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I started my first full-time job as a bank teller in August after leaving a toxic environment at a movie theater. I was excited to utilize my Master's degree in Business Analytics, but the transition has been tough. After a month of online training, I began working on the floor, and it's been a struggle ever since. I've been on the floor for about three weeks now, and I often find myself overwhelmed by the various situations that arise with customers. I feel like I’m constantly asking my coworkers for help or searching through company resources for answers. Some of them have expressed frustration at my repeated questions, which adds to my anxiety. I've made mistakes too, and I'm worried that if I continue down this path, it could lead to bigger issues. Feedback about my communication style has also been difficult to digest. I've been told that I share too much information, speak too loudly, and need to be more precise in my checks. This has made me feel like I can't be myself at work, and I find myself constantly editing my behavior to fit the role. I expected a more professional environment, but I've encountered some rude customers, which reminds me of my previous job. Now, I'm questioning if this position is the right fit for me. Although it's entry-level, the stress and pressure are overwhelming, and I don't see myself in finance or banking long-term. I'm torn between giving myself more time to adjust or recognizing that this role may not be suitable for me. I'm reaching out to see if anyone else has faced similar challenges in their first professional job and how they determined if it was just a learning curve or a sign to move on.

I recently started a new job at a company after being laid off from a high-paying role earlier this year. I took some time off, then applied to a bunch of positions and accepted the first offer I received, even though it was the lowest-paying option. Now, just under a month in, I'm feeling like I made a huge mistake. There are numerous red flags, including a lack of structure, documentation, and clear expectations, plus a culture that seems to encourage being always on. This is exactly what I wanted to avoid, and I'm regretting my decision. Conventional wisdom suggests I should stick it out for at least a few months, but I'm worried this experience will look bad on my resume if I leave so soon. I have the savings to support myself while I continue my job search, but I've never been in this situation before where I want to leave a job so quickly.

After 2 and a half months of searching, I finally secured a job as a technician helper for a local business. It's an overnight position, but I'm just relieved to have found work after such a long time. In addition to that, I'm also working at a Chili's in the Tampa Bay Area.

After working for a company for five years, I was passed over for a promotion when they brought in a manager from out of state. This situation motivated me to negotiate a raise, but ultimately, I decided it was time to look for new opportunities. I managed to secure a new job that paid a bit more per hour and included enrollment in their branch manager training program. However, my experience at the first location was filled with drama due to a new manager who couldn't provide the training I needed. Additionally, the regional vice president was disorganized, making the environment uncomfortable. I then applied for my old job and was welcomed back at my previous salary. The dilemma I'm facing now is that I've already accepted the offer from my old company, but I'm starting to feel more comfortable and content at my new job, which is at a different branch. I'm torn between the two options.

I recently received a job offer from a large organization in a low cost of living area, but I'm coming from a high cost of living area. The salary they offered is close to what I had in mind, but not quite there. During our last call, I asked if there was any flexibility on the salary, and they said no. Now, I have a follow-up call and I'm trying to figure out how to approach a few things. First, I'm considering asking if there's any possibility of increasing the salary by 3-5K to meet my expectations, but I want to come across as assertive rather than desperate. Second, I'm curious about the relocation package. They mentioned I would get details once I accept the offer, but I want to know what that includes, like temporary housing and moving expenses. Lastly, they want a decision by today, but I feel it's fair to ask for more time since this is a significant life change and I still need to sort out my finances. I appreciate any advice or experiences that could help me navigate this situation.

