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I started a new role in the pharmaceutical/clinical trials industry about two months ago, and I'm really struggling. The team is quite small, and unfortunately, it's a toxic environment. I don't have much experience, which makes it even harder to navigate the challenges I'm facing. On top of that, I have some mental health issues that I manage with medication, but this job is exacerbating my depression and anxiety. I'm hesitant to quit without another job lined up, but I fear it might take a long time to find something new. I'm feeling quite lost and would appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.

I recently worked at Hartzler Healthcare/Cosyn for a couple of months, and I have to say, it was an incredibly stressful experience. They provided only four days of training for a complex scheduling system, and then threw an overwhelming amount of work my way that was outside my job description, with no increase in pay. Every day brought new rules and expectations, and I was required to log in 15 minutes early for a mandatory meeting filled with complaints and escalations. The workload was intense; I was handling over 130 calls a day, while the call quota was only 50. Despite my efforts, I never received any recognition for my performance. Instead, the team lead constantly monitored my every move, questioning me about my bathroom breaks and the time I spent on tasks. It felt like I was under a microscope, and the communication from management was bizarre and often rude. During training, the trainer compared us to each other in a toxic manner, which only added to the anxiety. I had issues with my call records disappearing and suspected that my team lead or manager was tampering with them. The micromanagement was relentless; I was even called in the middle of my work to report on my progress with assignments. The work environment was filled with negativity, and I found myself shaking and crying at night due to the stress. I ended up taking ZZZ-Quil just to sleep. After feeling overwhelmed, I submitted my two weeks' notice, but during a meeting, the manager convinced me to stay by promising to address my concerns. However, the next day, I received an email stating they would proceed with my resignation, completely blindsiding me. This job was hands down the worst I've ever had, and I would strongly advise anyone to stay away from Hartzler Healthcare/Cosyn.

I was laid off about two years into my first job at a government-regulated private company that had a reputation for stability, having not had layoffs in the past 20 years. The news hit us like a ton of bricks; we were all caught off guard when we received the call and lost access to our accounts just 30 minutes later. It was a shocking experience that really shook my confidence. Fortunately, I managed to secure a high-paying contract just two months after the layoff, and after six months, I was converted to a full-time position. My manager and coworkers have been supportive, consistently giving me positive feedback, but I can't shake the feeling of unease. I constantly worry about budget cuts and what management might be thinking about my performance. Being in a male-dominated field adds to my anxiety. I've often found myself as the only woman in meetings filled with 15 or more men. While everyone has been kind, I feel the pressure to prove my worth and make myself indispensable, which has made me more competitive and overwhelmed than necessary. I never felt this sense of impending doom at my first job, and I wonder if these feelings will ever go away. How can I regain a sense of security in my job?

I've been struggling to find a job outside of food service, where I've spent the last year and a half working. Despite applying for various positions in warehouses, retail, and stocking, I feel like employers are dismissing my applications because of my background. It seems like they assume I'm not serious about the roles I'm applying for. I'm starting to feel frustrated and even considering the idea of lying about my previous work experience just to get my foot in the door somewhere. I'm at a crossroads, wondering if I should just go back to food service or if there are other opportunities I could pursue with my current experience. I've received some advice suggesting I could look into grocery stores, which might lead to other retail positions down the line. I'm hoping to find a way to transition into a different field.

I recently applied for a tier 1 IT position at a non-profit organization and was pleasantly surprised to receive an invitation for an in-person interview less than 24 hours after submitting my application. The HR manager even introduced herself in the email, which made it feel more personal rather than just a generic response. The job description didn't list any degree requirements, only mentioning 'some experience,' which I believe aligns well with my background. I hold a bachelor's degree, a certification, and completed a 12-week internship at my local ISP. I also have personal labs and projects that showcase my skills. Interestingly, it seems this company did not advertise the position on job boards, which might indicate they prefer to keep their hiring process more private. Given that the IT team appears to be small and the role includes responsibilities beyond typical tier 1 tasks, I see this as a great opportunity to kickstart my career in IT. I’m curious if this quick response is a positive sign or if I should be cautious. I really hope to land this job, as it seems like a fantastic chance to grow in my field.

