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I recently left a review on Glassdoor after going through a lengthy interview process with a company where I was referred by someone internally. I had a final interview with HR and the hiring manager, and I was told I would hear back within a week. Unfortunately, I got ghosted, which was really disappointing considering the effort I put in and my relevant experience. They mentioned they were hiring multiple people for the role, so I felt I had a fair chance. In my review, I shared my experience of the month-long process, the types of questions I was asked, and how I would have felt more positive if I had received an offer. To my surprise, I received a response from their People Operations team thanking me for my feedback. They acknowledged the lengthy process and expressed regret that I wasn't selected, emphasizing that my qualifications were considered. They also encouraged me to stay connected for future openings that might align better with my skills. While it was nice to get a response, it still stings not getting the offer.

I've been actively searching for a job and the current market feels incredibly tough. It seems like there are fewer job postings and I'm experiencing longer wait times after submitting applications. The competition feels fierce, and I can't shake the feeling that we might be heading into a recession or that we are already in one. I’m not very knowledgeable about economics or historical job trends, but I’ve been wondering when job availability typically starts to improve after a downturn. I would really appreciate insights from those who have experienced similar situations before. Was there a specific moment when hiring picked back up after the last recession? What should I realistically expect moving forward? In the meantime, is there anything productive I can do while waiting for the market to recover?

I was recently laid off from my position as a software engineer, which came as a complete shock to me. The layoff affected a significant portion of the company, particularly targeting those of us who were hired in the last couple of years. I had just received excellent feedback on my last performance review, so it was unexpected and not performance-related. My employment ended just a couple of days ago, and I am currently in various stages of the interview process with a few different companies, having already completed the initial HR/recruiter calls. Now, I'm feeling uncertain about how to approach my ongoing interviews. Should I inform the recruiters about my layoff, or should I keep it to myself until the interview process is further along? I’m also considering how to handle questions about my availability if they arise. I would appreciate any insights or advice on how to navigate this situation.

I have an interview lined up for a part-time housekeeping job at a hotel that is 27 miles away, offering $17.50 per hour. I'm trying to figure out if it's worth the long drive and whether I should accept the position if offered. I'm considering the costs involved, like gas and possible tolls, and how many hours I would need to work to make it financially viable. I've been advised to crunch the numbers and evaluate my current financial situation to see if this job is necessary or if I should keep looking for something closer. I'm feeling a bit stuck and unsure about what to do.

I recently faced a major setback in my job search after being unable to pass a background check. I had hoped that working with a temp agency would help me find a position, especially since they contract with many employers. However, I was informed that no one would take me due to my felony record, which stemmed from a non-violent offense that resulted in six months in jail. I figured that since many of the positions offered by the agency were in factories and construction—jobs that typically don't involve public interaction—there might be some leniency regarding background checks. Unfortunately, that wasn't the case. Even though I spoke with an employer who had spent four years in prison himself, my six-month sentence flagged my background check and disqualified me from consideration. I'm feeling pretty hopeless right now, contemplating whether to file for disability or worse. I’ve seen some suggestions about exploring gig work or talking directly to small business owners, and I’m considering those options. I just wish there were more opportunities for people like me who are trying to rebuild their lives.

I recently had a breakthrough in my job search after realizing that trying to impress everyone in interviews was counterproductive. For a long time, I approached interviews by trying to be what I thought the hiring managers wanted. I would research the company culture, mirror their language, and give textbook answers, but I always left feeling like I had nailed it only to hear nothing back for weeks. Frustrated, I decided to stop performing and started showing up as my true self. I began giving honest answers, even if they weren't perfect, and asked the interviewers real questions about turnover and management style instead of the usual softballs. This shift led to immediate results; I received callbacks and ended up with two job offers within a month after experiencing months of silence. I believe interviewers can sense when someone is putting on a show, creating an unspoken tension. When I relaxed and had genuine conversations, everything changed. I'm curious if others have had similar experiences or if this approach is more effective in certain industries.

I'm a 17-year-old female, about to turn 18, and I'm in a bit of a tough spot regarding my job search. I'm moving to a new city for university at the end of August with my boyfriend, who is 18 and currently working weekends while he finishes school. I've been working full-time, but my job was contracted and irregular, and now I only have a few shifts left before I move—about 3-4 in the next two months. For the past six months, I've been trying to secure a proper full-time job, but I haven't had any luck. My boyfriend thinks the issue is my application approach. While I've been applying to openings on job sites like Indeed and attending hiring events, he suggests I should be more proactive by emailing every store or business in the area or going in person to ask if they're hiring. The thing is, I live in a city, and he comes from a very small town where that strategy seems to work better. I'm worried that approaching businesses directly might come off as off-putting to potential employers. Another concern is the timing. If I were to get a job today, I'd only be able to work for about eight weeks before I have to leave, which means I'd have to give my two weeks' notice after just six weeks. I feel guilty about potentially leaving my employers in a bind and worry that it would reflect poorly on me when I try to use them as references or include that experience on my resume. My boyfriend thinks I should just go for it and not worry about the consequences, but I’m really conflicted. I want to work, but I also don’t want to feel like I'm being unfair to anyone. I'm looking for advice on how to navigate this situation.