I recently completed the interview process for a specialized role in the Cardiac Rhythm division of a major US-based MedTech company at their offshore Global Capability Center (GCC). I was selected by the hiring team, which felt like a huge win after successfully navigating all the technical panels. However, I've been waiting for over a month for my formal offer letter, and it seems to be stuck in limbo. I've reached out to HR multiple times, and they keep saying they need more time as they are waiting for official sign-off from headquarters in the US. I also spoke with the hiring manager, who informed me that there appears to be a broader hiring freeze affecting certain divisions. The good news is that my specific role hasn't been officially cancelled or added to the freeze list, but it’s still in a state of uncertainty. The manager mentioned that there’s no clear timeline on when HQ will respond, which has left me feeling burnt out and frustrated. I really need this job switch to happen, especially since I put in so much effort to stand out among the competition. I'm curious if anyone has insights into how long these kinds of freezes typically last, especially with fiscal Q2 ending soon. Is it common for pending requisitions to get unlocked at the start of Q3? And once a role is selected and awaiting approval, what are the chances that the offer will eventually be released? Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated!

I started a new job earlier this year that I was really hesitant about, but I felt desperate for work at the time. Unfortunately, it has turned out to be as terrible as I anticipated. I've been applying for other positions without including this job on my resume, but now that I've hit the 7-month mark, I'm reconsidering. I believe the title and experience I’m gaining could be beneficial for my job search, but I'm worried that listing only 7 months might make it look like I'm job hopping. For context, I had a year-long position in 2024/2025, then left for a role that was misrepresented and ended up being unemployed for about 9 months before landing this current job. I've had a few interviews, but no offers yet. I'm debating whether adding this job to my resume will help or hurt my chances.

I am feeling absolutely terrified about leaving my current job in sales. I decided to go back to school for paralegal studies, and my mom suggested that I should try to get into the field early. To my surprise, I applied for a position at a small law firm and got it. However, I'm struggling because I don't enjoy my current job at all; it was a complete accident that I ended up in sales, and I just kept moving up without intending to. My family and friends think my job is overwhelming, and they worry about how much I work. The hardest part is that I have a great relationship with my boss, who has been incredibly supportive, especially after I lost my dad unexpectedly last year. He has been like a father figure to me and believes I have potential to become a manager. Keeping my plans for school and my desire to leave this job a secret has been really tough, and I feel guilty about the idea of quitting. It feels like a betrayal, especially since I know this will blindside him. On top of that, my current job is extremely taxing. I often have to come in on my days off, work a lot of overtime, and even work on holidays. My benefits are practically non-existent, and I don’t get any PTO. I have to go in tomorrow to officially quit, and it’s my day off. I can’t sleep or eat because of the anxiety. I know my boss deserves more respect than just ghosting him, but I’m really struggling to muster the courage to drive in and do it.

I recently had an interview with Taco Bell for a crew member position. During the interview, I got a bit nervous and mistakenly said I could close, but in reality, I cannot work until 2 AM. They ended up hiring me, but now they think I can work those late hours. I'm feeling really anxious about this situation because I don't want to lose the job. I'm considering reaching out to the manager to clarify my availability and hope they can accommodate my schedule. I've seen some advice suggesting that it's better to address this now rather than later, so I'm trying to figure out the best way to communicate my mistake without jeopardizing my new job.

I recently received an incredible job offer with great benefits and pay, and I passed the background check on the 16th. This morning, I got an email stating that I'll receive onboarding information to start this coming Monday. However, I'm currently working part-time in a food service role where I'm barely getting any hours and the work environment is terrible. I haven't given my two-week notice yet, but I want to provide them with a few days' notice out of respect. I'm unsure whether to quit on Friday since I'm not scheduled to work this weekend or if I should give my notice now, considering they confirmed they would contact me on Friday. I'm leaning towards just quitting since it's only a part-time job, but I want to make the right decision.