I recently made it to the panel interview for a position I've been pursuing, and it's been a week since then without any updates. I've been out of work since last November and have gone through several interviews, but this was the first time I reached the final round. I'm starting to feel anxious because I keep hearing that preferred candidates usually get feedback within 1-5 business days, and that hasn't happened for me. The interview experience itself was quite confusing. I was told a week prior that I would start with a presentation, but on the day of the interview, I was bombarded with questions before I even had the chance to present. It felt rushed, and only one person on the panel was asking questions, which made it difficult to gauge how well I was doing. This interviewer was particularly overbearing, constantly interrupting me and even turning to chat with someone else while I was talking, which left me feeling like they weren't really paying attention. Despite this, I did notice that another panel member, who I suspect might be the hiring manager, seemed to be engaged and interested in my responses. I'm holding onto a bit of hope that this person could potentially advocate for me, even if the more senior manager was not impressed. I'm just trying to navigate this waiting game and wondering if I should send a follow-up email to check in.

I was laid off on July 16th from my role as a Project Manager at a pharmaceutical company where I had been working as a contractor. I had known since April that my contract wouldn't be renewed, so I took the initiative to update my resume and began applying for internal positions, but unfortunately, that didn't lead anywhere. By mid-June, I shifted my focus to external opportunities in biotech, medical devices, and other pharma companies. My job search strategy involved tailoring my master resume for specific roles and organizing them into separate folders for easy access. I aimed to apply for 3 to 4 jobs daily, focusing on senior program manager, associate director, and project manager positions. In mid-July, I applied for a senior program manager role in supplier quality and went through multiple interview rounds: first with HR, then with the hiring manager, followed by a colleague, and finally with the procurement director. I felt confident in my performance during each interview and made sure to send thank you letters afterward. A week later, I followed up and was thrilled to receive an offer that exceeded my expectations. From this experience, I learned the importance of tailoring resumes for each application, applying directly on company websites, and leveraging LinkedIn to connect with recruiters. I also reached out to my network to let them know I was looking for a job. For interview preparation, I practiced mock interviews to refine my responses. It's a challenging job market, but persistence, networking, and a bit of luck can lead to success. I encourage everyone to support each other during this time—whether it's being a reference or sharing job leads. Every little gesture counts, and it builds a community of support. Wishing everyone the best in their job search!

I'm currently navigating a significant career decision after overcoming cancer, and I'm seeking some guidance on compensation in sales. At 30 years old, I'm trying to rebuild my life and have recently enrolled in prerequisites to pursue a degree in dentistry, despite the daunting $550k debt without a cosigner. However, I'm concerned about the financial outlook for dentists, as many seem to struggle with low take-home pay, especially outside of rural areas. Previously, I majored in IT and worked in procurement, but I found it difficult to advance beyond $30/hour due to limited experience from temp jobs. This led me to consider a shift into sales, as I have some light experience in recruitment and have been told I have a natural talent for it, although I dread cold calling. I'm eager to learn more about the realistic salary expectations in sales. I've seen posts suggesting that sales can lead to high earnings, but I'm skeptical, especially since most sales professionals I know aren't making those lofty figures unless they're in real estate. I'm currently living with my parents and need to make a decision by Monday. I've applied to a few positions, including Enterprise Rent a Car and a staffing agency, and I'm contemplating whether to pursue sales more seriously or stick with my dental aspirations. I'm driven to succeed, but I want to ensure I'm making an informed decision about my future.

I recently found myself in a tough situation at my entry-level job where my role has been essentially automated. I was informed that I need to review AI prompt outputs, scripting, and errors, while still maintaining the same quality of work that I used to do manually. It became clear that the company is shifting entirely towards automation without much input from me. I received an email from a coworker that was originally sent to them by leadership, discussing an AI prompt database. I wasn't involved in the initial discussions and was taken aback when leadership assigned me a task that felt like a demonstration of my obsolescence. I was asked to perform my usual tasks using AI-generated prompts, but I noticed discrepancies in the data and raised my concerns. When I pointed out the inconsistencies, I was told to summarize my observations, which I did. Later, another part of leadership reached out to discuss my findings, but when I asked if I could walk them through my process, they declined and questioned my confusion. Each day, I feel more isolated and overwhelmed. I was told that humans are bottlenecks in AI data processes and that if I don't teach myself outside of work, I risk losing my job. Despite my willingness to adapt and provide value, I was told to 'figure it out for myself.' I feel lost now that my coworkers have distanced themselves from me. Just months ago, I was recognized as a key player in the company, even receiving a promotion for my accuracy and attention to detail. Now, I'm being asked to perform manual quality assurance on multiple platforms while also training the AI models, effectively doing two full-time jobs. The pressure is immense, and I feel sick daily from the stress. I had high hopes for this job, and it's disheartening to see how quickly things have changed.

