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FantasticTie7686's journey

Milestones, reflections, and progress updates connected as your layoff-to-next-step story unfolds.

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    It's been nearly five months since I was laid off from a job that I truly loved, where I had spent over a decade. As a mom to a young child, I've found the transition particularly tough. After my child was born, I lost a significant portion of my non-work social circle. Most of my friends either chose not to have kids or have older children, which makes it difficult for them to relate to my current life. I've tried to reach out, letting them know that I'm available and would love to connect, but it often feels like my efforts go unnoticed. My job was a huge part of my identity beyond just being a mom. It provided me with a sense of purpose, productivity, and daily challenges. I miss those small interactions I had with colleagues, even though I worked remotely for a long time and managed to create a supportive work community. Now, I'm not only feeling the pressure of job searching without success, but I'm also grappling with loneliness. My child is in school during the weekdays, which is great for them and gives me time to apply for jobs and network. However, it also leaves me alone with my thoughts, and the silence can be overwhelming. I'm reaching out to see if anyone else is experiencing similar feelings. What strategies have you found helpful in maintaining a positive outlook and tackling each day?

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    I was laid off about a month ago after more than 10 years at my company. I'm thankful for my strong network, which is actively helping me find new opportunities. I received severance, giving me some breathing room, but I want to make the most of this time. Before my layoff, I had applied for an internal role that I later discovered was significantly lower than my previous position. The manager for that role is fantastic, and I believe I would learn a lot from them. Additionally, another position has opened up that combines my former role with another one, offering a promotion. I know I could excel in this role, but it would mean working with the same person who laid me off. I have the chance to pursue either of these roles. The lower role would be easy to secure but would come with a 30% pay cut and set me back in my career progression. However, it would be highly visible and offer pathways to other internal opportunities. The other role would be a significant challenge and a promotion, with potential for further advancement. I'm torn about whether to consider the lower position at all, given my circumstances, and I'm curious about others' thoughts on these options.

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