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I was laid off from Amazon this morning at 3:18 AM after dedicating 10 years to the company. Throughout my time there, my performance reviews consistently exceeded expectations, with only two instances of lower ratings due to transitioning into new roles. This layoff hit particularly hard as it happened while I was on maternity leave. I'm reaching out to see if there are others who were also laid off at Amazon today or this week, specifically in the Selling Partner Services group. It feels disheartening to think that after a decade of hard work, I could be let go, especially during such a vulnerable time.

I’m currently navigating a tricky situation in my job search. I recently had a few interviews that went well, and one company is moving forward with their hiring process. They’ve requested four references, which seemed manageable at first. However, I’ve hit a snag: one of my references passed away unexpectedly two weeks ago, and another reference was let go just last week. I’ve tried reaching out to them, but haven’t been able to connect. I’m considering explaining this situation to the hiring committee, as I believe they might understand, but I worry it could come off as unprofessional. I’m also thinking about asking some colleagues for a reference, but I’m hesitant because I don’t want my current employer to find out that I’m looking elsewhere. While I’m friendly with my coworkers and doubt there would be any backlash, I’ve heard enough horror stories to be cautious. Has anyone else faced a similar challenge? I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.

I completed my second interview at Aritzia and it's been two weeks since then without any updates. I reached out via email for a follow-up a week after the interview, but haven't received a response. I even tried calling the store multiple times, but it just rings endlessly. I'm starting to feel concerned about the lack of communication. I've heard that Aritzia isn't the best when it comes to their hiring process, but I didn't expect it to be this unresponsive.

I've been experiencing a dry spell with recruiter calls lately. September was particularly slow for me, and I'm starting to wonder if others are feeling the same way. I haven't received any calls, and it seems like the job market is pretty quiet right now. One person even mentioned they were informed that a position they applied for two weeks ago no longer exists, which is really discouraging. I guess many companies tend to slow down their hiring as the year comes to a close. It's a bit frustrating, but I'm trying to stay hopeful.

I'm currently in Colorado and feeling really anxious about my unemployment benefits running out at the end of November. I'm actively job searching and have been going on interviews, but the job market is incredibly tough right now, and I keep hitting walls. I'm also on necessary medications and already use discounts, so I can't save any more money than I already am. I'm just looking for any information on whether there are ways to extend my benefits. It's a scary situation, and I appreciate any insights.

I was put on paid administrative leave from my job at a local university where I work in student well-being. This situation arose after I confided in my boss about my struggles with burnout, loneliness, and a relapse into sex work. I had been trying to manage a temporary part-time role while also working a side job at a restaurant to make ends meet. The emotional toll from a traumatic relationship earlier this year had left me feeling overwhelmed and isolated. During a particularly tough day, I reached out to my boss, and she suggested we meet to discuss my well-being. I broke down and shared everything, which led to her expressing concern and ultimately placing me on leave as a precautionary measure. While they assured me this wasn’t punitive, I’m left in limbo without any updates on my job status. In the meantime, I’ve been applying for other positions, including a pub job and a few administrative roles that offer better pay. I even had a promising phone interview with a nonprofit that aligns with my experiences. I’m trying to focus on self-care, attending therapy, and managing daily life tasks, but it’s challenging without much support. I’m not sure what the future holds for my current job or the new opportunities, and I’m seeking advice or encouragement during this difficult time.

I'm currently navigating my job search in the compliance/legal field within financial services, and I've been using LinkedIn's new AI search feature. However, I've encountered some challenges. My typical search query includes terms like "remote compliance roles in banks or fintechs posted in the last 24 hours." While the AI does a decent job with the compliance aspect, it often returns a significant number of jobs in health care instead of banking or fintech. Additionally, I'm finding that many of the jobs listed as remote are actually hybrid or on-site, which isn't what I'm looking for. I've also noticed that there's no clear location filter in the AI search, which makes it even harder to find relevant positions. I'm seeking tips to refine my search results and improve my chances of finding suitable remote roles.

I was recently let go from my first post-grad job after just 4 months, and I’m feeling completely devastated. I graduated with a B.S. in electrical engineering and started a consulting position that I had lined up since last October. Unfortunately, I was flagged for underperformance during my performance reviews last week. I take full responsibility for my mistakes; I struggled to adapt and often had to redo my work. Despite putting in a lot of effort, I just didn’t seem to be a good fit for the role. Now, I’m feeling terrified and depressed about what comes next. I’ve just settled into a new apartment on my own and managed to keep my savings intact, which gives me some options. I could either stretch my savings while applying for new jobs in the area or consider terminating my lease and moving back home with my parents. I’m also thinking about reaching out to a local internship from last summer where I received a return offer, but I’m unsure if that’s the right move since I initially turned it down. I really tried to connect with my coworkers and take on my responsibilities, but I kept making errors. This experience has been incredibly tough, and I’m seeking guidance on how to move forward. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I am currently facing a challenge with my unemployment benefits while preparing for international travel. I will be away for a few weeks and will miss three certification periods. Although I will be back in the U.S. in time to certify for one week, I will have been traveling the entire previous week. I've tried reaching out to the Department of Labor multiple times to report my travel plans, but I've been disconnected each time due to high call volume. The online messaging system just redirects me back to calling. I understand that I shouldn't certify while abroad, but I'm worried about the potential cancellation of my benefits for not certifying for those weeks. I'm seeking advice on the best steps to take in this situation.

