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I’m considering a role with Meta Reality Labs in their Robotics Studio and I’m trying to gauge how it compares to the regular software teams at Meta. I’ve heard mixed things about the work environment and I’m curious if it’s as cut-throat as people say. I want to know about work-life balance and whether the Robotics teams face more layoffs or reorganizations compared to the core software groups. I would appreciate insights from anyone currently in RL or who has experience there. I found a comment from someone who was in RL from 2023 to 2025, and they mentioned that a significant portion of their colleagues ended up getting laid off or moved to other teams. They suggested that while hardware teams might have it a bit better than software teams, the uncertainty in the headset roadmap is concerning. Overall, their advice was to avoid RL altogether, which has made me rethink this opportunity.

I have a Teams meeting scheduled for Monday at 10:30 AM titled "Project Name Leadership Update." The invite includes me, a developer, my manager, the department director, and HR. I've been with the company for 9 years, and while the business is profitable, I've been through reorganizations before, but HR has never been in those meetings. Interestingly, both of us on the team are the only full-time employees, while the rest are contractors. I noticed that HR was optional on the invite, but they accepted it, which feels concerning. To add to the oddity, we just hired a new full-time developer who starts next week, and another contractor is joining on Monday. I’m trying to prepare myself for the worst, as the short notice and HR's presence seem like red flags. I’ve seen enough layoffs to know that this could be a sign. I plan to ask about how long my health coverage will last, inquire about severance packages, and check my contract for any non-compete clauses. I’ll also identify who I can ask for references if needed. I’ll update on what happens after the meeting.

I was recently laid off and am now actively seeking new opportunities in AML, Financial Crime, Transaction Monitoring, KYC/KYB, and Compliance. I have over 7 years of experience in areas such as AML, EDD, CDD, Transaction Monitoring, SOF/SOW verification, and Financial Crime Risk Assessment. I'm eager to bring my expertise to a new role and contribute from day one. If anyone knows of openings or can provide a referral, I would greatly appreciate your support. Please feel free to reach out or message me. Thank you!

I recently started a new job and it's turning into a nightmare. I'm currently trying to navigate a toxic work environment while looking for a new opportunity. It's been tough, and I feel like I'm dealing with subtle harassment and unnecessary drama. For instance, I've been asked multiple times if I'm a mom, and when I said no, the response felt judgmental. It’s frustrating because I wouldn’t judge anyone for their personal life choices, but it seems like others are judging me for mine. I also had to go into a coworking space for a few hours recently, even though I'm usually remote, because there was no quiet place for meetings. I was told I need to be more participatory during in-office days, which means I have to take calls in a loud environment. During a recent meeting, I was multitasking because I was overwhelmed with client issues, and I didn’t get a chance to contribute. Afterward, I was pinged about my mic being muted, which felt unfair since I was working 18 hours that day. Additionally, my use of a specific note-taking app was publicly criticized during a team meeting. It made me feel singled out and unappreciated for trying to stay organized. Even during onboarding, I expressed feeling overwhelmed by the instability in my workload, and my trainer scoffed at me, which was disheartening. I’m not someone who lets people walk all over me, but sometimes I come off as meek. I’m tempted to have a direct conversation about these issues because they are ridiculous. However, I know the job market is tough right now, and I might be interviewing for months. I'm feeling burnt out from my previous job, and I’m struggling to keep my cool in this current situation. I want to fly under the radar while I search for a new job. If anyone has tips on how to manage this while being covert, I would really appreciate it.

I’m currently in the final stages of the interview process for a new position and the company is moving quickly. Today, they requested my references, and I immediately thought of my former manager from my last job. She was the Director when I worked there, but now she’s moved up to Executive Director. I know she’s likely very busy in her new role. After receiving the request, I sent her an email asking if she would be willing to be my reference. However, I’m unsure about when and how to follow up with her. When I worked for her, she was known for being extremely responsive, often checking emails around the clock, so I’m hopeful she’ll get back to me soon. I’m considering calling her on Monday morning to emphasize the urgency, but I’m worried that it might come off as pushy. The thought of making that call makes me uncomfortable, but I really want to ensure I can provide her as a reference in time.

I just lost my fourth job in six years, and I'm feeling pretty defeated. I'm 28 years old, and this latest position didn't even last a month before I had to leave due to my ongoing struggles with severe depression and anxiety. I'm really at a loss for what to do next. I know I need to focus on my mental health, but I also feel the pressure of needing to find a new job. It's frustrating to think about how this pattern keeps repeating itself. I'm hoping to find some guidance or support on how to move forward.

I was laid off on Wednesday afternoon by my manager at a small remote company. They are paying me until the end of the month and want me to do a handoff call with a couple of colleagues. Interestingly, the CEO was involved in everyone else's layoff calls except for mine. He scheduled a meeting with me for Friday, but I pushed it to Monday because I needed some time to collect myself. I can't help but feel that this call is more for his benefit than mine, and I'm struggling with what to say. I want to be professional, but the emotions are overwhelming. I've never been laid off before, and it took me two years to find this job. Now, after just under a year, I'm left feeling raw and uncertain about how to handle this situation.

