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I got laid off over a year ago due to company-wide layoffs targeting remote workers, and since then, I’ve been struggling to find work. My medical issues prevent me from taking jobs that require standing, which limits my options significantly. I've applied for positions like reception, but they get filled quickly, and I often don’t even get interviews. I hold a degree that feels useless, and while I have a diverse skill set, I lack a clear specialty. My work history includes early childhood education, assisting a newspaper with local events, and working with a bank on account setups and quality control. Ideally, I would like to find remote work that accommodates my medical needs, but the market is flooded with scams and fierce competition for entry-level roles, which is all I am qualified for. At nearly 41, I still live with my mother, who is also in poor health. I worry every day about potentially becoming homeless. The rising cost of living and stagnant wages, combined with the fear of AI taking over jobs, leave me feeling hopeless. My savings are dwindling fast due to car insurance and medical expenses since I’m currently uninsured. I’ve tried everything, but I can’t even land a single interview—just constant rejections and ghosting. It’s been a long time since I felt happy or even smiled. The anxiety and feelings of failure are overwhelming, especially when I can't even apply for basic jobs like McDonald's. I’m at a breaking point and don’t know how much longer I can endure this situation.

I recently accepted a job offer from Company A as an independent contractor, with the understanding that I would transition to a full-time employee after a couple of months. However, shortly after signing the agreement, they informed me that they had to lower both my contractor rate and the future full-time salary by $20K due to a client budget cut. While the pay is still decent and I am currently unemployed, I feel uneasy about the situation and have lost trust in the company. I recognize that nothing is guaranteed until it’s in writing, and even then, they’ve already shown they can change the terms. I’m also aware that as an independent contractor, I lack the protections I would have as a full-time employee in my country. I have another opportunity with Company B that seems promising, but it might take a month to get an offer. In the meantime, I’m applying for other positions as well. If I receive a better offer, I plan to give Company A the required notice and leave professionally, ensuring a proper handover. I’m wondering if my approach is reasonable and how I can navigate this without feeling guilty about leaving Company A.

I am currently navigating a challenging situation at my job in Massachusetts, where I work as a manager at a small business without an HR department. Three months ago, I requested and was granted two weeks off, using my PTO to cover most of it. However, just four days before my vacation, my employer expressed concerns about my commitment to the company, suggesting I was 'quiet quitting' and that my time off was 'suspicious.' She informed me that I would be demoted upon my return, along with a significant pay cut and the dissolution of my PTO. This new position description she provided was confusing and seemed hastily put together. While I am on vacation, I unexpectedly received a jury summons that will extend my leave by an additional 3 days. Upon informing my employer, she insisted on scheduling a meeting to discuss my demotion and pay cut, which is quite alarming given the financial impact it would have on me. I suspect this may be retaliation for my taking time off and for my ongoing job search, as I had previously informed her that a prospective employer might contact her for a reference. I have never filed for unemployment before, but I know my employer typically denies claims. However, I believe I may have grounds to argue retaliation based on our email exchanges. I’m seeking advice on how to proceed from here.

I've been actively job hunting for over a year now, and I've had a frustrating experience with two part-time minimum wage job interviews where I was verbally offered the position but never received any official job offer emails. After the first time, I brushed it off as an unfortunate incident, but when it happened again, I started to wonder if there was something wrong with me or if this is just how companies operate nowadays. Both times, I was told to wait for an official email confirming my hiring, but then I was met with total silence. I tried following up with phone calls and even left voicemails, but I never got any responses. In the first instance, I even went to the store in person, but the manager was supposedly out of the office. It feels incredibly unprofessional and disheartening, especially since these are big box stores. I consider myself polite and maintain good eye contact during interviews, and I have several years of relevant experience along with open availability. I can't understand why, after being told I was chosen and even receiving training dates, the communication just stops. I'm starting to wonder if I'm giving off some sort of vibe that leads them to feel they can ghost me. I would really appreciate any advice on how to navigate this situation or if anyone else has experienced something similar.

I recently received an offer for an entry-level IT position at a bank as a digital consultant. This role involves assisting customers over the phone with their digital banking issues. The pay is $23.50 an hour, which is about $500 less than what I was earning at my previous job. I left that position because I was constantly overworked, often putting in 50 hours a week, and felt micromanaged with no clear future at the company. My hours were all over the place, ranging from early mornings to late nights, and I was working weekends and holidays. The work-life balance was terrible, even though the pay was better. The new job offers a much better schedule, Monday to Friday, with weekends and holidays off, totaling 40 hours a week. The benefits seem solid, and the company has great reviews for its work culture and team dynamics. I'm currently in a good financial situation—no debt and minimal bills—so I could manage with the lower income since I only support myself. Now, I'm weighing the decision of whether taking a pay cut for a healthier work-life balance and my sanity is worth it. I'd appreciate any insights or experiences others might have had with similar decisions!

