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I just landed a new job with a significant pay increase, and I start next Monday! I'm really excited about this opportunity since it's the highest salary I've ever earned. However, my current job has been a nightmare. I've been working in a high-intensity sales role for the past nine months, and I've witnessed a staggering 93% turnover rate. It's been chaotic, with constant pressure and unrealistic sales goals. I was already on a performance improvement plan and facing another sales goal, so I knew my time there was limited. I was likely going to be let go or demoted soon. Now, I'm trying to figure out how to use my remaining 40 hours of PTO next week. I want to make sure I get one last paycheck from my current job while waiting for my first check from the new role. Unfortunately, I know that if I request PTO, they might fire me before approving it. I currently have short and long-term disability coverage, so I'm considering calling in sick for a few days to use my PTO without raising any red flags. I’ve seen suggestions online about how to handle this, like taking sick days and then quitting, which might be my best bet. If anyone has any advice or strategies for exiting gracefully while maximizing my PTO, I would really appreciate it!

I reached out to a connection on LinkedIn who works at a company I'm targeting, hoping to get a referral for an open role. I sent a polite message asking if he could refer me, but his response was blunt: "I only refer people I have actually worked with." At first, I felt a bit hurt by his response, but after reflecting on it, I realized he was right. If he puts his name on my resume and I don't perform well, it could damage his reputation. It made me think about the challenge of breaking into a new network. If everyone only refers people they know, how can someone like me get a chance? It feels like a Catch-22: I need a referral to get past the resume bots, but I can't get a referral without having worked with someone already. I wonder what the best approach is—should I spend months building a relationship with someone just for a referral? Or is networking on LinkedIn just a myth if there's no shared history? I'm curious how others have navigated this situation.

I recently started a new job in a small marketing team at a financial services company in the UK, and I’m feeling really conflicted about it. I’m just two months in, and what initially felt like a dream job has quickly turned into a nightmare. In the beginning, everything seemed perfect—my manager and teammate were fantastic, and the commute was a breeze. However, as time went on, the reality of the workload and the expectations began to set in. I’m part of a three-person team, and while we have a good dynamic, the company culture is toxic. I ignored the 3.2 rating on Glassdoor, thinking it wouldn’t apply to me, but I was wrong. The unpaid overtime is becoming unbearable, and the deadlines are unrealistic. I signed an opt-out clause in my contract, which means I can legally work over 48 hours a week without any extra pay or time off, and it feels like I’m constantly being pulled in different directions. I’m okay with being busy, but the pressure to make everything perfect for the CEO is overwhelming. I dread going to work every day, and it’s affecting my mental health. I want to start looking for a new job, but I’m worried that leaving after just two months will look bad on my resume. I feel stuck and unsure of what to do next. It’s disheartening to think that good companies might not even exist. I’m reaching out for advice on how to cope with this situation or any insights on moving forward. Even if you just want to share your own experiences, I’d appreciate it. Let’s support each other through this.

I started a new remote job at a corporate company in late April after being laid off earlier this year. Although the position is high up and pays well, I’m finding it to be incredibly toxic and disorganized. The work environment is intense, and it feels like every day presents a new challenge. Leadership is unprofessional, and I feel overwhelmed by the chaos. I can't quit because my family relies on my salary and health insurance, but I’m struggling to cope. I’ve been trying to make the best of it, but I’m genuinely at a breaking point and seeking advice on how to survive this situation while I quietly look for a new job.

I recently made the decision to quit my job as a Customer Service Representative (CSR) without having a concrete plan in place for what comes next. It was a tough choice, but I felt it was necessary for my mental well-being. Now, I'm feeling a bit lost and could really use some advice on how to navigate this transition. I'm open to exploring different career options and would appreciate any tips on job searching, networking, or even considering further education. What should I do next?

I've been having some really vivid dreams about the job I lost recently. I worked there for 9 years and it was my first real job, so it meant a lot to me. Since I was terminated, I keep dreaming that I'm still there, begging not to be let go, or I wake up feeling this overwhelming sadness because I realize it’s just a dream. It's exhausting; I find myself sleeping for 10 hours a day now, whereas I used to get by on 6 or 7 and still have energy. I can't shake this feeling of guilt and constantly think about what I could have done differently. Handing in my badge and key felt like the finality of it all, and at 36 years old, it's been tough to process.