I recently accepted a job offer much sooner than I anticipated, but I’m feeling the weight of burnout already, and I haven’t even started yet. I’ve been working at a company that was acquired about a year ago, and since then, my team has faced significant attrition. We were already understaffed, but losing several key senior managers really took a toll on our workload and morale. Management chose not to backfill any positions, leaving just my director and me to manage what used to be a team of seven. On top of that, we went through layoffs a few months back and were mandated to return to the office in a different state, which added to the stress. I decided to start looking for a new job, expecting a long search given the current market conditions. Surprisingly, I had a lot of success with interviews right away, despite the crushing day-to-day workload that included over 20 hours of meetings weekly and constant fire drills. After about two months of searching, I landed a new role with a title and pay bump, plus the benefit of remote work, which I accepted last week. However, I’m facing a dilemma. I won’t have much time to rest between leaving my current job and starting the new one. My psychiatrist has diagnosed me with burnout, and while two weeks might help a bit, I’m still feeling completely drained—exhausted, unable to sleep, and struggling with appetite. Even my weekends are affected, and I find myself on edge at work, nearly in tears with every team ping. I’m excited about the new opportunity, but I’m anxious about starting already burnt out. I’m looking for advice on how to manage this transition effectively and improve my symptoms while preparing for the new role. If anyone has experienced burnout and had to switch jobs without a break, I’d love to hear how you set yourself up for success.

I have submitted over 100 job applications in the last three months, but unfortunately, I've faced a 100% rejection rate. As a soon-to-be graduating international PhD student in Materials Science, I am eager to find a position in the industry here in the USA. This process has been incredibly disheartening, especially since I am also juggling my thesis and preparing for my final defense. The stress is taking a significant toll on my mental health. I'm at a crossroads, contemplating whether I should give up and return to my home country, which is particularly difficult since I've been in the U.S. for over six years and have been in a relationship for the past 1.5 years. I'm reaching out to see if anyone has experienced a similar situation and how they coped with it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I'm looking for advice regarding my mom, who is 61 and currently working in Quality Assurance for a non-profit. She's been under a lot of stress lately, especially after losing my stepfather last December and dealing with mini strokes due to that stress. Her job has been particularly tough, filled with office politics that she struggles to navigate. Recently, she came home in tears after facing another issue at work and expressed a desire to quit, but we can't afford that right now since we're still recovering from her previous unemployment and my own financial situation isn't great either. I'm considering whether it would be better for her to stick it out until she can retire in a few months or if I should encourage her to look for something else or even pursue a small business idea she had. I want to support her, but I'm unsure of the best approach.

I'm currently in a tough situation at my new job, which I started around April 30th. I completed a certification before the winter break, but now that I'm in my 6th week of a 90-day training period, I'm realizing that this role is not a good fit for me. It's a 12-hour night shift, and I've been feeling increasingly anxious about my performance. I think I might be going solo this week, and honestly, I've lost a lot of confidence. I know I can be stubborn and try to push through, but since I'm dealing with people's lives, I believe it's better to leave than risk making a mistake after training. I'm worried about how to approach quitting, as I suspect they might try to convince me to stay. Any advice on how to handle this situation would be greatly appreciated.

I recently applied for a position at Publix and had to take their personality test, which I found to be incredibly frustrating and inaccurate. The questions were so vague that I felt like my interpretation was completely different from what the employer intended. For instance, I was faced with choices that forced me to pick between being labeled a 'quitter' or a 'slacker,' which seemed unreasonable. As someone with high-functioning autism, I struggled to understand what they were really asking, and it felt like the test was designed to filter out people like me with trick questions. I often had to resort to using AI just to help me navigate the confusing wording of the questions. What really struck me was how toxic the workplace seemed based on the nature of the questions. They seemed to assume that anyone who is self-motivated must also have a bad temper, which is a huge double standard. I left the test feeling uncertain about whether I even wanted to work there anymore, as the whole process felt like an invasion of my character rather than a fair assessment of my skills.

I was laid off from my job in California on May 29 and received three weeks of severance pay on June 2. I filed for unemployment on June 1, but when I was certifying my claim on June 14, I completely forgot to report the severance pay. I only remembered after a coworker, who was also laid off, asked if I had reported it. Now I'm worried about whether I should report the severance in my next certification period and if I might get into trouble for not mentioning it earlier. I've heard that it could affect my benefits, depending on the amount and how it's allocated. I'm feeling anxious about this situation.

