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tony2136's journey

Milestones, reflections, and progress updates connected as your layoff-to-next-step story unfolds.

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    Feeling Planning Thinking

    I was recently laid off and I've been contemplating how to update my LinkedIn profile. I'm considering adding a new entry that reflects my current situation, possibly labeling it as a "sabbatical" or "consulting" after I finish the paperwork for my LLC. I’m unsure if that would come off as tacky or not. I've seen mixed opinions on this; some say it's not a big deal anymore since layoffs are so common these days, while others have asked if I should include anything on my resume. I’m leaning towards just leaving the dates as they are, but I want to make sure I present myself well in this job market.

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    Feeling Miscellaneous Planning Thinking

    I recently experienced a layoff from my position at a tech company, and I've been trying to navigate the job market. Networking has never been my strong suit, but I decided to create a LinkedIn profile to reconnect with former colleagues and expand my network. It feels a bit awkward reaching out to people now that I'm in need of assistance. I've noticed that LinkedIn limits me to only three notes per month unless I upgrade to Premium. I'm contemplating whether Premium is worth the investment. So far, I've sent out a few connection requests; some people have responded positively, while others haven't replied at all. I'm particularly unsure about how to approach someone I used to work under who is now in an executive position. After exchanging pleasantries, should I directly ask if they have any job opportunities available? I want to be respectful and not come off as too forward, but I also need to be clear about my intentions. I've read mixed opinions on the effectiveness of networking and whether Premium membership is beneficial. Some people suggest that having connections is important, while others believe that simply applying to jobs directly can yield better results. I'm trying to figure out the best strategy to secure my next role.

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    Feeling Miscellaneous Thinking

    I was recently laid off during a reorganization at my company, where I had several bosses throughout my time there. My most recent manager, who I hadn't worked with for long, surprisingly wrote me a positive LinkedIn recommendation. After that, he asked me to write one in return, which caught me off guard. Initially, I wasn't very impressed with him, but as we developed a better working relationship, I started to appreciate his leadership. Unfortunately, just as I was beginning to enjoy working under him, the reorg happened. I'm curious if anyone else has had a manager request a recommendation after giving one. It feels a bit odd, and I can't help but wonder if he senses instability in the company and is looking to secure his own future, especially since many of his previous direct reports have already left.

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    Feeling Miscellaneous Thinking

    I haven't told my family about my recent layoff yet, and it's been a couple of weeks since it happened. I’m specifically avoiding conversations with my parents and siblings because I know my mom would expect me to have more free time and would likely want me to help her out with various tasks around the house. Even when I visit, I end up doing chores like cutting the grass or fixing appliances, and while she does pay me, it's definitely below market rates. My dad is retired and tends to get bored, so I worry he would expect more of my attention and might even throw my layoff in my face or give unsolicited advice based on his own experiences. It feels a bit embarrassing to share, especially since the layoff wasn't due to my performance. I know there are some relatives who might be happy to hear the news, but I’m hesitant because of the dynamics in my family. I’m just not sure when or if I should bring it up.

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    Feeling Miscellaneous Thinking

    I recently faced a layoff from my job, and it's been a couple of weeks since then. I haven't told my parents about it yet, mainly because I feel embarrassed, even though the situation was beyond my control. My dad has a tendency to be narcissistic, and I can already predict the unsolicited advice he would give me, possibly criticizing my decision to take the job in the first place. I also worry that both of my parents might expect me to be more available to help them out, whether it's my mom needing handyman work done or my dad wanting emotional support, as he often leans on me like a therapist. It's frustrating because people assume that being unemployed means I have all this free time, but in reality, searching for a new job is a full-time endeavor in itself.

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