they would rather keep me stuck in my current role than support my move to a new opportunity. I realize that the industry I'm in is declining, and I need to diversify my experience. I've been stuck in the mindset of staying long and working hard, thinking it would lead to rewards, but I now see that the job market favors those who switch jobs every few years. I've been feeling a bit low, reflecting on how I've let my career stagnate, and I'm eager to change that despite the current job market challenges. My main concern is how to secure references moving forward. I volunteer my time, but I work directly with clients rather than the organization staff, which complicates things. I don’t have close friends who could act as references either. I’m considering reaching out to local businesses to offer my time in exchange for a reference, or perhaps pursuing freelance clients, but I worry that these options might take too long to yield results. I’m really looking for advice on how to navigate this predicament and find a way to get solid references.