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I'm looking for recommendations for credible employment lawyers in the SF/Bay Area. I need someone who can provide a one-off counsel session to review my severance agreement. I've been trying to do some research, but the information out there is overwhelming and filled with ads, making it tough to identify trustworthy options. My case isn't complicated, but I want to ensure I get a solid review of my agreement. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

I recently faced a frustrating situation at my job where I was working as a contractor for a company. I was hired for a 4-month contract and had completed 3 months with very little feedback from my manager. Out of the blue, I received an email asking to meet with someone who would be replacing me, which was the first indication I had that my contract was ending early. When I reached out to my manager for clarification, he informed me that my contract would be terminated the following week, and I would need to train my replacement. I felt blindsided by this news and suggested that I could send over documents instead of meeting, as I was caught off guard. Instead of understanding, my manager responded in a condescending manner, implying that my worth was diminished because I was a contractor. I expressed my feelings about the lack of professionalism in how I was notified and said I would still complete my tasks. Unfortunately, he continued to call me unprofessional and made unfounded claims about my work that he had never mentioned before. After our meeting, the agency I was contracted through called to inform me that the company decided to end my contract that week instead of the originally planned date. They cited an upcoming holiday as the reason, which felt like a last-minute decision to me. I felt disrespected and undervalued, especially after the way my manager handled the situation. I truly despise the way he treated me and the lack of communication throughout my time there. It’s been a rough mental place for me, and I just needed to vent about this experience.

I just received a call letting me know that I was rejected for a job that would have increased my salary by about $40,000. Honestly, it feels pretty defeating. The recruiter couldn't provide any constructive feedback, which makes it even harder to process. Looking back at my interviews, I realize I went in underprepared. I ended up reusing the same few examples and didn’t really showcase my skills effectively. It’s been over three years since my last job interview, so I definitely feel rusty. I'm struggling to stay positive after this setback. How do you keep your spirits up after a rejection like this? Is it reasonable to consider reapplying for the position after some time?

I recently interviewed for two positions at a local grocery store: one as a cashier and another in the fresh department. I found out that the cashier position is already filled, but the fresh department manager asked me to check if another related department still needs staff. The system manager also inquired about my interest in the fresh department, which left me feeling a bit confused since I haven't received a clear indication from the fresh manager about my candidacy. After the interview, the fresh manager messaged me to confirm if I was the right person she interviewed, which added to my uncertainty. I don't want to come off as desperate, even though I feel that way, but I really just want some closure on the situation. I've been messaging back and forth with customer service regarding my application, and I'm considering reaching out for an update. It seems like a mixed bag after interviews; sometimes they follow up, but other times you have to take the initiative. I just want to know where I stand.

I recently had an interview for a role that I was really excited about, but unfortunately, I failed their aptitude test. This was after submitting around 50-60 applications while still working full-time, which has made my job search quite challenging. I finally made it past the AI and ATS screening to get an interview with a recruiter. The company had a 40-question aptitude test that I had to complete in 20 minutes, and I thought I did well, finishing 37 out of 40. However, I received an email stating that I didn’t meet their unknown threshold, and they won’t provide any feedback on my score or areas for improvement. It’s disheartening because the recruiter mentioned I was the strongest candidate she had seen so far. Now, I’m feeling quite unqualified for other positions I’m considering, even though I know I’m capable. The job seemed like a perfect fit for my skills. I just needed to vent a bit about this experience, as each rejection and setback is starting to take a toll on my confidence.

On June 24, 2026, I was one of the approximately 400-500 employees laid off by Leidos, where I worked as a defense contractor. The process was quite abrupt; we received a mandatory meeting invite that led to a pre-recorded message announcing our layoffs. There was no follow-up communication from the company, and I could tell that even my manager was caught off guard by the decision. To make matters worse, there was no WARN notice provided.