I'm facing a tough situation as I'm getting laid off from my role as a Junior System Analyst. I graduated with a degree in Computer Information Systems and worked hard to gain experience during college, including internships at an AI startup and involvement in cybersecurity clubs. After graduating, I spent months applying to jobs and obtaining certifications, tracking over 500 applications and landing around 20 interviews. Eventually, I got hired as a Junior Sys Analyst, but the excitement was short-lived. The project I was assigned to was awarded to another company, and my contract was cut from January 2028 to January 2027. I hoped to gain valuable experience, but due to delays, I wasn't cleared for meaningful work until February this year. In May, I learned that the transition to the new company would happen sooner than expected, and I might be let go in June or July. Now, I've received confirmation that my last day will be in early July, and with a hiring freeze in place, my chances of being hired by the new company are slim. I'm devastated after working so hard to secure a job in my field, and the thought of starting over again is overwhelming. I'm reaching out to see if others have navigated similar situations and what lessons they've learned. I'm just trying to find some hope amidst this disappointment.

I recently found myself contemplating what I would do if I received just 48 hours' notice of being laid off due to a company restructure. The scenario is daunting; I would have to keep it all to myself and not share the news with my coworkers. One thought that crossed my mind was to go on FMLA to buy some time. Another idea was to secure a home equity line of credit before the layoff became official, as I know it would be much harder to get approved once I'm unemployed. Having access to extra funds, even if I don't end up needing them, would definitely ease the transition.

I was recently let go from a job I had for six months, and it has been a tough experience. I was really excited about this role; it was my first full-time position after graduation, and I felt like I was finally doing something I enjoyed and was good at. However, on a random Monday, I found out that my position was eliminated due to company changes. This news hit me hard, especially since I had plans to travel for the next couple of months, which now feels impossible. I’m feeling a mix of emotions right now—sadness, frustration, and uncertainty. The stability I was starting to build in my life has been shaken, and now I’m faced with the daunting task of job hunting again, knowing that many positions receive thousands of applications. I’ve learned a lesson from this experience: I would advise anyone considering a role at a private equity-backed company to think twice. It seems like they prioritize numbers over culture, and it’s disheartening to see how quickly they can let people go. I’m reaching out for some encouragement and advice from anyone who has been through something similar. What should I do next? How do I cope with this situation? Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

I recently heard a story from a friend who interviewed for a job at a company where the experience was quite bizarre. During the interview, one of the hiring managers was noticeably distracted, chewing on his nails and constantly checking his phone, which never seemed to go off or vibrate. The atmosphere felt cold and combative, as the HM only asked 1-3 questions. My friend also learned that the company doesn't really offer breaks, and if you do get one, it's only for 15 minutes. They threw around the usual phrases about being a supportive team, but it felt insincere. After this experience, my friend decided to pass on the opportunity, feeling that the company's culture didn't align with what they were looking for.

I recently started a new job about a month ago, and I was really excited about it. I spent the last two weeks training for my role, getting to know the internal systems, shadowing colleagues, and meeting different teams. Everyone seemed optimistic about the future of our department, and I felt fortunate to have landed a position in such a tough job market. However, during lunch yesterday, a senior employee mentioned that leadership has been considering eliminating our entire function and outsourcing most of the work. At first, I thought it was just a joke, but later another coworker confirmed that they've been hearing similar rumors for months. It seems like there have already been discussions about restructuring, but no one has officially addressed it with us. What's particularly confusing is that I'm still in training, along with another new hire, and our managers haven't said anything about these potential changes. It's tough to stay motivated when there's a chance my role could vanish before I even finish my training. I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced something like this—did it turn out to be just rumors, or did it lead to actual layoffs?