I work in my thirties at a company where a new boss has recently taken over. Last week, a hiring freeze was announced, and now my boss is auditing each department's work. It feels like everyone is being asked to justify their roles and prove their necessity within the company. I have a gut feeling that layoffs are coming soon, possibly by August. I'm based in the European market and I'm looking for advice on negotiating severance or layoff packages with US companies. Thankfully, I have strong savings, so I’m in a better position than some, but I lack experience in navigating layoffs and negotiations. Any insights would be greatly appreciated.

I previously applied to a few Big Tech companies and high finance firms, but I may have exaggerated some details on my résumé. Now, I'm considering reapplying to these companies and I'm unsure if my past actions will affect my chances. I'm worried that if they check my previous applications, they might see the discrepancies. Should I be honest about my past résumé or just focus on highlighting my actual skills and experiences this time around? Any advice on how to approach this situation would be greatly appreciated.

I'm currently working at a Chinese takeaway, and it's been a real struggle for me. Some days I love it, but other days, like today, I come home feeling defeated. I'm 17 and still a student, and I rely on my parents to drive me since I don’t have a car or a license. The takeaway is just 10 minutes away, but it’s in a small town, making job options limited. At work, I handle the till and have always been accurate, except when this one delivery driver, whom I’ll call Max, is on shift. Max has a reputation for being dishonest; he's been caught stealing on camera multiple times, yet my boss refuses to let him go. It’s frustrating because I end up taking the blame when the till is short, which has happened a few times now. My coworkers and I have pleaded with our boss to fire him, but nothing changes. I’m really tired of this situation and need to save money for college and a car since my parents can’t afford it. I’ve been searching for another job for a year and finally landed this one, but now I’m stuck. I’m not picky about where I work, but I’d prefer to avoid cash handling due to my anxiety. I’m reaching out for advice on how to find a new job quickly. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

I was recently laid off from my position as a mid-level software developer in Ireland. It was a tough experience, but I managed to receive a couple of job offers afterward. One offer included a €5,000 annual increase from my previous salary, while the other was a larger €11,000 increase with a title upgrade, but it was from a large consultancy firm. After careful consideration, I decided to accept the €5,000 offer from a well-established services MNC. I felt this option would provide more stability and allow for saner working hours compared to my previous job, where I often worked insane hours, including weekends, under rude management. This is my first time being laid off, and I really just need some peace and a chance to recover. I'm also concerned about the potential for more layoffs in the future, and I didn't want to risk burnout or another layoff. I hope I made the right choice by prioritizing my well-being over a higher salary.

I recently went through an interview process for a position that I initially thought could be a good fit. After my first interview, I was invited to meet with a panel member who had missed the initial session. I approached this meeting with an open mind, but ultimately, I felt the role wasn't right for me. After receiving news that I had progressed to the background check stage, I decided to withdraw my application. I didn’t hear back from them after my withdrawal, which left me wondering if this decision might burn bridges with the company or the panel members involved. I'm curious about how such withdrawals are perceived in the industry.

I recently applied for a retail position and I'm considering following up with a phone call. I'm unsure about the best approach to take when I call. Should I directly ask for the manager, or should I first mention that I'm following up on my application? I’ve read mixed advice online; some say that calling might not be the best move since it could come off as intrusive. I'm trying to gauge whether I should go ahead with the call or just wait for them to reach out if they're interested.

I'm currently seeking internship opportunities in Electrical Engineering, particularly in areas like Power Systems, Power Electronics, Electric Vehicles, Smart Grid, Automation, Renewable Energy, and Electrical Design. As a B.Tech Electrical Engineering student from a Tier-3 engineering college in India, I have a solid academic background with a CGPA of 9.17/10 and valuable research exposure. Right now, I'm a Research Intern working remotely under faculty mentorship in the EECS Department, where I utilize MATLAB for signal modeling and computational simulations. Additionally, I have hands-on experience at RRVPNL's 400 kV EHV Substation, where I've worked with autotransformers and SCADA systems, and at a 132 kV Substation focusing on relay testing and protection coordination. My experience also includes designing rooftop PV systems at a Solar PV company. I have completed projects like a Hydrogen Fuel Cell–Battery Hybrid Propulsion system for UAVs and an IoT Home Automation System. My technical skills include MATLAB, Simulink, Arduino IDE, SCADA, and programming in Python and C/Embedded C. I'm particularly interested in companies such as Siemens, ABB, Schneider Electric, and Honeywell. I know that my Tier-3 background may present challenges, but I believe my research and practical experiences demonstrate my capabilities. I'm looking for referrals to open internship roles, advice on breaking into these companies, or connections to hiring managers. Any feedback on my profile would also be greatly appreciated. Thank you!