I recently got laid off from my position as a marketing coordinator at a tech startup, and it has definitely put a strain on my engagement plans with my partner. We were planning to get married next summer, but with my current job search and the uncertainty of my finances, we've had to push back our timeline. It's been tough navigating the emotional rollercoaster of job hunting while also dealing with the stress of wedding planning. I’m curious if others have faced similar challenges and how they managed to balance everything.

I recently received a rejection email for a job I applied to a couple of months ago, and it really highlighted the ongoing trend I've been noticing in the job market. My previous employer laid off hundreds of U.S. workers last year to offshore those roles, significantly cutting costs. It seems like this practice is becoming more common in the tech and white-collar sectors, and many people still think AI is the main culprit behind job losses. I believe offshoring is a major factor that isn't getting enough attention. After seeing the rejection, I can't say I'll be applying there again; at least they were honest in their communication, which is more than I can say for some companies. It's frustrating to see how the job landscape is shifting.

I recently applied for a position at a new restaurant opening in my area. I had initially missed the first interview, but I reached out to them and applied again the next day, specifying a new date and time for the interview. However, when I showed up for the scheduled interview, their system indicated that I did not have an interview booked. I was understandably frustrated by this situation, as I was looking forward to the opportunity.

I’m currently working as a camp counselor at a summer camp, and I’m really considering quitting. The camp operates for about 6–7 hours a day, but with transportation and getting ready, I’m out of the house from around 7 AM until 5 PM. I’ve only been there a few days, but I’m already feeling exhausted every day. The pay for the entire summer is around $2,200, which feels really low given the hours and responsibilities involved. The work environment isn’t great either. I don’t feel like I fit in with my co-counselors, and some staff members have been rude to me. Honestly, I dread going in each morning. Right now, I’m thinking of sticking it out for about 4 weeks before I leave, since the camp runs for 8 weeks total. I just can’t handle it mentally anymore, but I’m really nervous about how to tell my boss. Part of me just wants to stop showing up and block everyone’s numbers since I don’t plan on putting this job on my resume and I live pretty far from the camp. I’m looking for advice from anyone who has worked summer jobs before: would it be a bad idea to quit after 4 weeks? If I decide to leave, is it worth giving notice, or should I just stop showing up?

I recently reflected on my cover letter writing process as an early career professional in social science research and higher education, specifically focused on student support. On average, I manage to craft about two high-quality cover letters each day. I put a lot of effort into tailoring them to the specific job descriptions, aiming to engage the hiring manager right from the start. My approach revolves around answering "why this job, why me, and why now" in a compelling way. To enhance my letters, I utilize AI tools for polishing and ensuring the inclusion of relevant keywords. Additionally, I have a family member who is an editor review my letters and provide constructive feedback. I keep my letters concise, usually under one page and around 300 words. Each letter takes me about three hours to complete, although I sometimes spend longer on positions that particularly resonate with me. As I navigate my job search, which has spanned about two months with around 40 applications submitted, I find that cover letters require the most effort. I'm curious about how long it takes others to write their cover letters, especially those who have submitted a large number of applications in this competitive job market. I'm aiming to submit three applications a day while maintaining the quality of my letters, and I'm looking for strategies to avoid burnout.

I'm currently in a tough spot at my job where I've been for a few years. The company has consistently posted losses, and despite efforts to turn things around, we haven't seen any profits. It's gotten to the point where we're struggling to pay our monthly bills, and I've witnessed some vendors cut us off due to unpaid invoices. The morale among employees is at an all-time low, and I can feel the frustration building. Today, we had a manager's meeting that was supposed to be a straightforward check-in. The HR rep asked how everyone was feeling, and it quickly turned into a long rant about how tired and aggravated we all are. Instead of discussing solutions, any ideas we had were dismissed, often with questions that highlighted our lack of resources. Honestly, it makes me question why anyone would want to work here when they could earn a similar wage flipping burgers at a fast-food joint. The HR rep mentioned that the COO has a plan and that we just need to get over this "hump," but it felt like a hollow pep talk. I've been considering my options because several colleagues are also thinking about leaving if things don’t improve. I took this job hoping for a career boost, but it’s been quite the opposite. If you’re looking for a new role, I recommend checking the health of potential employers before committing. It’s hard to find time to interview once you’re settled in. Has anyone else experienced HR acting more like cheerleaders for a failing company rather than advocates for employees? How did it turn out for you?