I finally landed an interview after sending out over 300 applications, which was quite the journey filled with many rejections. I had my first interview on Tuesday, and I felt it went pretty well. Today, I had the second interview, and I think that went well too. During this second interview, the manager mentioned that if I’m chosen, there will be two more interviews to go through. Is this normal? I’ve never had to go through four interviews for a job before, especially for a business operations coordinator position that pays between $43,000 and $55,000. It seems excessive to me, but maybe I’m just not used to this process. I understand the need to find the right candidate, but each interview has been over an hour long, which feels a bit much for a role like this. On the bright side, I’m glad to have made it past the wall of 300 applications, so I’m trying to stay positive about the whole experience.

I recently applied for a job and went through the initial steps of the process. After submitting my resume, I had a phone interview with the recruiter who assured me that she had reviewed it. We then scheduled a second in-person interview with her. However, I was surprised to find that in her email with the details for the second interview, she requested that I resend my resume again. To make matters worse, she attached a form that was essentially an application for the company, asking for all the same information that was already on my resume. This means I will be providing my information three times for the same position. It feels incredibly frustrating and like a waste of time for all applicants involved.

I was placed on a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) at my company, which has about 2,500 employees in the wealth management sector. This all started back in January when I got a new manager, and we quickly clashed. By July, I received a formal PIP after a series of disagreements. During the PIP meeting, I pointed out that my manager had incorrectly noted that I was deficient in an area, which they acknowledged but decided to keep in the documentation for 'consistency'. I also noticed that the timeline for the PIP was wrong—30 days instead of the 60 days we discussed. At the end of that meeting, the HR representative said I would receive the PIP letter via Docusign later that day or the next morning. However, I never got that letter. To make matters worse, my manager retired shortly after placing me on the PIP, and the new manager has been quite critical of me over minor issues. I'm really anxious about being let go when my PIP period ends in September. I’m wondering if the fact that I never signed the PIP gives me any leverage. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I feel like this oversight by HR might work in my favor, but I'm not sure how to navigate it.

I recently encountered a potential job recruitment scam that raised a lot of red flags for me. I was contacted via email by someone named David Abraham, who claimed to be trying to fit me into a job opportunity. However, the whole situation felt off. After doing some research, I found out that the domain he was using was newly registered, which is a common tactic among scammers. The domain was created on August 9th, and when I tried to visit the website, it didn't even return any results. I reached out to the community for advice, and the consensus was that this was indeed a scam. After considering the feedback, I decided to block him. I'm grateful for the support and insights from everyone who helped me identify this as a potential scam.

I’m currently facing a pending layoff at my company, where I work in a department that is set to be restructured in December. The news was dropped on us back in July, and it feels like I’m losing my mind trying to navigate this situation. My management was caught off guard too, as there’s no clear plan for who will take over the responsibilities of our department once it’s dismantled. It’s frustrating to see the person who delivered this news smiling and asking if we had questions while many of us were visibly upset. It feels so disconnected and cringeworthy. We are still expected to perform at our best and continue contributing to a job that we know is being phased out. To make matters worse, we recently received quarterly reports showcasing our department's outstanding performance, only to be told that we’ll be replaced by a third-party company. They expect us to train these new hires, which is just mind-boggling. I’ve just bought a new home and have two special needs children who depend on my income and health benefits. This experience has been a harsh reminder that no matter how dedicated you are or how long you’ve been with a company, it can all be taken away in an instant. It’s painful and has left me feeling sick and angry at times. I needed to vent about this and seek some support as I prepare for what’s next. It’s tough out here in the corporate world.

I recently found myself in a bit of a tense situation at Centene, where I work in the Texas Marketplace line of business. I've been hearing rumors about potential layoffs, and it has me on edge. Interestingly, none of my teammates were let go during the last round, even though we have eight confirmed low performers who have struggled for months. This lack of action has raised questions for me. I've been actively job searching on the side and have even been contacted by two staffing agencies about positions at Centene that match my current role. It's frustrating because our leadership keeps emphasizing 'transparency,' yet we feel completely in the dark about the future of our team. I'm reaching out to see if anyone has any insights or has heard anything about potential layoffs coming down the pipeline. Any information would be greatly appreciated!