Today, I had a phone call scheduled with a bank for a teller position. I'm feeling really anxious about it because I don't think I have much to offer. I'm in my mid-30s and have only worked at a grocery store for almost five years, which is my only work experience. I got fired from that job for being late too often, and I struggle with depression and anxiety, which makes it hard for me to feel confident. I know I need to 'sell myself', but I feel like I have nothing to sell. My high school diploma is my only formal education, and I don't have any passions or hobbies to talk about. The grocery store job was tough for me; it was physically and socially draining, and I ended up experiencing severe burnout. I really don't want to go back to that kind of work, but I'm worried that I won't be qualified for anything else. I’ve read that entry-level jobs are a good starting point, but I thought that’s what I was doing with the grocery store. Now, I feel trapped and unsure of how to present myself in this call. I just hope I can find a way to communicate my experience without focusing on my past failures.

I’m 25 years old and feeling completely lost in my career. I didn’t finish college, but I’ve been working since I was young, mainly in property management, customer service, leasing, and sales. I’m good with people—I know how to connect, make them feel comfortable, solve problems, and market creatively. I even ran my own photography business, which gave me experience with clients and social media. The issue is, I really don’t like property management. It drains me, and I feel unfulfilled. Yet, every job search seems to push me back into that field because it’s where most of my experience lies. I feel trapped in a career I never chose intentionally. I know I have valuable skills, but I’m not sure what job titles to search for or where my skills would be appreciated. Not having a degree makes me feel even more limited. I’ve thought about going back to school, but it feels overwhelming and far from improving my life right now. I want a career that values my personality and strengths—something involving people, relationship-building, creativity, customer experience, sales, or helping others. Stability, decent pay, and room for growth are also important to me. Ideally, I’d love a remote or hybrid role, but I know that may not be realistic right away. I’m grateful to have a job that supports me, but I feel guilty for being unhappy when I’m technically doing “better.” I don’t want to spend years in a job I despise just because it’s familiar. Has anyone else transitioned out of property management or built a good career without finishing college? Based on my experience, what roles or industries should I realistically be looking into? I feel like I have a lot to offer—I just don’t know where I belong.

I recently lost my job as a Software Development Engineer at Zoom due to layoffs. I'm now on the lookout for a new position and would love to find a company known for its stability and minimal layoffs. It's been a challenging time, and I'm hoping to connect with others who feel proud of their companies for maintaining a steady workforce.

I've been applying for positions at Accenture and Accenture Federal Services, but I keep experiencing constant ghosting after submitting my applications. It's been really frustrating, and I'm starting to wonder if there's something wrong with my resume that's causing this lack of response. I've tailored my resume for each position, but it seems like I'm not getting any traction. Has anyone else faced this issue with these companies? Any advice on how to improve my chances would be greatly appreciated.

I currently work in a data collection role where my main responsibility is compiling reports based on assigned tasks. Each report comes with an estimated time allocation, but I've been consistently working around 10 hours a day, not counting my two-hour commute. The workload has become overwhelming, with an average of over 9 hours of tasks assigned daily, and that's before factoring in meetings, training sessions, and unexpected issues that arise. This week has been particularly intense, as the entire team has been assigned a staggering 16 hours of work per day. To make matters worse, there's no overtime pay, yet we're expected to work beyond our regular hours to meet these demands. Additionally, every report undergoes a final review, where any mistakes—no matter how minor—are pointed out, which adds to the pressure. I'm seriously considering quitting, but I'm unsure if other companies will have similar issues. This is my first job, and I'm seeking advice on whether I should stick it out or move on.

I recently had an interview that felt incredibly positive. The interviewers were enthusiastic and even mentioned sending over a contract by Friday, which made me really excited about the opportunity. I was looking forward to starting work on Monday. However, when Friday came around, I received a rejection email saying I was not selected for the position. It was a disappointing experience, and I can't help but feel that maybe it would be better if they didn't raise my hopes if they weren't truly considering me for the role.

I am a 28-year-old male who has been in the same job since college for five years. In May 2025, I decided to shift my job search away from traditional white-collar roles and started looking for skilled trades or 'bridge' roles that combine some white-collar responsibilities with hands-on work. I've been using Google Gemini Notebook to aid my search, which suggested that most hiring in these fields would ramp up after Labor Day, as many workers would be on vacation. However, today is September 16, 2026, and I've experienced radio silence since mid-July, aside from one interview for a production scheduler position two weeks ago. I've faced several rejections along the way, but they have slowed down recently. Over the past two months, I reached out to some companies directly, but only received one response, which was an automated out-of-office message. I'm wondering if hiring will actually pick up in industries like manufacturing, construction, and energy, as I continue to seek opportunities.