I haven't been able to work for the past three weeks, and it's really getting me down. The first week, I was sick and couldn't clock in because my job as a dishwasher doesn't allow it when you're unwell. The following week, my boss informed me that there wasn't enough business, so I didn't get any hours. Now, in the third week, our car is tied up with my father's business trip, making it impossible for me to get to work. I genuinely enjoy my job and the sense of fulfillment it brings, so not being able to work is really frustrating. To top it off, I haven't received a paycheck in four weeks, which adds to my stress.

I filed for unemployment in North Carolina on March 31st and have been struggling to get my claim approved ever since. I've been certifying my weeks as required, but it's been months without a single payment. Initially, they claimed there was an issue with a fictitious employer and asked me to provide my W-2 from last year to prove my employment. After sending it in, I was told everything was fine and that I would be paid for the weeks I certified in April. However, when I called around May 22nd, I was informed that my claim had expired and I needed to resubmit it. I spoke with a supervisor who assured me that I would still receive payment for those weeks, but now, a month later, my online status shows "issues delaying payment, layoff/lack of work pending." I called again for an update, but they just said it's being worked on and when I pressed for more details, I was hung up on. This whole process feels incredibly frustrating and I can't shake the feeling that they're intentionally delaying approvals to make the economy look better than it is. I've never faced such difficulties with unemployment or job searching before, and I'm curious if others are experiencing similar issues.

I was recently laid off from my job at a tech company where I had spent nearly a decade growing my career. This all happened just as I found out I was pregnant with my second child after years of struggling with secondary infertility. My first job was as a stay-at-home mom for a year, but I was fortunate enough to get into a trainee program that launched my career in tech. The layoff was part of a mass reduction when my company merged with another, and now I'm facing the daunting task of finding a new job while preparing for a new baby. I know I have transferable skills, but the reality is that many companies are looking for specific experience, and my experience is mostly with internal tools from my previous employer. Financially, we're okay for now, but the situation is weighing on me emotionally. I’ve dealt with anxiety and depression in the past, and just when I felt like I was getting back on track, this happened. My contacts, who have praised my work and even written LinkedIn recommendations, seem hesitant to connect me directly with recruiters. They’re fine with me listing them as referrals, but I feel like I need more than that. I worry about having to return to the struggles I faced before becoming a mom, like long commutes and low pay, especially since it's just my husband and me without much support. I don’t want to dip into our savings or make significant lifestyle compromises, especially since we were close to buying our first house. This baby is so wanted, but the stress of having two kids relying on us is overwhelming. I’ve always been ambitious and dedicated, and losing my job has made me question my employability, even for entry-level roles. I’m reaching out to this community for success stories because I really need some hope right now.

I'm currently on the lookout for job opportunities that align with my unique skill set and health conditions. I have an exceptional ability to process information quickly, which I showcased in my previous role as an esthetician in Texas. I was highly regarded, even more so than some dermatologists, and I contributed to developing an advanced education program for a skincare company owned by a top dermatologist. My responsibilities included reviewing studies, selecting the most relevant ones, and creating lecture notes, albeit with some formatting issues. Unfortunately, due to various health factors, I can no longer work in esthetics, and I was laid off from my education job after Hurricane Harvey. That role was incredibly fulfilling for me, but now I'm searching for a position that allows me to leverage my cognitive strengths without the physical demands of my previous work. I'm looking for something that offers flexibility and is understanding of my disabilities. Gig work isn't suitable for me, as I thrive on mental stimulation and need a role that allows me to engage my brain fully. If anyone has suggestions for jobs that would fit a severely disabled savant like me, I would greatly appreciate it.

I had a job interview yesterday for a dance teacher position, and it turned out to be quite an experience. I arrived on time based on the email I received, but when I walked in, the interviewer told me I was actually an hour late. I was confused because I was sure I had the time right. After I showed her the email, she apologized, and we jumped into the group interview. What I didn't realize was that I needed to prepare a dance sequence and do a solo dance demo, which I wasn't informed about beforehand. I thought it would just be some trick demos and a warm-up. Thankfully, I have a teaching background, so I managed to wing it and created a dance sequence on the spot. I think it went well, but the solo performance without any prep was a bit nerve-wracking. It was frustrating to be put in that position, especially since the other candidates seemed to have the correct information and were prepared. I was in a good headspace, but I still felt disappointed overall. I haven't heard back from them yet, so I'm just waiting to see what happens. Is this kind of miscommunication common in the dance world? It feels a bit strange.