After being unemployed for 1.5 years, I found myself in a situation I never imagined. Currently, I’m working as a 1099 contractor for a solid but still new-ish company. I manage all my own taxes, contribute to my 401(k), and even set aside money for unemployment in case things go sideways. Overall, I like the job; it’s hybrid, flexible, and I started part-time with a planned transition to full-time very soon. This gives me the option to either stay where I am or move closer into town. However, the downside is that once everything is paid out, my actual take-home isn't quite where I want it to be. Since I haven’t been there long, I'm unsure how much room there is for negotiation on my pay. Now, I'm considering two other job opportunities. Job Two is a demanding role at a major hospital where I would work directly with complex patient needs every day. The workload would be heavy, but the pay is outstanding, and I would need to relocate. Job Three is a part-time position at a hospital focused on psychosocial support. It has less bureaucracy, is meaningful work, and is located in a town I used to live in and dream of returning to. It’s quieter and breathtakingly beautiful, but while the pay is decent, I’d likely need to pick up another part-time job to make ends meet. So here I am, weighing flexibility versus pay, location, and quality of life. It's a tough decision!

I was laid off from my job of five years in June, which came as a complete shock to me. Since then, I've been trying to stay positive and have taken up a full-time position as a server in a restaurant while I search for my next opportunity. However, the job market feels incredibly saturated right now. I've applied to numerous positions but haven't received a single reply, which is starting to worry me. Although I'm managing to get by as a server, working six days a week is exhausting. I'm also experimenting with AI drop shipping to generate some extra income, but so far, I haven't had much success. I'm curious to hear what others are doing to cope during this tough time.

I recently started a new job earning $85k, and I'm currently living with my parents without having to pay rent. However, I received a job offer for $115k in the DC area, which is appealing but comes with the hefty cost of living—rent there averages around $2k a month. The DC position seems to be in a more secure industry, which adds to my dilemma. I'm feeling anxious about the thought of moving, especially since I fear it might jeopardize my current job. I recognize that this is a privileged situation, especially considering I spent 12 months searching for my current role. I'm torn between the potential for a better salary and the anxiety of relocating and the financial implications that come with it.

I recently started a casual job at the airport, and I'm feeling overwhelmed by my schedule. During the interview, I clearly expressed my desire for a stable position with consistent shifts, and the interviewer agreed. However, my roster for the next two weeks includes back-to-back day and night shifts, which is really taking a toll on me. One day I’m working from 3am to 11am, and the next I’m on from 7pm to 3am, and it feels like a never-ending cycle. I do have a few days off, but I’m struggling to understand how I’m going to manage my sleep and overall health with this schedule. I’ve been searching for a job for months, and this opportunity was my only option to pay my bills and eat. I have a university degree, a solid cover letter, and I interview well, but the job market is tough right now. Since the position is casual, I’m not sure if there’s any room for negotiation, but I feel blindsided by the lack of stability I was promised. I’m also on new medication that affects my sleep, which adds to my concern for my health. Has anyone else experienced something similar? What should I do?

I recently signed a job offer, but now I’m facing a potential issue with the background check. I realized that I mistakenly listed the wrong graduation dates on my CV for both my MA and BA degrees; I put June instead of July, although the year is correct. I also made a similar mistake with one of my previous jobs, listing a month earlier than the actual date, which is only a few days off. I wrote my CV from memory, and I didn’t stretch any periods, just made some typos. I’m worried they might withdraw the offer because of this. I’ve seen some comments suggesting that date accuracy isn’t a big deal as long as my degree is valid, but I’m still anxious about it. What should I do?

I recently started a part-time job at FedEx after being laid off from what I considered my dream job. It took me nearly two years to find this position, and I was really excited to finally have some income again. However, after just a week, I'm already questioning whether I should quit. The training was minimal, and I was thrown into loading trucks without proper preparation. The job is incredibly demanding and stressful, and I find myself working harder than I ever have for one of the lowest paychecks I've received in my 20s. Living in Raleigh, NC, where the job market is particularly tough, I didn’t think much about the costs associated with getting to work. My roommate has been covering my Uber rides, which adds up to a significant amount each week. After doing the math, I realized that I’m only pocketing about $70-$30 a week after transportation costs, not even factoring in food expenses. I was initially determined to stick it out, but now I'm feeling overwhelmed and unhappy. My family and friends were excited for me when I got this job, and I’m torn between quitting and trying to make it work. I’m leaning towards quitting because of the relentless pace and stress, but I’m unsure if that’s the right choice. I could really use some advice on what to do next.

