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I recently interviewed for a Medical Assistant position at a DOT physical clinic, and the experience was incredibly unprofessional. It started two weeks ago with a first-round interview where the HR recruiter kept her camera off, paused for a 15-minute call, and had me take a literacy test that felt like it was from high school. They also scheduled interviews with very short notice, which was frustrating. Today, I got a call from HR asking if I could interview at 2:30 PM, but they called me at 1:30 PM. I needed the experience, so I agreed. During the interview, the doctor joined late and conducted the interview while walking around the clinic on her phone, which felt very disrespectful. She seemed confused about my background as a pre-med student pursuing my Medical Assistant certification over the summer, despite me explaining it multiple times. Things took a turn when she mentioned that the job required a one-year commitment because they would train me for another certification worth about $2,000. Then she made a shocking comment: "If you stiff me on this training and leave after it's done just to keep the certification, I'd have your Social Security number and I'd be able to get my money back." I was taken aback and my heart sank. At that point, I knew I didn't want to work there, but I agreed to avoid further awkwardness. The interview ended quickly after because she had to return to seeing patients. This was the worst interview I've ever had, and I'm left wondering if I should report this or just move on. I really need a position as I'm currently unemployed and in debt, but this felt incredibly inappropriate. The entire interview was recorded, and I can't shake off how uncomfortable it was.

I recently left my job due to an extremely disrespectful and unprofessional work environment. My boss was a bully, and I knew I had to remove myself from that situation for my own well-being. Now, I'm facing the challenge of explaining my departure in interviews without badmouthing my previous employer. I want to frame it positively, highlighting my desire for a work environment that aligns with my values of respect and professionalism. Currently, I'm unemployed and have only had one interview, but I haven't heard back yet. It's nerve-wracking to think that finding a new job might take months. I also need to address the gap in my work history during interviews. I want to convey that I’ve been intentional about finding the right fit instead of rushing into another negative situation. I've been upskilling and networking, and I'm eager to contribute to a team where I can thrive. I appreciate any advice on how to navigate these discussions in interviews.

I recently interviewed for an internal position at my current company, where I've been working in a secure but low-paying role. Despite my efforts to prepare, I choked during the interview, which is a recurring issue for me. After the interview, the hiring manager delivered the news that I didn't get the role, but they were incredibly kind and provided a lot of positive feedback. They highlighted my strengths and noted that I was qualified, but ultimately the competition was fierce and my interview responses didn't meet their expectations. They even offered to give me constructive feedback to help me improve, which I gladly accepted. I received a detailed email outlining what I did well and specific areas where I could enhance my answers. They also shared some interview tips and reiterated their apologies for not being able to offer me the position, which was very thoughtful. To my surprise, they followed up with even more positive notes about my skills and experience in another email. While I appreciated the feedback, I'm still feeling bummed about not landing the role, especially since it was filled by a coworker I don't get along with. I'm left wondering if this level of feedback is typical from hiring managers after a rejection, as I don't want to get my hopes up too high.

I have an interview for a job that is about 30 minutes away by car, but it would take me 1 hour and 30 minutes by bus. I'm really unsure if this commute is worth it, especially since the work hours are from 9 to 5, meaning I wouldn't get home until around 7 PM. I can't drive yet, and taking an Uber would be way too expensive for me. I've been considering the impact this long commute would have on my quality of life. Some people have suggested that I should think about other job options or even moving closer in the future. Others pointed out that this commute adds three hours to my workday without pay, which could significantly reduce my effective wage. I remember how exhausting it was to commute to university for 1 hour and 15 minutes before everything went online during COVID. It really drained me. I started my job search in October and bought a car in February, which has made a huge difference in my commuting experience.

I’m reaching out for some real-world advice on finding a job as someone with a felony record. I’ve been sober for over three years and have stayed out of trouble since my last arrest in 2022. Currently, I’m employed, but I’m looking to build a career rather than just get a quick paycheck. I have solid work references and a strong work ethic, and I’m eager to learn a trade or start in an industry where I can grow. I know my extensive criminal history can close a lot of doors, but I’m hoping to connect with people who have been in similar situations, especially those in recovery or who own businesses that genuinely give second chances. If you know of any companies that actually hire individuals with serious records and offer decent pay and growth opportunities, I would really appreciate your input. I’m based in Florida but am open to hearing about suggestions from anywhere. It would be great if you could share why you recommend the company, especially if you’ve worked there or know someone who has. I’m ready to work hard and continue building the life I’ve fought so hard to create. Thanks for any help!