I recently started my job search after leaving my previous employer due to health issues. It's been about a week or two, and honestly, the experience has been pretty discouraging. I've applied to several positions in my area and managed to secure a few interviews. One company, FedEx, even requested information for a background check, which gives me some hope, but after that, it's been radio silence. I feel like I present myself well in interviews—I'm respectful, professional, and always dress nicely, even in this sweltering heat. I've tried to remain optimistic, but I can't help but wonder if my age (I'm 19) or my background in customer service and food service is holding me back. My mom thinks it might be a gender or race issue, but I'm not sure how to navigate that. It's really disheartening to feel like I'm not making progress and to be living at home when I feel like I should be independent by now.

I currently work as a salaried employee in the automotive industry, typically on a night shift from 6pm to 7am, which often stretches to 13 hours. My schedule can lead to working up to 78 hours a week, and while I appreciate the financial benefits—around $80k annually with opportunities for advancement—I'm feeling overwhelmed. The long hours leave me little time for my family or personal interests, like filmmaking, which is my true passion. I've spoken to my boss about reducing my hours to 11-12 a day, but he insists that's not possible. It feels frustrating because my day shift counterpart has a lighter workload yet works fewer hours. I love my company and have applied for other positions, but I suspect my superintendent may be hindering my chances of moving up since I perform well in my current role. I worry about missing out on my kids' lives, especially since my own father was often absent due to work. The job market here isn't great, and I'm not sure where else I could find a similar salary without years of experience. Balancing this demanding job with my personal life is becoming increasingly difficult, and it's affecting my mental health.

I recently experienced an unexpected layoff and am now actively seeking new opportunities in the fields of AML, Financial Crime, Transaction Monitoring, KYC/KYB, and Compliance. I have over 7 years of experience in AML, EDD, CDD, Transaction Monitoring, SOF/SOW verification, and Financial Crime Risk Assessment. I'm eager to bring my skills and contribute to a new team right away. If anyone knows of any openings or can provide referrals, I would greatly appreciate your support. Please feel free to reach out to me!

I wanted to reflect on the current economic climate and how it compares to the 2008 financial crisis. Back then, I was in my early 20s and just starting my career. I remember the job market being incredibly tough; many of my peers were struggling to find work, and those who did often ended up in low-paying, dead-end jobs. I was fortunate to land a position in retail, but it was far from fulfilling. Fast forward to today, and it feels like history is repeating itself. The job market is again challenging, with high prices and low wages making it hard to save or invest. I’ve been laid off recently, and it’s disheartening to see how many applications I’ve sent out without any response. It’s like I’m throwing my resume into a black hole. Looking back, the 2008 crisis taught me resilience. I had to adapt and eventually found a way to build a career in IT, but I can't help but wonder how long this current situation will last and what the future holds. I remember the camaraderie during the tough times back then, and I hope we can find that again as we navigate through this economic uncertainty.

I recently quit a new mining job after just 4 weeks because I received a more attractive offer from another company. However, when I informed my current employer of my resignation, they were very eager to keep me on board. They matched the offer I received and even offered me a permanent planner position, which aligns perfectly with my career aspirations. The plan is for me to assist with survey work for a few weeks while they recruit and train additional surveyors, after which I would transition fully into the planning role. I accepted their counteroffer, believing it to be a great long-term opportunity. However, I've been feeling uneasy after someone mentioned that my employer might just be keeping me around until they find replacements for the survey staff, and then I could be let go. Now, I can't shake off that thought. I’m curious if anyone has been in a similar situation where they accepted a counteroffer that included a promotion. Did it turn out well for you, or should I be worried? Does this transition plan sound standard, or am I missing something?

I'm currently on the job hunt and feeling a bit desperate. I came across a job posting online and I'm considering bringing my resume directly to the company. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or if it might annoy the staff. I feel like if I could just meet a hiring manager in person, it might increase my chances of getting an interview. However, I'm worried it might be frowned upon. I’ve seen some advice suggesting that if the posting doesn't specifically say to come in with a resume, I should follow the instructions and apply online instead. But I’ve also heard that in retail or restaurant settings, bringing a resume in person can actually be a good move since many online applications don’t even get seen by a person. I’m thinking about trying it out, especially if I go during a quieter time. Worst case, they just tell me to apply online, and I’m back where I started.

I recently received a job offer for a position and was given a start date of July 23rd. I completed all the necessary onboarding paperwork, including a background check and an I-9 form, which went through without any issues. However, just as I was preparing to start, I received an email stating that the company has decided to move forward with other candidates. I'm feeling really confused and disappointed, especially since I have a clean background and fulfilled all the onboarding requirements. I'm not sure what went wrong or why this happened.