I recently interviewed for a car salesman position at a Hyundai dealership, but the manager offered me a full-time car porter role instead, paying $17 an hour. He mentioned that after three months, he might consider moving me into sales if my performance is good. Currently, I work as a substitute teacher, making $22 an hour with a flexible schedule, which is great for my full-time college classes. I'm torn about whether to accept the porter position or stick with my current job. I really want to become a car salesman, but I also value my current pay and flexibility. I’ve been getting mixed advice, with many suggesting I shouldn’t leave my job for a lower-paying position that may not lead to sales. I’m really weighing my options here.

I've been on the job hunt since May, focusing on securing a senior software engineering role. With 7 years of experience across three different positions and an internship, I thought I would have a smoother time finding a new opportunity. However, the current market for software jobs feels pretty rough. I've had a couple of close calls—one was with a company I was really excited about, but I didn't perform well in the technical interview. The other opportunity was also promising, but I was hesitant about the long commute, and ultimately, someone more qualified took the position after I made it to the final round. I'm curious to hear from others in similar situations—how long did it take you to find a role in this challenging environment?

I recently came across a discussion about working at Revolut, specifically regarding the probation period, and it raised some red flags for me. A former employee shared their experience on LinkedIn, detailing how they faced significant challenges during their training. They mentioned that their buddy was often unavailable, which left them feeling unsupported. When they raised concerns with their Team Lead, it seems like nothing changed. As they approached the end of their probation, they received multiple quality failures and were given a very short window of about 10 to 15 days to improve. Just days before their probation was set to conclude, they were placed on 14 days of gardening leave, with the message that their employment would end, although they were told it wasn't technically a termination. This situation struck me as quite concerning, especially since I've seen similar accounts from others who have worked at Revolut, particularly in roles related to Operations, FinCrime, AML, KYC, or Risk teams in India. I was seriously considering applying to Revolut, but these experiences make me hesitant. I'm eager to hear from anyone who has worked there about their own experiences, particularly regarding training, support, quality expectations, and overall job security. I want to understand if these issues are widespread or if they are just isolated incidents. If you have insights, please share!

I was laid off from Extreme Networks in July after working there for about four years as a staff software engineer. Overall, I have around eleven years of experience in software development. I'm currently in between roles and actively interviewing. It's been tough dealing with the uncertainty of what comes next, as a layoff impacts more than just my paycheck. It affects my family, with my spouse and four kids relying on me. We're spending less, which in turn means we're contributing less to our local economy and taxes. It feels like companies don't fully grasp the broader impact of layoffs on families and communities. I'm curious if anyone else who was laid off in the summer is still searching for a job or if you've managed to find something.

I received a job offer letter yesterday from a company I interviewed with, but I also have an interview scheduled for tomorrow with another employer. This situation is new for me, as I've never had two opportunities come up at the same time like this. The offer from the first company is valid for 5 days, and I haven't responded to their email yet. I'm considering whether to ask for 24-72 hours to review the offer or to be upfront about my upcoming interview with the second company. Both companies align well with my skills, and I'm torn between accepting the certainty of the first offer and waiting to see how the second interview goes. I’m leaning towards asking for some time to think it over, but I also want to be respectful to the first company.

I recently received a conditional offer for a Field Technician position that requires driving a company vehicle. During the background check, everything came back clean except for my Motor Vehicle Report (MVR). In 2022, I had a reckless driving charge that stemmed from a DUI-related incident, where I fell asleep at a red light after a long drive. I refused the breathalyzer but completed a field sobriety test. My license was suspended but has been fully reinstated since August 2022, and I haven't had any violations since then, maintaining a clean driving record for over three years. Due to the MVR issue, the HR Compliance team sent me a Pre-Adverse Action notice, giving me five business days to provide an explanation or dispute the findings. I’ve compiled a detailed response that addresses the circumstances of my past incident, evidence of my clean driving record since, and my rehabilitation efforts. I’m submitting my response before the deadline, hoping it will help my case.

I have 8 years of experience in Software QA, but my last role ended in April 2024. Since then, I've been actively searching for my next opportunity, but the job market, especially in this field, has been quite challenging. Today, I spoke with two recruiters who both indicated that my career gap is a significant concern and could hinder my chances of landing interviews. During this time, I've taken on unrelated jobs, but none in QA. I'm feeling frustrated and confused about how to address this gap. I understand that if I had chosen to leave the field voluntarily, it might raise questions, but I can't help but feel that the current job market should be taken into account. I'm seeking advice on how to navigate this situation. Is it possible to recover from a two-year gap without any QA roles? I believe that working in other positions should not reflect negatively on my commitment to my career. I'm open to any suggestions or insights from those who have faced similar challenges. Thank you!

I recently applied for several positions but have noticed that my resume isn't getting shortlisted. I'm feeling stuck and unsure about what I might need to improve. I've tried tailoring my resume for each job, but it seems like I'm still missing the mark. I'm looking for advice on how to enhance my resume or any tips on what employers might be looking for that I could incorporate. Any feedback or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!