I'm currently in a challenging situation as I navigate my first Outside Sales Representative (OSR) role at a Managed Service Provider (MSP) in Central New York. I've been in this position for about six months, and to be honest, I'm feeling overwhelmed and anxious about my performance and future here. I came from a data analyst background, so I lack formal sales experience, which has made this transition particularly tough. The owner of the company hired me primarily because he liked my technical skills and personality, rather than my sales history. Unfortunately, I've found myself struggling with a lack of clear management and direction. The previous sales manager, who was against my hiring due to my lack of MSP experience, was let go shortly after I started. Since then, I've had no direct sales manager, and the owner, who openly admits he doesn't enjoy managing sales, has left me to figure things out on my own. I have fallen into a pattern of analysis paralysis, spending too much time on backend research instead of actively reaching out to potential clients. I know I need to change this and improve my daily activity metrics, but it's been a steep learning curve. To complicate matters, the owner has relied heavily on outsourced consultants for training, which has led to confusion about my role. I was initially expected to juggle both OSR responsibilities and full-time SDR prospecting, which proved to be unmanageable. We've since decided to hire a dedicated SDR, allowing me to refocus on OSR tasks. Additionally, there seems to be a disconnect between our sales and marketing efforts. Our marketing person, who has potential, is overwhelmed with dual responsibilities and unable to execute effective marketing strategies. As a result, we're stuck using generic materials that don't resonate with our audience. Currently, I'm feeling the pressure to generate new sales as both the owner and I are anxious about the lack of new Annual Recurring Revenue (ARR). I've worked hard on several proposals for significant deals, but none have closed because the prospects couldn't afford our services. This has left me feeling undervalued, especially since my efforts have gone largely unrecognized. Now, I've been given a clear directive: I need to sign a new client this month and take the owner on visits to potential clients. I'm worried about my job security and whether my boss still believes in my ability to succeed. The pay structure is also a concern; I have a base salary of $35k with uncapped commission for new clients, but there are no residuals or commissions for special projects I've contributed to. Given all of this, I'm reaching out for advice from anyone with experience in sales or MSPs. Is this environment fixable, or should I start considering other opportunities?

I recently experienced a layoff despite working in what I thought was a stable and secure industry. I had been reassured by my employer that they would absorb any potential layoffs, but I learned the hard way that this was not the case. Now I find myself needing to put an end date on my resume and explain my situation to recruiters and hiring managers. I used to receive recruiter outreach at least once a week, which made me feel lucky, but I realize now that I can't rely on that. My advice to anyone in a similar position is to start interviewing as soon as you sense any slowdown in work. Don't trust your boss, no matter how good your relationship may be. I'm confident I'll be fine, but this experience has been a wake-up call.

I started my HR role at a small organization about a year ago, and it was everything I had hoped for—good pay and a decent work-life balance. However, I quickly realized how taxing the job can be. As a Generalist, I handle a wide range of tasks, often getting stuck between employee issues and management's demands. Over the past few months, my workload has piled up, and I find myself juggling unfinished tasks with no clear deadlines. It feels chaotic, as everyone forgets about ongoing projects until they suddenly become 'urgent.' I've also noticed a high turnover rate, which makes recruitment particularly challenging for me. Before this, I worked in a talent acquisition agency, and that experience was far from enjoyable. While my team and manager are supportive, I often wish I could transition to a different role. I recently updated my CV, but I'm struggling to find relevant positions that excite me. I feel stuck and confused about my career path, especially since I can't see myself in a corporate environment for much longer. The job market feels overwhelming, and I remember how difficult it was to land both my current and previous roles. I'm reaching out to see if anyone else has faced a similar situation and how you've managed to cope.

I wanted to share my experience regarding the impact of confidentiality agreements on job opportunities. Early in my career, I signed a confidentiality agreement with my employer that prohibited sharing client data, creative assets, and internal work outside the company. I took this agreement seriously and chose not to include any of that work in my portfolio when I left. Unfortunately, this decision has led to missed opportunities during my job search. In interviews, I often find myself explaining why my portfolio is lacking. Instead of understanding my commitment to ethics, many recruiters simply move on to candidates who can showcase their work. It raises a question for me: are we inadvertently punishing professionals for adhering to the very agreements that companies require? While I recognize the importance of a strong portfolio, I believe integrity should also be valued in the hiring process. I wonder how hiring managers evaluate candidates like me who can't share their previous work due to confidentiality. It would be great to see more emphasis on case studies, technical discussions, or problem-solving abilities as alternatives to traditional portfolios.

