Feeling

I recently faced a rejection for a desk job where I was told I didn't demonstrate the ability to meet the physical requirements, which felt really strange given my background. I previously worked in animal care, which was quite physical, and I also teach fitness classes on the side. The role I applied for was mainly reception work, so the feedback left me confused. The only factor I can think of that might have influenced their decision is my disability status. I disclose this because I take medication during work hours, which I felt was necessary after being bullied by a former colleague who accused me of having a 'problem' with pills. However, my condition doesn't affect my physical capabilities at all. Now, I'm questioning whether I should continue to disclose my disability status, especially since it seems to be impacting my job search negatively. I’m looking for honest opinions on whether this could be a reason for my rejections.

I recently encountered a frustrating situation while applying for jobs online. When I submitted my application through a company's website, they required me to provide reference contact information right off the bat. I understand that references are important, but I believe this should come later in the process, not at the initial application stage. At this point, the company is just a website to me, and I worry that they might misuse my references' contact details, potentially selling them to telemarketers or spam lists. I value the trust my references place in me by sharing their contact information, and I don't want to burden them unless I'm genuinely interested in a position. I feel that an initial phone screen should happen first so I can assess if I want to move forward with the application. After all, I don't want to exhaust my references' goodwill by asking them to vouch for me too often. Is it common for companies to require reference information at this stage? I’m considering just putting 'available upon request' to bypass this requirement.

I've been actively job searching for about two months now, focusing on software development roles. It's been quite challenging to stay motivated with the sheer volume of applications I've submitted. I often find myself feeling overwhelmed when I look at the number of positions I've applied for and the lack of responses. I'm trying to figure out how others manage to keep their spirits up during this lengthy process. Any tips or strategies would be greatly appreciated!

I have been actively job searching since April, but unfortunately, I haven't received any replies or interview invitations from the companies I've applied to. It's been quite disheartening, and I'm starting to wonder if my CV might be the issue. I'm reaching out for feedback on my CV to see if there are any improvements I can make to increase my chances of landing an interview.

I heard some chatter about potential layoffs at Capital One this week. It seems like they have a pattern of doing layoffs annually, often tied to their performance review process where they rank employees and decide who stays and who goes. I'm feeling a bit anxious about the uncertainty and wanted to see if anyone else has more information.

I’m feeling quite overwhelmed right now as my partner recently lost his job for the third time in five years. He was laid off in January 2026 during a large tech downsizing, and despite applying to hundreds of positions and going through numerous interviews, he hasn't managed to land a new role yet. Just when we thought he had a great opportunity lined up, the company rescinded the offer due to financial issues after losing key clients. It’s been a tough six months, and we’re back at square one. This situation feels different from his previous layoffs in 2022, where he quickly found new work within a couple of months. The current tech market is brutal, and the emotional toll from this cycle of hope and disappointment is weighing heavily on both of us. Thankfully, we don’t have children, which gives us some financial flexibility, and I have a stable corporate job that covers our expenses for now. However, I can’t shake the worry about the future. If this continues, I might have to take on the role of primary breadwinner longer than I anticipated, which would mean putting my own savings and retirement plans on hold. My partner is putting in a lot of effort into his job search, treating it like a full-time job—networking, preparing for interviews, and doing everything he can. I want to support him without adding to his stress, but I’m also struggling with my own anxiety about our situation. Even with therapy, I find myself worrying about worst-case scenarios. I’m reaching out to those who have been in similar situations. How did you manage your anxiety while supporting your partner through a long job search? Did things eventually work out for you? I’ve heard that unemployment can strain relationships, so I’d love to hear from those who made it through the other side. We’re based in Toronto, Canada, and the job market here, especially in tech, has been incredibly challenging.

I applied to four different Kroger locations about a month ago, and today I received a message that raised my suspicions. The message didn't specify which Kroger it was from and directed me to a new number. I can't help but feel a bit paranoid about it. Am I overthinking this, or is there something off here? I’ve seen comments suggesting it’s common for companies to keep applications for a long time before reaching out, but I still feel uneasy.