I recently accepted a hybrid work-from-home job and signed the offer with a start date in about three weeks. I was really excited about the role and the company culture seemed great. However, my new boss reached out to express concerns about my pre-planned international vacation that overlaps with the busy season at the company. I had informed HR about this trip right after accepting the offer, but it seems my boss wasn't aware of it until now. The trip is set for two work weeks, totaling 10 days of PTO, and a lot of the expenses are non-refundable. My wife mentioned that rearranging the trip might be challenging. I'm feeling a bit stuck and unsure of my options. I’m considering asking if I can work remotely while on the trip, but I'm not sure about the company's policies regarding that. Another option could be to cut the trip short by a day or two. Alternatively, I could see if starting work earlier is possible. I’m reaching out to see if anyone has dealt with a similar situation and can offer some advice on how to navigate this.

Today was supposed to be my first day in a new role with a significant pay raise and guaranteed hours, but it turned into a complete disaster. My organization had an event last night that ran late, and when I got home around midnight, I thought everything would be fine for today. However, a group of my coworkers decided to call out this morning, claiming they were too exhausted to work. I honestly thought it was a joke, but it turned out to be real. During our mandatory five-week training class, which I cannot miss or I lose my promotion, we were constantly interrupted by requests for coverage because the floor staff had all called out. I was frustrated but held my ground, knowing how important this training was for my career. Around noon, our trainer was pulled out for a discussion with our manager, who later came in to inform us that two of the three scheduled events had been canceled due to staffing issues. They pointed at me and another trainee and told us to follow her to fill in for the event that couldn't be canceled. We argued that we couldn't miss the training, but the compromise offered was that we could take the next class in August and would have to return to our old roles until then. So, just like that, my promotion and pay raise are gone. I'm beyond livid right now. It's almost comical how ridiculous the whole situation is, and I can't help but feel resentment toward my coworkers and this company. I could have had the day off today, and instead, I'm stuck in this mess. Lesson learned: never give your all at work.

I recently accepted a job offer after a smooth interview process where I only needed two interviews instead of the planned three. Everyone I met seemed excited for me to start, which felt great. However, after completing my onboarding tasks, I received an email requesting proof of auto insurance, a driver's license, and immunization records. This caught me off guard because I don’t drive due to a disability, and I was never informed during the interviews or onboarding that a driver's license was necessary for this role. I’m feeling anxious about this situation, as I know I don’t have to disclose my disability unless I choose to. I’ve had ten years of solid work experience, including supervisory roles, and I pride myself on being punctual and reliable. I’m concerned that this request might jeopardize my job offer, even though I believe driving isn’t a requirement for the position. I’ve been seeking advice on whether I should be worried about the offer being rescinded and what steps I should take next. I’m considering providing them with my immunization records and explaining my situation regarding driving. I hope to clarify that I don’t own a car or drive, and I’m willing to provide other forms of identification if needed. It’s just frustrating because I want to start this new chapter without complications.

I've been working in my field for 11 years, but I'm feeling pretty burnt out. Since 2022, I've witnessed numerous layoffs, and I experienced one myself in 2023. I was a contractor for several years before landing my current role, which has been a decent gig, but I'm seriously considering a career change. I've seen a lot of posts on LinkedIn about positions being cut, and it’s making me rethink my path. I'm curious if anyone else has made a switch and when they realized it was time to move on. I want to know if changing careers is a good choice.