I recently had a wild experience while job hunting that I need to vent about. I've been searching for a high-salary remote job that aligns with my degree, and I was thrilled when a well-known company reached out to me for what seemed like my dream position. I had an interview with HR in June, and everything was looking promising until I was informed that the role had been filled. However, the HR rep mentioned a new position was opening up that I would be a great fit for, which reignited my hope. She sent me a massive assessment that required a detailed 5-page written response, which I completed and submitted within three days. After that, I heard nothing for two months. I sent a couple of polite check-in emails, but they went unanswered, and I assumed the position had been closed. Out of the blue, the HR rep returned with a huge apology for the delay and asked if I was still interested. To my surprise, she included a $50 Amazon gift card as a peace offering. I thought maybe this was a good sign, so I decided to continue with the process. We scheduled a meeting with the team leader, which went incredibly well. The next day, I received feedback that they loved me and just needed one final chat with the General Manager to finalize the proposal. But then, silence again. It has now been a full month without any communication. We are at the five-month mark of this back-and-forth, and my enthusiasm for working with them has completely faded. Has anyone else experienced something similar, where a recruiter has sent a gift card after ghosting? It feels like they might be trying to buy my silence or just messing with my sanity.

Today, my team meeting was unexpectedly canceled and replaced with a 30-minute skip level call titled "Org Update." I have a sinking feeling about what this could mean for my position at the company. The atmosphere feels tense, and I can't shake the anxiety about potential layoffs. I've started gathering important documents and files that I might need for my resume, just in case. I've also exchanged personal contact information with a few colleagues to ensure we can stay connected, regardless of what happens. It's a tough situation, and I'm trying to prepare myself mentally for whatever news might come my way.

I just had a frustrating experience with a Senior Operations role at a mid-sized logistics firm. After spending four weeks going through interviews and a case presentation, I received an offer that was shockingly low. The job listing stated a salary range of $90,000 to $100,000, and I confirmed with the recruiter that the base salary would be around $95k. However, when the formal offer came in, it was only $58,000. I thought it was a mistake and immediately contacted HR to address the discrepancy. The recruiter laughed and explained that the $95k was an 'aspirational ceiling' for future performance, not the starting salary. I felt completely misled after investing so much time into the process. I withdrew my application on the spot, expressing my disappointment in their approach. The recruiter even suggested I was being 'hostile' about money, which I found outrageous. This kind of bait-and-switch tactic is incredibly frustrating, especially in a tough job market.

I just found out that I didn’t get the promotion I was hoping for at the marketing agency where I’ve been working for the past three years. To say I’m frustrated and hurt would be an understatement. When I started, I was the only designer, and I really put my all into the company. I consistently stayed late for urgent projects, sought out improvements during my free time, trained new hires, and eventually took on the responsibility of managing the design team. I felt like my hard work was acknowledged through bonuses and raises, which kept me motivated. However, things changed when the company hired a Chief Strategy Officer and restructured the team. They brought in a new manager above me who had more experience, which I initially saw as a positive change. Unfortunately, he ended up relying on me more than I expected, admitting on his first day that he needed to learn from me about managing the team. That was a huge red flag, and after a year, he was let go because he wasn’t effective in his role. I thought that after all the assistant-manager work I had been doing, I would finally get the promotion. Instead, they promoted someone who had only been with us for six months, despite their work needing constant corrections. I ended up training both the new designers and their manager, which made me feel like my years of experience and effort didn’t matter at all. Today’s four-hour meeting was the last straw. My designs were heavily criticized, while they praised the new designer who had complete creative freedom. It’s disheartening because the rest of us have been working under strict rules that stifled our creativity for a year. Right now, I feel undervalued despite all the responsibility I’ve taken on, the problems I’ve solved, and the support I’ve provided to the team. My morale is at an all-time low, and it seems like the entire team feels the same way. I need this job, and I’m not ready to start looking for something else, so for now, I’ll stay and try not to take it all personally. But honestly, I’m just really disappointed.

I was fired from my role in entertainment PR in January 2025, a job I truly loved but struggled to thrive in due to a mix of personal issues and a lack of support from my employer. Since then, I've been unemployed for 22 months, mainly due to medical problems and family emergencies that kept me from job hunting. Now, I'm ready to get back into the workforce, but I feel lost about how to address my situation. I’m particularly concerned about how to discuss being fired when applying for similar roles. I’ve been advised to frame it as a role that wasn’t the right fit long-term, emphasizing what I learned rather than focusing on the negative. Additionally, I have a significant employment gap that I can't really explain with skill-building, which makes me worry about how to present that on my resume. I’ve heard some people suggest omitting dates and just stating the number of years spent at a job instead. Another issue is that I don’t have references from my last employer, but I do have good relationships with former coworkers who have since moved on. I’m unsure if those connections still hold value after a long period of no contact. Finally, I’m debating whether it’s worth reaching out to someone at a company after applying. In the past, those follow-ups led to more interviews, but I’ve heard mixed opinions on whether that’s still effective or considered inappropriate now. Overall, I’m looking for guidance on how to navigate these challenges as I re-enter the job market.