I recently started applying for out-of-state jobs and decided to list a local address to increase my chances of getting interviews. Surprisingly, it worked, and I have an interview scheduled for next week. However, I'm feeling anxious about how to navigate the situation without appearing deceitful. My main concern is how to respond if they ask about my availability or notice that all my work history is from one location while my address indicates otherwise. Should I stick with the lie and say I currently live in that city and am just unemployed? Or should I come clean and explain that I plan to stay at my current job until I secure a new position, even though the address I provided is valid housing? Additionally, I'm worried about my current job. I don't dislike my current employer, but I'm eager to leave the state. I want to give them a proper two weeks' notice while working remotely, but I'm concerned that if the new employer sees my in-state address, they might expect me to start immediately, which could complicate my move. I think my anxiety stems from the fact that I lied about my location, even though it was effective. Last year, I was honest about relocating and had a promising interview process, but they ultimately dropped me after inquiring about relocation assistance. Now, I'm just paranoid about the whole situation.

I was recruited last year as a contingent worker at a prestigious tech company, but my role has evolved significantly since then. I've taken on a lot more responsibility and my daily tasks are now quite different from what I was initially hired for, yet my job title and pay remain the same. With rumors of layoffs circulating, I'm starting to prepare for a job search. The issue is that my current title doesn’t accurately represent my work or align with my career aspirations. I've approached HR about a promotion or at least a title change, but they've been unresponsive, citing budget constraints and an ongoing 'promotion' process that has dragged on since January. I've been told to wait for updates multiple times, despite consistently exceeding my performance metrics. Interestingly, several of my bosses and colleagues have suggested that I should list my actual role as a QA Analyst on my resume, and they’re willing to vouch for my work. However, I'm concerned about how this might impact background checks. Has anyone else faced a similar dilemma? What would you recommend?

I'm reaching the six-month mark of unemployment, and honestly, I feel hopeless. I attended a mandatory presentation to keep collecting unemployment where they said, "Don't worry, this is only temporary." But six months feels anything but temporary. 2026 is shaping up to be the worst year of my life. I've been a professional software engineer for sixteen years, and this is the longest I've ever been without a job. I chose this field for its stability, but that feels like a joke now. I’ve made a previous post warning others to reconsider this career unless they truly love coding. Now, I’m competing against thousands of others who are also laid off, and I can’t help but feel selfish for thinking this way. I wonder if other laid-off developers, especially those credited in games or movies, are facing the same absurd hoops in the job market. The interview process is frustrating. It feels like my degree and experience mean nothing; I have to jump through so many rounds, often with people who have thick accents, making communication difficult. Getting an interview is a challenge in itself, and when I do, I often get rejected despite feeling like a good fit. I had a particularly frustrating experience with Capital One, where I applied, completed a technical assessment, and didn’t hear back for four months. When I finally got an interview, I had to scramble to relearn concepts I hadn’t used since college. Some technical assessments are intrusive, requiring me to install browser add-ons and phone apps to prevent cheating. I’ve also encountered unscrupulous people on LinkedIn trying to sell dubious career services to those of us "Open to Work." I even paid for a resume rewrite on Fiverr, which helped a bit, but I’m still facing countless rejections. Every day feels like a battle to apply for jobs, and even during my one vacation this year, I felt the need to keep applying. When I finally do get an interview, I often feel like I bombed it, even though I was hired for my last role at Home Depot despite thinking I did poorly. Job hunting is a job in itself. On top of that, I need to keep my skills sharp for technical interviews. I was offended when a friend suggested I should play long RPGs while unemployed; they just don’t understand how much harder it is for software engineers. I’m also juggling my acting career, where I have better luck landing auditions, but none of them pay enough to sustain a living. I just needed a space to vent. I live alone, and I don’t have a spouse or parents to lean on for support. My friends offer generic sympathy but don’t engage in deeper conversations. It feels like I’m ranting into the void, and it’s ironic that I’m in this situation due to the A.I. boom. I know it could be worse—like being homeless—but the psychological and financial toll is still heavy. The only thing keeping me grounded is my love for the arts; without that, my mental state would be much worse during this prolonged unemployment.

