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    Applied to a Job Feeling Miscellaneous Thinking

    I recently went through three rounds of interviews for a position I was really excited about. After the interviews, I was asked to provide references, which I did promptly. However, three weeks later, I received the disappointing news that I didn’t get the job. They said other candidates better met their requirements. This experience has left me feeling incredibly frustrated and embarrassed, especially since I had asked my references for quick responses, believing I was a strong contender for the role. This was just one of over 2000 applications I've submitted and 20 interviews I've participated in. After this latest setback, I paused my job search because I was feeling so burnt out. Now, I realize I need to dive back into the job market, which feels like an endless journey. I’ve had my resume reviewed and even consulted with a career coach to ensure I’m presenting myself in the best light possible. Unfortunately, the feedback I’ve received has mostly been that other candidates were simply a better fit, without any specific guidance on how I could improve. It’s disheartening to feel so helpless when I’m not receiving constructive feedback. I just needed to vent a bit and share my experience.

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    2 weeks ago

    Applied to a Job Feeling Miscellaneous Thinking #

    I’ve been on quite the journey with my job search, applying to over 2000 positions and going through numerous interviews. Recently, I reached the final stages for a role I'm really excited about at a prestigious university. After my last round of interviews, which I felt went well, they asked for references almost immediately. I complied right away, but now I'm feeling stressed about the reference check process. Out of my three former employers, two responded, but the last one has been unresponsive despite my previous good relationship with them. I even reached out directly, but they ghosted me. The one who did reply said they couldn't provide a reference and directed the hiring team to HR instead. I emailed the hiring team to see if that would suffice, but it’s been a week without a response, and it’s really stressing me out. It’s been over two weeks since they initially contacted my references, and I can’t shake the feeling that my chances for this role are slipping away due to circumstances beyond my control. I’ve been in this position before, making it to the final rounds only to be disappointed, and the waiting is taking a toll on my nerves. Has anyone else faced a similar situation with references? How did you handle it? I could really use some advice on how to cope with this waiting game.

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