I’m a 20-year-old female working full-time at a local pet store, and I’m at my breaking point. I was supposed to work all summer before heading back to college for my junior year, but the job is making me feel suicidal. I’m surrounded by wealth while struggling to pay my rent, seeing customers drop hundreds on dog treats while I worry about making ends meet. I’m forced to promote unhealthy products because we’re a boutique store, and one of my coworkers is a hoarder and animal abuser, neglecting the pets in our care. Management refuses to act on it, and I’m left to pick up the slack for her laziness while being underpaid and overworked. This week was particularly bad; with another full-timer on vacation, I was expected to manage the store alone, and I received angry messages from management when I couldn’t keep up. I’m making only $14 an hour, which is below the minimum wage in my state, while a new part-timer is earning more than me. My girlfriend is about to start a job that pays well, but I’m terrified of losing my income and being unable to support us again. I’ve started applying for other jobs, but I’m worried that I’ll face similar treatment elsewhere. I used to enjoy my job as a part-timer, but now it feels like I’m doing the work of three people with no support. I’m also disabled and concerned about finding a job that accommodates my needs. I’ve talked to my girlfriend about this, and I plan to speak with my therapist soon. I relapsed on self-harm due to the stress, and I know this job is destroying my mental health. I’m considering quitting, but I’m unsure if I should wait until the 1st of the month to ensure we can pay rent. I just want advice on what to do next.

I currently work part-time at an AV company alongside my husband, who is a director of inventory control. Initially, I was unpaid for several weeks, but after the payroll manager recognized my contributions, I was hired as a 1099 contractor. Since then, my husband has become increasingly frustrated with my presence at the company, insisting that I should only be there during show prep and deprep days, unlike other 1099s who come in just for those specific tasks. I’ve been doing a wide range of responsibilities, including working with Zebra RFID scanners, testing and sorting cables, handling invoices, and conducting inventory audits. Despite my efforts, he seems to be worried about getting in trouble with upper management, even though I’ve been sending invoices for weeks and no one has raised any concerns. Other employees have their spouses working in similar roles, and I feel like my husband should advocate for me to the main boss, but he hasn’t done so yet. Now he’s threatening to prevent me from coming in, which feels incredibly frustrating since I’ve found purpose in this role and can contribute to our family financially. I’m considering reaching out to upper management myself to clarify my position as a 1099 contractor and whether I can continue working regularly. If this situation doesn’t improve, I might have to explore other AV job opportunities, even if it means longer hours and more stress. It’s disheartening to feel like my career is being controlled in this way, especially after finally feeling valued for my work.

I’m currently facing a challenge with references for my job applications. I've worked at two previous companies, but unfortunately, I didn't leave my last job on the best terms after being managed out, and it's been quite a while since I was at my first job. As I'm still early in my career, I'm finding it difficult to secure references from former managers or colleagues. I’ve been running a small business since then, but that doesn’t really help with traditional job applications. I'm considering volunteering to gain new connections who could serve as references, but I’m unsure how to navigate this situation effectively. Has anyone else been in a similar position? What did you do?

As a soon-to-graduate doctoral candidate in theoretical biophysics, I find myself at a crossroads between pursuing a career in academia or transitioning into industry. My passion lies in developing mathematical models and analyzing them using statistical physics, stochastic processes, non-linear dynamics, and information theory. While my experience has primarily focused on biological systems, I'm open to exploring roles in areas like transport networks, population demographics, finance, and biotechnology. I enjoy both the computational aspects of solving equations and the analytical, pen-and-paper work that comes with it. However, I realize that many industry positions tend to emphasize applying existing techniques rather than creating new knowledge. Despite this, I still hope to work at the forefront of knowledge and possibly contribute to publications. So far, my job search has not yielded many opportunities that align with my desire for research-based roles that involve both mathematical modeling and analytical work. I'm reaching out for insights from others who may have navigated similar paths. Are there industry roles that fit this description? If so, I would love to hear what they entail and where I might find such opportunities, especially since I'm based in the EU.