I recently turned 20 and have been working as a school custodian for nearly two years, with my anniversary coming up in November. While the job isn't terrible, I'm really feeling the strain of my hours, which are from 3 PM to 11 PM. The pay is decent at just over $17.60 an hour, and I do get most holidays off, but I find it hard to spend time with my girlfriend and friends during the school year, as my schedule limits my availability to weekends and days off. I'm looking to transition to a job with morning hours, ideally starting between 7 AM and 9 AM, and I want to work a standard 8-hour shift with the option for overtime if I choose. I'm aiming for a salary of over $20 an hour. Unfortunately, I don't have any education beyond high school and my skills are mainly in custodial work. I did take woodshop in high school, but I feel stuck and unsure about what other opportunities to pursue. I've been actively searching for a new job for about six months, but I haven't found anything that feels right or suits my skills. I'm reaching out for suggestions and advice on where to look or what steps to take next. Thank you for taking the time to read this!

I recently went through a rigorous three-round interview process for a client-facing role at a company I was really excited about. After feeling positive about my interviews, I received a call from the Director two weeks later, which I thought was a good sign—maybe an offer or some final questions. However, she informed me that my candidacy had been flagged by HR due to an issue with my online portfolio. I had anonymized my work samples, but one slipped through the cracks. During our conversation, I took full responsibility for the oversight and explained that I didn’t vet my work thoroughly enough before posting it. The Director expressed concern about the potential implications of sharing internal information, which I completely understand given the nature of the role. After our call, I promptly removed my portfolio and decided to be cautious moving forward, opting to send work samples only upon request and ensuring they are fully anonymized. I was told that she would discuss my situation with the team and get back to me soon. I can't shake the feeling that this mistake might make me seem unethical in their eyes, and I worry that I may have jeopardized my chances for the position. I’m left wondering if there’s still a chance for an offer or if this will be the deciding factor against me.

I'm currently navigating a tricky situation with two recruiters regarding a contract role at Amazon. Recruiter #1 initially reached out to me about the position and had me sign a Right to Represent (RTR), but then he went completely silent after saying he would submit my profile. I followed up multiple times over several weeks without any response. Feeling uncertain, I accepted an approach from Recruiter #2, who also contacted me about what seemed to be the same Amazon role. He assured me that he checked and there were no issues with representing me, so he submitted my profile. Just last week, I asked him for an update, and he mentioned that there were no new developments, which led me to believe my application was still active. Out of the blue, Recruiter #1 has now reached out asking if I'm still available for the role. I'm confused about whether he ever submitted my application after I signed the RTR, and I'm concerned about the possibility of duplicate submissions. I don’t want to jeopardize my chances by causing any issues with my application. I'm contemplating whether to inform Recruiter #1 about Recruiter #2's submission and ask him to verify my status or if there's a more effective way to handle this situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I'm currently in a challenging situation as I approach my 26th birthday and realize I need to secure a full-time job with benefits. I recently quit one of my part-time jobs that I enjoyed, but the pay was only $11/hour, and it was affecting my health. Now, I'm down to one part-time job that I love, working with great colleagues, but I know I won't be part of the exciting future plans they have. I'm trying to hold on as long as I can, but I'm feeling the pressure to find something more stable. I'm considering sending my resume and possibly a cover letter to similar institutions in my area, even though it feels like a long shot. I'm worried that this might jeopardize my chances of getting hired there in the future. I'm also thinking about asking my current director if there's any possibility of transitioning to a full-time role, even though my boss has previously been told no. It feels like it's worth one last attempt before I have to make a decision.

I need to vent about my job search frustrations. Lately, I've been hitting a wall with the feedback that I'm "overqualified" for the positions I apply for. It's disheartening to hear this, especially when I genuinely believe that these roles are the right fit for me. I have years of experience, and I thought that would be an asset, but it seems like companies are more worried that I won't stick around long-term. Honestly, when I was earlier in my career, I was always on the lookout for the next big opportunity, but now I’m seeking stability and a place where I can grow and contribute for the long haul. It's baffling to me that they think I would leave faster than someone just starting out. I get that they might think I'll get bored, but if I took the time to apply, it's because I know what I'm looking for. I can't help but wonder if "overqualified" is just a euphemism for something else. I’d love to hear from recruiters about this.