I've been job hunting for about four months now, applying daily but not receiving any interviews. I've sent out countless resumes and I'm starting to feel discouraged. I'm curious if this struggle is mainly affecting blue-collar jobs like construction and warehouse work, or if it's also hitting corporate roles that typically require a degree. I'm beginning to question if there's something wrong with my resume or if I'm approaching the job search incorrectly. I'm reaching out to see what types of jobs others are applying for and if anyone has had better luck with in-person applications compared to online submissions. Any advice would be really helpful.

I was let go from my position as an Operations Coordinator at a manufacturing company after just five weeks, and the lack of explanation has been haunting me ever since. I had transitioned from a full-time Administrative Assistant role at a daycare, where I was underpaid and micromanaged, to this new opportunity, believing it would provide better pay and growth. During the interviews, I was honest about my lack of experience in the role, and they assured me I would receive training. However, my first week was frustratingly slow, as I didn't even have a computer. By my second week, I started to learn some programs, but the training was minimal, and I often felt like I was a burden when I sought help. I took the initiative to teach myself and managed to resolve payroll issues that had been lingering. On April 1st, I was blindsided when my manager and the HR manager closed my office door and informed me that I was terminated effective immediately, with no prior feedback or indication that my performance was lacking. I was devastated and confused, especially since I had put so much effort into my work. As I packed my things, I asked for a moment to collect myself, but the HR manager insisted on staying with me. I ended up reacting poorly, expressing my anger towards her before leaving the office. Since that day, things have spiraled. I had left my previous job for this one, thinking it would secure my financial stability, but now I find myself struggling again, especially after my car was repossessed shortly after I started. I've been applying for jobs since April, but the whole experience has left me feeling anxious and uncertain about my future.

Today marks the day after my layoff from my role as a Content Specialist at a corporate company. At 25, this was my first experience with such a situation, and honestly, it feels surreal. I believe they made a mistake by letting me go, but that's not something I can control. I had a good cry when they delivered the news yesterday, but overall, I'm trying to stay positive. I can still laugh and find some joy, but there are moments when my thoughts spiral out of control. I've lost my appetite and sometimes feel a crushing weight in my stomach. It’s a mix of rational and irrational feelings, and I can’t shake off the sense that I've hit rock bottom, especially with the job market being so tough right now. I feel this constant urge to dive into job searching—tinkering with my resume, updating my LinkedIn, and sending out applications. But then I get overwhelmed, and it becomes a vicious cycle. I’m reaching out to see how others cope with losing a job. How do you find a way to relax and not let the anxiety take over? I would love to hear some positive stories from those who have been in my shoes.

I graduated in 2023 and worked at a company until January 2024 when I was laid off. I managed to find a new job in June 2024, but unfortunately, they let me go due to a lack of work. Now, I've been unemployed for six months again. I'm currently living with my sister, who is a travel nurse. When I first moved back, I was responsible for most of the bills, but now I'm struggling to keep up. She’s expressed frustration about having to help with bills, and it feels like I'm on the verge of being kicked out. I understand her perspective; she works hard and has done a lot for me. However, I’m actively searching for jobs while working full-time in retail to cover most of the bills. Still, I sometimes have to ask her for help just to afford basic meals. There’s a significant age gap between us, and she’s never experienced unemployment, so she sees my situation as laziness. We recently watched a news segment about new college grads struggling to find work, and she dismissed it, thinking it’s just a matter of not wanting to work. I feel stuck and frustrated, not just with my job search but also with the strain it's putting on my relationship with my sister. I’m considering documenting my job applications and interviews to show her I’m making an effort, but I’m not sure how much that will help. I just want to find stability again and ease the tension at home.

I was recently let go from my job due to what was labeled as gross misconduct, which I believe was a significant misunderstanding. After my termination, I applied for unemployment benefits but was initially denied. I decided to appeal the decision and presented my side of the story. After two weeks, I received a letter stating that while no gross misconduct had occurred, I was still terminated for just cause. I'm trying to understand what this means for my situation moving forward. Thanks for taking the time to read about my experience.