I'm currently navigating the job market after completing my PhD in History. I've realized that teaching isn't fulfilling for me, and the pay isn't sustainable long-term. I'm based in the Moselle region of France, near Luxembourg and Germany, and I'm looking for job opportunities across these areas. My language skills include Italian, French, English, and Spanish, and I'm working on my German. I feel a bit overwhelmed with my job search, especially since LinkedIn hasn't been helpful—it's filled with spam and vague posts. I'm open to various roles outside my academic background, including entry-level positions in administration, project support, customer service, sales, communications, and research assistance. Ideally, I'd like to work in NGOs, international organizations, or sectors that have a social impact, but I'm trying to keep my options broad. I'm seeking advice on the best job portals for Luxembourg and western Germany, as well as recruitment agencies or local networks that could assist me. Additionally, I would appreciate tips on how to present my PhD when applying for non-academic jobs and insights into roles where my multilingual abilities and research/writing skills would be valued. Any resources or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated!

Today was incredibly challenging for me at my job. I work in a role that requires public speaking, and this week we had an all-staff day where I was supposed to present for 15 minutes about my role. I’ve struggled with severe public speaking anxiety for a long time, and I had communicated this to my manager weeks in advance, asking for a plan to help manage my anxiety during the presentation. Unfortunately, I didn't feel supported, and despite my repeated concerns, I was told I would be fine. On the day of the presentation, I felt physically ill—my throat was burning, my heart raced, and I was sweating. I was supposed to have a break before my presentation to talk to my manager about my panic attack, but they moved my presentation forward unexpectedly. I panicked and went to the back to inform the CEO, but I ended up having a full-blown panic attack and had to leave the room. My manager eventually found me and suggested I skip my presentation, but I was still in distress. She told me to go home, which I did, feeling completely defeated and sick. I’ve been thinking about the potential consequences of what happened, and I’m really worried about how my manager will react when she calls me tonight. I just hope that there won’t be any repercussions for something I communicated about in advance. It’s been such a rough day.

I recently joined a start-up focused on providing corporate food solutions, but after just a month, I'm seriously considering leaving. I got into this position through a friend's recommendation, but they ended up resigning just three weeks after I started due to the chaotic work environment. This is my first experience in a start-up, and I realize now that I should have done more research beforehand. The business concept seems flawed for the local market. In Asia, food delivery and catering services are already well-established, so I don't see what unique value our platform brings to the table. My responsibilities are constantly shifting; one week I'm cleaning systems, the next I'm handling vendor sales, and soon I'll be managing corporate client relationships. It's hard to develop any specific skills when I'm being pulled in so many directions. I'm planning to attend a national job fair to explore new opportunities. I'm weighing whether to leave this job now to focus on upskilling in supply chain procurement and management, or to stick it out for the paycheck. Fortunately, I have enough savings to cover my rent for three months, and my parents are willing to help with some living expenses. I'm open to any advice or perspectives on this situation.

I’ve been reflecting on the current job market, particularly in the research and higher education sectors where I work. While things feel a bit shaky, I’m noticing that there are still job openings, albeit with a lot of competition. Living in a large city with numerous universities helps, but it’s still a struggle to secure a position. From what I gather, the tech industry is facing significant challenges, especially for recent graduates who are finding it tough to land jobs. Marketing seems to be another tough area, with reports of hundreds of applicants for openings that are posted for just a few hours. In my field, it’s more common to see around 50 applicants daily for new roles based on LinkedIn stats and conversations with hiring managers. Conversely, I’ve heard that healthcare remains relatively stable, which is reassuring for my friend working in that sector. However, another friend who is a primary school teacher is experiencing difficulties; their school has had to cut some paraprofessional positions, which is surprising given the usual demand for teachers. It seems that in our region, there’s an oversupply of teachers and not enough funding to support them. I’m curious to hear how others in different sectors are faring, especially those in social sciences and higher education.