I’m feeling really guilty about putting in my two weeks at my current job. I recently accepted a new position that pays over a thousand dollars more a month, is just a block away from my apartment, and offers opportunities for advancement. It’s a full-time role, which is a huge step up from my current situation as a grocery store manager. Here, I’m barely making a dollar over minimum wage, have no benefits, and they rely on me to pick up everyone else’s slack without any chance for promotion. Plus, my commute is quite long. Despite knowing that this change is for the better, I’m feeling awful about leaving. I plan to submit my resignation tomorrow, and I’m really nervous about it. I start training for the new job in two and a half weeks, and while I’m excited about the opportunity, I also feel scared about the unknown. When I quit my first job, I broke down crying on the phone with my boss, and I’m worried I might have a similar reaction this time. I woke up today with a sick feeling in my stomach about it. I know I need to move on, but I can’t shake off this guilt. Why do I feel this way?

I was laid off on June 12 and went through a tough time, feeling lost and panicking as I applied for jobs for a week straight. After that initial chaos, I took a step back to focus on self-care for about a week. Once I regained my composure, I refined my résumé and started applying more strategically. I sent out around 100 applications and went through 20 interviews, including several rounds. Today, I received a written offer that is 10% less than my previous salary but comes with better benefits. Earlier this week, I got a verbal offer for 5% more, though the benefits aren't as good. I also just finished a promising fifth round interview for a position that offers 12% more with amazing benefits, and I'm still in the running for another job that would pay 15% more with decent benefits. I'm planning to accept the written offer since the start date is in the middle of next month, which gives me time to see how the other opportunities unfold. I'm really hoping to land the position with the incredible benefits, but I guess we'll see how it goes. Wishing everyone the best in their job searches—don't lose hope!

I got fired last month from my temp position in IT after being a top performer for 8 months. The company claimed they hired too many temps, but it feels like there was some kind of grudge against me since they just brought on another temp three weeks before I was let go, and he quit shortly after. I really thought I was doing well, but now I'm left feeling like a screw up. My only other experience is as a line cook, but I recently tried to work a shift and ended up throwing up and leaving. I just moved to be closer to this job, and now I'm unemployed, away from my family and friends, with only my dog for company. I’m struggling to find work related to my degree, and I’m starting to feel hopeless about my situation.

I work for an airline under a contractor, and recently, we lost our contract to a new company. The HR team from the new contractor came in with an air of superiority, presenting themselves as our new bosses and highlighting the benefits they offer, which seemed great compared to our previous contractor that provided none. However, I did my research and found numerous negative reviews about the new company, including issues like favoritism, sexism, and poor scheduling. Despite my reservations, I decided to apply for a position with the new contractor because I felt I had no choice. They required an application within seven days for a transfer, which I submitted promptly. The next morning, I received an email stating that they would not be moving forward with my application. Confused, I reached out to their HR team and learned that the rejection was due to my answer to a question about having a valid driver's license. I explained that I don’t have a license because I suffer from PTSD and anxiety related to driving, which has never been an issue in my previous jobs. My GM assured me that they would work something out since my role is strictly office-based and doesn’t require driving. However, I received another call from the HR lady, who bluntly informed me that they still wouldn’t hire me. I feel incredibly frustrated and slighted, especially since I’ve moved halfway across the country for this job and finally found a role I enjoy and see as a career opportunity. I’m considering my options, including filing for unemployment, but I’m unsure of what else to do. I rely on my fiancé for rides to work, and we’ve always been punctual. It’s disheartening to think that I might lose this job due to something that has never been an issue before.

I recently started a new job as a [specific role] at [current company] just 7 days ago. I took this position after interviewing with multiple companies and receiving an offer on the spot since I wasn't employed at the time. However, I just got a call back from another company I interviewed with, and they've offered me a position with over $50k more per year, along with a company gas card and additional benefits that my current job lacks. I really like my new boss and the team, but the pay difference is significant, and the new role comes with higher responsibilities that I believe I can handle. I’m feeling conflicted about how to approach my current employer since I've only been here for a week. I know I need to take the new job for my financial well-being, but I feel bad about leaving so soon, especially since I have a good rapport with my boss. I’m considering how to communicate my decision. Some advice I’ve received suggests being honest about the unexpected offer and thanking my boss for the opportunity, but I’m unsure if I should offer a two-week notice or just leave immediately. I feel guilty about the situation, but I know I need to do what’s best for my career.