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Trippydudes's journey

Milestones, reflections, and progress updates connected as your layoff-to-next-step story unfolds.

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    I recently left a toxic job without giving the standard two weeks' notice, and it's been a bit of a whirlwind since then. I was really worried about how this would affect my reputation, especially since a few coworkers who agreed to be my references ended up ghosting me. It feels like they took my departure personally, which is frustrating. Now that I'm at a new company, I can't shake the fear that my past will come back to haunt me, especially if I run into old colleagues. I haven't updated my LinkedIn profile yet because I want to keep my new position under wraps for now. My biggest concern is that some vindictive coworkers might reach out to my new employer to spill the beans about my abrupt exit. I really hope to avoid any awkward encounters with them in the future. Has anyone else experienced something similar after leaving a job without notice?

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    I recently left my job a couple of months ago, and I had two coworkers agree to be my references. However, when I started getting job offers, one of them completely ignored my requests, while the other was very reluctant to even give me his email address. It took him 7 hours to respond, which felt very telling about his enthusiasm for my success. This experience made me realize that if someone isn't excited to support me when I have a potential job offer, I can't trust them as a reference. So, I ended up reaching out to old coworkers from jobs I had up to 7 years ago, and they were more than happy to help me out. I’ve learned to be very selective about who I choose to use as references.

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    I interviewed for a position back in March and went through four rounds of interviews. I felt confident after the first three, but the final round was with an executive I wouldn't be working closely with. He didn't even make eye contact and acted as if I was beneath him, which made me realize I probably wasn't going to get the job. Now, three months later, I see that the position has been reposted with a higher salary. I've reached out twice for an update and was told I'm still in the running, but honestly, it feels like a joke. It's frustrating to see companies operate this way.

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