I am currently a geologist and, while I recognize that it's a decent job, I have found myself utterly disillusioned with it. The long hours—often exceeding 100 a week—have taken a toll on my life, and I feel like I've wasted so much time. I'm at a crossroads and really want to transition to remote work. I've been searching for legitimate remote job opportunities, but most of what I've come across seems to be multi-level marketing schemes, which I want to avoid. I'm reaching out to see what others in remote roles are doing that is both fulfilling and legitimate.

I started a new job today after searching for a couple of months, but it hasn't been a great experience so far. During my three interviews, I asked about the pay, but they never provided a clear answer. Today, I spent six hours on my first day looking for something to do, but everyone kept insisting on doing things for me instead. I didn't make any tips, which left me feeling pretty down. When I left, I finally asked how much I was being paid, but my trainer said they weren't allowed to tell me. They also didn't inform me about my next shift, so I'm really uncertain about my future here. It feels really strange to start a job without knowing the pay.

I signed a job offer a couple of weeks ago for a position at a small company, and everything seemed great during the interview process. They countersigned the offer and promised to reach out closer to my start date, which is early next week. However, I've been ghosted since returning from my trip abroad. I emailed and texted today to confirm my return and express my excitement about starting, but I haven't heard back. The company seems legit, and I didn't notice any red flags during the hiring process. Still, I'm starting to worry because I haven't even been asked about a background check, which was mentioned in the signed offer. I know that sometimes companies can be slow with these processes, but the silence is making me anxious. I turned down another job for this one, so I'm really hoping I didn't make the wrong choice. Should I try calling them to get some clarity?

Today, I had a call regarding a job application for a position that is quite a distance from where I currently live. The company wanted me to come in for the first round of interviews, which would require a 2-3 hour drive. Given the circumstances, I suggested that it would be more practical to conduct the initial conversation via Zoom or Teams instead. I framed it as something I would be happy to do after establishing mutual interest. However, they couldn't accommodate my request, and I politely thanked them while wishing them luck in finding the right candidate. I'm left wondering if I was too forward in asking for a virtual interview. It feels like a reasonable request in today's world, especially considering the time and effort involved in traveling for a brief first-round interview. The inability to offer a virtual option feels like a red flag to me.

Today was a tough day for me as I was laid off from my job at a toxic company where I had been working in an administrative role. I had a feeling it was coming, especially after surviving a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) just a few months ago. My boss had been harassing me for the last 18 months, and I was constantly under pressure with poorly documented processes and high stakes for mistakes. Despite my efforts to follow the company manual and adapt to the chaotic environment, it felt like I was set up to fail. I’ve been struggling with my career for years now. I graduated from college with a degree I regret, and I never had the chance to intern or network effectively. This has led to a series of low-paying, unfulfilling jobs that have done nothing but drain my energy and self-worth. I’ve been stuck in low-to-middle five-figure salaries, and with my health declining due to back and hip problems, it’s been increasingly difficult to manage a traditional office job. I’m over 35 now, and it’s disheartening to see my classmates thriving in their careers while I feel like I’m at a standstill, constantly battling ageism and a lack of experience. I’ve never worked for a company that I truly wanted to be a part of, and I often feel like a failure compared to my peers who are advancing in their careers and living fulfilling lives. This layoff has forced me to confront my situation more than ever. I feel isolated, ashamed, and exhausted by the relentless cycle of working jobs that leave me feeling worthless. I don’t have anyone in my life who understands what I’m going through, and it’s hard to see a way forward. I’m just venting, but I hope to find some connection with others who might relate to my struggles.

I've been working in college athletics for about 15 years and have built a solid reputation in the industry, even earning nominations for awards from my peers. Despite my efforts to network and maintain relationships with coaches, I've struggled to advance my career. Most of the coaches I've connected with either retire or remain in assistant roles, which has limited my opportunities. Recently, a coach I thought I had a strong relationship with accepted a head coaching position at an FCS program. I congratulated him and offered my assistance, but he ended up laying off the entire staff except for one position—the one I was interested in. When I asked why he kept that person, he mentioned he didn't touch that department, which left me puzzled. This situation is particularly frustrating because this FCS program is in the same state where my wife and daughter currently live. I was laid off 19 months ago and had to take a job far away, so I was eager to return to my family. Now, I've learned that a colleague is looking for a new assistant because his previous one left to work for the head coach at this FCS school. I had no idea this position was open, and the coach never reached out to me about it. I've heard he even contacted Big Ten schools for hiring recommendations. I'm at a loss. I know I'm qualified for the job, and the location is perfect for my family. I thought I had a good relationship with this coach, but now I'm questioning everything. Should I reach out to him and ask why he chose someone less experienced over me? I don't feel entitled to the position, but it hurts to know I wasn't considered, especially when he knew how much this job meant to me and my family. I'm really struggling with whether or not to ask him directly.