I've been thinking about my job search strategy while working with a staffing agency. Currently, I'm in a position where I need to gain some volunteer experience in political science to help advance my career. In the meantime, I plan to take on temporary jobs to maintain some income. I'm curious about others' experiences—specifically, how many of you continued to look for jobs outside of the staffing agency, especially if the temp job was unrelated to your field? From what I've gathered, it seems like temp work is just a means to an end, and there's no real expectation of loyalty to the agency. I’ve heard that many people keep applying elsewhere while working these temporary positions, which is encouraging. Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated!

I was terminated from my role as a computer hardware technician after about 5 months on June 29, 2026. I started this job on February 2, 2026, and this was my first layoff ever. The decision came after a long wait of nearly two months following my performance concerns that began after I completed training in March. I struggled significantly with my output, often finishing only low 20s to mid 30s of boards, while senior technicians could handle 30 to 50. I also faced customer complaints due to wrong parts being used, which was exacerbated by running out of specific parts and my tendency to be overly meticulous. I was shocked by the timing of the termination, especially since I expected a decision weeks earlier. The company seemed to be under pressure with an upcoming audit, which may have influenced their decision. I realize now that my mild autism might have impacted my ability to work efficiently in such a fast-paced environment, where I often rushed and made mistakes. On a positive note, my family is relocating closer to Houston next month, which should alleviate my transportation issues that have hindered my job search. I gained valuable soldering and repair skills during my time at this job, and I'm determined to learn from this experience to improve my soft skills. I'm hopeful that my next opportunity will be a better fit for me.

I was terminated today after working for 6 years in the telecom industry, specifically in conformance testing. My company decided to downsize and unfortunately, my entire team, including my lead, was let go along with several other teams. This news hit me hard, especially since I thought I was secure in my position and had even just taken out a car loan this month. I'm struggling with how to break this to my family, particularly my parents, as I have my own family to support and things are looking quite bleak right now. I'm reaching out for any job leads or openings, and I would also appreciate any advice on how to navigate this situation.

I was laid off after just a month of work at a new company, and honestly, I'm reaching my limit. Last year, right before the winter holidays, I was unexpectedly let go from my previous job. I had sensed it might happen, as I had asked my manager multiple times about my job security, and he always assured me that I would have work. But then, a month later, I was called into the office and told my contract was terminated. It was a tough blow, and I spent several months unemployed and feeling down. Eventually, I found a new job, but it was a low-paying and stressful position in a restaurant. Just when I thought things were improving, I received an offer for a new position in my field during the spring. It was a contract role, but I was promised guaranteed work until fall and that the team would be looking to hire the best contractors for full-time positions. However, after only one month at this new job, I was informed that the work was being put on pause due to funding issues. It’s been a month now with no updates or communication from the company. We were abruptly told in a Zoom meeting that we would no longer have jobs and would lose all our benefits, including healthcare. I just can't comprehend how this is legal. It feels like people’s lives are being toyed with in this economy. I live in the US, where everything is expensive. My housing costs are high, and with the SAVE Plan ending, I’m uncertain about my student loans. At just 25 years old, I’m feeling depressed and beaten down. It’s hard to see any hope in a world that feels so unstable.

I'm currently on the lookout for stipend volunteer programs in Pennsylvania. I've been trying to find opportunities that not only allow me to contribute but also provide some financial support. I remember my sister used to participate in short-term volunteering roles that came with stipends, and I think this could be a good option for me since I'm out of work right now. I've attempted to post in other subreddits focused on Pennsylvania and volunteering, but my posts were rejected, leaving me a bit frustrated. If anyone has suggestions or knows where I can find such programs, I would greatly appreciate the help!

I recently left my position as a control systems technician in the paper industry to take on a plant programmer role in the food and beverage sector, lured by a significant pay increase of over $20,000 per year. While I had my share of frustrations at my old job, I genuinely enjoyed the work and valued my coworkers. However, just two weeks into the new job, I'm feeling completely overwhelmed and miserable. I'm struggling to adapt to a new industrial process and unfamiliar programming software, which is already challenging enough without proper support. The onsite resources are virtually nonexistent, and the only person I can reach out to is about 40 minutes away and not particularly helpful. Now, I'm seriously contemplating going back to my previous employer, but I'm torn about the idea of giving up the higher salary and returning after leaving. It's a tough situation, and I'm hoping to hear from anyone who's been in a similar position. Any advice would be appreciated!