I recently received a job offer from a company in a Gulf country after going through several interview rounds. Initially, they confirmed my salary expectations twice via email, so I felt confident about my asking amount. However, when the formal offer came through, it was about $2000 less per month than what I requested. This discrepancy is significant for my potential lifestyle there, and I'm currently well-employed, so I don't necessarily need to make a move unless it's worthwhile. I'm contemplating whether I should negotiate for my original salary since they never explicitly said they couldn't meet it. The current offer is decent, but I’m already living comfortably in my current role. I need to respond by tomorrow, and I'm seeking advice on whether it's worth it to push for the salary I initially asked for.

I started a new job this month that I was really excited about, but it’s not working out as I hoped. I’m an independent contractor for a new business that doesn’t have a strong client base yet. My role involves clients signing up for my services through our website, where they can see a photo and description of me. There are two other people in the same role, and we communicate regularly. Unfortunately, I’ve had very few clients compared to my coworkers. Financially, it’s tough since there are no guaranteed hours, and I’m required to keep certain days available for work, but I haven’t been getting any clients, which means no pay. I can’t shake the feeling of rejection, and I wonder if my appearance or profile is affecting clients' decisions. I’m starting to think this job might not work out, and I might have to quit or risk being let go because I’m not bringing in clients like my coworkers, one of whom had five clients on her first day. I also can’t help but wonder if there’s an element of racism at play, as my profession feels very race and gender coded. I started this job with enthusiasm and confidence, especially since it pays better than my previous part-time job. Learning I got the position felt like a lifeline, but now I feel embarrassed about the lack of clients. My coworkers are aware of my situation and seem sympathetic. I’m not planning to quit just yet, but I am going to start job searching again.

I recently faced a tough situation in my career in healthcare. I worked at a clinic where I tried to report serious HIPAA violations and issues like inaccurate timecards. After bringing these concerns to HR, I found that my clean record was being manipulated, and I was ultimately fired. Despite this, I managed to secure a new job at a similar urgent care facility, which I thought would be a fresh start. I passed all onboarding quickly since I was already familiar with the EHR system. However, after just a month, I was called into a meeting and told I was being let go. The reason? My coworkers felt uncomfortable approaching me, despite sharing their personal lives with me daily. I was accused of not following workflows, but the truth was that there was no clear workflow in place. I asked for specific examples of my supposed mistakes, but none were provided. It was disheartening to see my colleagues clocking in late, taking long breaks, and not adhering to the dress code while I was consistently punctual and ready to work. I was often the only one present, even opening and closing the clinic on my own. Now, I’m left without a job for the second time in six months, and I’m struggling with the financial implications. I fear losing my apartment and car, and I'm worried about my health insurance expiring soon. This experience has left me feeling disillusioned about the healthcare industry, and I’m contemplating a complete career change, though I’m uncertain about what direction to take next. All I want is to find stable work and manage my bills.

I just landed a job offer after being unemployed for over a year, which feels like a huge relief. The commute isn't bad, but the pay is quite low, which seems to be the norm these days. I accepted the offer and I'm set to start tomorrow. However, I noticed a clause in the employment agreement about temporary layoffs, which I don't recall seeing in my previous job. This clause gives the company the right to lay me off temporarily at any time. I understand that small businesses are facing challenges right now, so I get why they might include something like this. Still, it makes me wonder if they plan to keep me only on a temporary basis. I've heard that these clauses can be common in certain industries, especially in manufacturing or seasonal work, as they allow companies to put employees on unpaid leave instead of outright firing them when business slows down. I guess I have nothing to lose by starting this job, but I'm curious if I should be concerned about this clause. Could it be a sign that they might reduce my hours or let me go soon? I’d appreciate any insights from others who might have experienced something similar.