I've had a frustrating experience with managers ghosting me after job interviews. There were a few roles I interviewed for where I felt confident, but after the interviews, I reached out via email and even tried calling, only to hear nothing back. It’s disheartening, especially after investing time and effort into preparing and interviewing. I know I'm not alone in this; it seems to happen to many people. I've seen others share similar stories, where they went through multiple rounds of interviews and then just got left hanging. It's definitely a common issue in the job search process, and while I understand that hiring can be hectic, I wish there was more professionalism in communication.

I recently completed interviews for my first remote position and received a job offer letter that has left me feeling uncertain about its legitimacy. The company is relatively unknown, and my attempts to research it online yielded minimal information. The interview itself felt off, almost staged, which has only added to my doubts. I'm reaching out for insights from anyone who has experience with job offer letters or this particular company. I want to ensure I'm not falling for a scam, especially since the offer includes a pay rate of $30/hr, which seems unusually high for such an easy application process. I've seen comments warning about the typical signs of scams, like poor grammar and formatting issues in the letter, and I'm starting to notice those red flags myself. If anyone has advice or can share their experiences, I would greatly appreciate it.

I recently experienced a frustrating termination from a consulting firm in Houston where I worked remotely. During my 60-day review, which actually took place at 75 days, I was told I was doing great but expressed my concerns about constantly having to ask for work. They assured me they would figure out where to place me, and agreed to let me attend some meetings, although I wasn't the project manager, just a support role. The termination came as a shock. Just the Friday before, we had an in-person brunch where they praised my contributions and expressed how much I was valued. Then, on a Monday around 11 am, only 90 days into my role, I was informed via a Teams meeting that they wouldn't be extending my position due to performance issues. Honestly, I wasn't too attached to the job or the management style, so I accepted it. However, the real nightmare began after my termination. The letter I received cited my absence from optional meetings and my remote work arrangement—both of which had been approved. They said they would send my belongings and asked me to return my equipment the same day. I told them I couldn't return it that day but would do so the next. Three weeks passed without any communication about my items. When I finally reached out, I was told my belongings had been boxed and mailed. To my dismay, when the package arrived, it only contained my blazer and a pencil holder. My personal items, including photo frames and a water bottle from Mexico, were missing. After inquiring, I was informed that someone had thrown my belongings away. I can't believe it took them four weeks to tell me that. I'm absolutely livid about the whole situation.

I recently submitted applications for a couple of jobs but realized I sent the wrong version of my resume. I made a significant mistake while editing it, and now I'm worried that it might hurt my chances. I'm wondering if it's acceptable to reapply with the correct resume or if I should just wait for them to request an updated version. I've read mixed opinions on this, so I'm feeling a bit unsure about the best course of action.

I was laid off in September 2025 from a part-time IT Support role that was severely underpaid and offered no benefits, just a month after I graduated college. Instead of aggressively applying for jobs, I decided to wait for recruiters to reach out to me, and surprisingly, this strategy paid off. I almost landed my dream job managing IT projects in a hybrid environment, but unfortunately, they chose another candidate. In the end, I received two offers: one for $55k at a charter school and another for $60k at a large public university nearby. I opted for the $60k position since it paid more and was non-exempt, meaning I would be capped at 40 hours a week. While I feel overqualified for this role, the state benefits and job stability are comforting after my previous experience. It's been four years in IT support, and even with my BS in computer information systems, I worry about my career progression. I know a coworker with over 10 advanced certifications who is struggling to find a new job, which adds to my anxiety. A few years ago, I could have found a job in just a few weeks, but now it took me six months, and I have a lot of therapy ahead to process the stress from this experience. On the bright side, I now have excellent dental and medical insurance, and I've tripled my salary while doing the same job.