I recently left my job and took a month to relax before diving into my job search about two months ago. It's been exhausting, but I'm willing to send out over 100 applications a day. However, I've been shocked by how intrusive some companies have become during the application process. For instance, I applied to a well-known company that asked for my government IDs right in the application form. I understand that they might need this information if they decide to interview me and extend an offer, but why do they need it at the application stage? It feels inappropriate to share such personal information with a company that hasn't even accepted my application yet. This isn't an isolated incident either; I've encountered at least five companies asking for excessive personal details, including one that wanted information about my family's employment. I'm left wondering if this is the new norm in job applications, as my last job hunt was over three years ago and I don't recall it being this invasive.

I got laid off from my role at a nonprofit in the Spring due to the end of external grant funding, not because of my performance. I quietly updated my LinkedIn without making a big announcement about it. Recently, I received a message on LinkedIn from a recent grad I had coffee with earlier this year. During that meeting, she was very eager to network and learn about working at my former employer. Fast forward 8 months, and she reached out again after 8 PM, asking for referrals for two job openings at the same place that laid me off, one of which pays double what I used to make. I ignored her first message, as I was busy, but she followed up again today. I’m torn on how to respond. I don’t know her well, and I feel uncomfortable providing details about my layoff. I wonder if it’s common sense not to ask for a referral from someone who was recently laid off, especially without knowing the circumstances. Am I overreacting, or is it reasonable to feel put off by this? I’m leaning towards just leaving her on read.

I’ve been reflecting on the current job market, especially as an IT Project Manager. It seems like a lot of managers, including those in technical roles, are often the first to be laid off due to their higher salaries. I’m curious about the experiences of others in similar positions. Have you faced layoffs before? How did you manage to survive them? What has your tenure looked like in these roles? I’m looking for tips and strategies on how to navigate layoffs as a manager.

I was recently laid off from my position as Senior Manager of Marketing at a company where I worked for about 15 months. The company has a formal severance policy that states senior managers receive 6 weeks of severance pay. However, my employer is arguing that my title isn't relevant and is categorizing me as a 'manager' level, which would only entitle me to 3 weeks of severance. I've asked for documentation that outlines how this determination is made consistently across the company, but they keep avoiding the request or giving vague answers. It feels like they are trying to shortchange me with their reasoning. I'm considering whether I should spend $500 on a consultation with a lawyer to help negotiate a better severance package or if I should attempt to handle this myself. I've never been in this situation before and I'm unsure of my leverage. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I'm currently on Day 2 of my new permanent role, and I'm feeling quite frustrated. I recently transitioned from a contract position where I was a top performer, but due to some unclear timelines from the agency, I started looking for something more stable. I accepted a permanent position at a new company, only to discover that it feels like a bait-and-switch. The role is much more entry-level than I was led to believe, and I've overheard HR making jokes about me, which is disheartening. To add to the complexity, the company I just joined has a conflict of interest with my previous contract client, which forced me to leave that role on very short notice. Now, my old client has offered to take me back, but with a catch: I would have to commit to not seeking other employment for six months. I'm worried about the implications of leaving a job after just two days and how I would explain this on my resume and in interviews. I’m seeking advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation. Should I go back to my old contract client, or is that agreement too restrictive? Is it realistic to leave a job after such a short time, and how can I navigate this without burning bridges? Any insights would be greatly appreciated as I try to make the best decision moving forward.

I recently got laid off from my job where I was employed as a [specific role] since May 2023. Upon being let go, I discovered that my former employer failed to inform me about the company's 401k Simple plan, which included a 3% company match after 60 days. We only found out about it in August 2026, well after the eligibility period, when a new hire asked about it. The company claimed they didn't bother to ask us because previous employees declined to participate. After some questioning, we were finally allowed to sign up, but the 401k representative mentioned that it was unlawful to offer the plan to some employees and not others. To 'fix' this, my boss promised to pay us the equivalent of the missed contributions and matching at the end of the year, totaling around $6000. I was okay with that, despite missing out on potential interest. However, when the deductions for the 401k started coming out of my paycheck in September, they were calculated incorrectly, leading to an increase in my federal taxes instead of a decrease. I raised this issue with my boss, but she dismissed my concerns and told me to wait until October to see if it would resolve itself. Unfortunately, I was laid off last week due to economic reasons, and when I asked about the promised $6000, my boss said I wouldn't be receiving it. I’m now left wondering if I have any recourse, especially since I have no written documentation of these promises.