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I recently faced a dilemma during my job search regarding salary negotiations. When interviewers ask what wage I'm looking for, I often wonder if it would be more strategic to ask them what wage they have in mind instead. The job postings I see usually list a salary range, and I typically aim for the middle or higher end based on my skills and experience. However, I feel like I'm being put on the spot when they press for a specific number from me. I worry that if I ask, 'What wage would you be willing to hire me for?' or 'What is the realistic wage you're aiming to hire someone for?' it might come off as confrontational or disrespectful, even though my intention is purely to gather information. I genuinely want the job and don’t want to risk being seen as a smart aleck. In the past, I've tried to play it safe by saying I'm comfortable with the posted range, but interviewers often push for a more specific figure. I understand their reasoning; they want to gauge my expectations and commitment. However, I’ve also read that if I lowball myself, it could signal desperation or a lack of confidence in my abilities. In some cases, I’ve even underquoted myself, especially since I’m trying to break into a new industry where I have little experience. I’ve explained my eagerness to learn and gain experience, but it hasn’t seemed to help much. As I navigate this job search, I’m focusing on salary negotiations as a key area to improve my approach.

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I recently applied for a part-time job at a supermarket and haven't received any follow-up emails after two weeks. Today, I decided to call the hiring manager, but I was informed that they were absent. I mentioned that I would call again tomorrow, but I'm feeling uncertain about the timing. I've read that Tuesday to Thursday are the best days to call, and since today is Thursday, I'm wondering if I should go ahead and call tomorrow or wait until next Tuesday. I want to strike the right balance between showing my interest and not coming off as desperate. Any advice on how to approach this call would be greatly appreciated!

Job title: part-time job

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Today was a tough day for me as I was fired from my corporate job after nearly 13 years. I'm a 35-year-old woman, and honestly, I feel like a complete failure right now. The past year has been incredibly challenging, marked by a divorce that left me feeling miserable and alone. My performance at work suffered, and I ended up on a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP). To cope with the stress, I started drinking heavily, although I managed to keep it hidden from everyone. I tried to maintain a façade of being put together, engaging in activities like cooking, cleaning, and even pilates, while also attempting to get back into dating and making new friends. However, inside, I was really struggling. Recently, I began experiencing health issues related to my drinking and decided to seek help. I went through detox and spent some time in the hospital. Today marks my 10th day of sobriety, which is a small victory amidst all this chaos. I was planning to file for FMLA and short-term disability this morning, but when I tried to reach my boss, I found my access to work systems had been revoked. Shortly after, I received a knock on my door with a termination letter stating I didn't meet job requirements. I was devastated and couldn't control my emotions, calling my therapist for support. Now, I feel like I've hit rock bottom. I don't have a degree, just a high school diploma and a couple of college years, and I got my job through connections from my ex. I worry that I won't find anything else that pays well, especially since I have ADHD and struggle with most jobs. I’m still dealing with health issues from withdrawal and the aftermath of losing my job. I know I need to start the unemployment process, but I'm feeling lost and unsure of what to do next.

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I was recently laid off from my job and have been collecting unemployment benefits for a few weeks now. Every time I file my claim, I have to answer a questionnaire that includes whether I've attended school or received any training. I'm thinking about enrolling in some part-time evening classes at a university to earn a certificate in my field, which would be about 6 credit hours per semester. I'm concerned that this might affect my unemployment benefits. I still plan on actively searching for jobs while I'm in school, but I want to make sure that taking these classes won't disqualify me from receiving my benefits. I've heard that as long as I'm looking for work and available, I might be okay, but I'm not sure about the specific rules in my state.

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I'm a 27-year-old woman with an associate's degree that mainly covers core subjects like English, math, and history. I've been working as a teacher's assistant for a long time, but I'm feeling burnt out and underpaid. As a type 1 diabetic, having good insurance is crucial for me, especially living in the U.S. I've been trying to find a better-paying job to escape poverty, but it's been tough. In New Jersey, entry-level admin and office assistant positions are hard to come by, and most require at least three years of experience with specific software, which I lack. I'm not very tech-savvy, but I can manage basic tasks in Google Suite. My English skills are strong, and I often communicate better than my lead teacher. However, I realize that degrees in English, history, or psychology don't lead to many job opportunities. I'm open to getting a certification or a two-year degree to gain some business skills, but nursing is off the table due to my immunocompromised status. I've applied for government jobs for years without success, and I don't drive, so real estate isn't an option either. I'm seeking advice on how to improve my situation and find a job that pays better and doesn't leave me feeling exhausted.

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As a new grad in Canada, I've been struggling to find a full-time job, which led me to take on two part-time positions while I continued my search. Thankfully, I recently secured a full-time role at a bank, but I'm currently going through the background check process due to the FINRA-related requirements for the position. The situation is tough because I'm feeling completely burned out from juggling both jobs and applying to countless positions. I had hoped to take some time off to recharge and visit family before starting my new job. I've already given my two weeks' notice at one of my part-time jobs, but I'm really unhappy at my second part-time job as a teller at another bank. I've only been there for a month, and I want to quit as soon as possible instead of waiting until my new role starts. My main concern is whether quitting this job while my background check is still in progress could negatively impact my new job offer. I'm not trying to hide my employment status; I would disclose it if necessary, but I'm worried that changing jobs during the screening process might raise a red flag. Has anyone else faced a similar situation, especially in the banking or finance sector? Should I go ahead and quit now, or should I wait until the background check is completed? I'm really looking for some advice or personal experiences to help me navigate this exhausting time.

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I've been on the job hunt for a while now, and I'm genuinely curious about the possibility of landing a role without a referral. With over 10 years of experience in enterprise tech at well-known companies, I thought my background would help me stand out. However, it feels like the market is oversaturated with talent, and I'm not even getting callbacks. I suspect that AI might be filtering applications, making it even harder to get noticed. I've seen some success stories where people landed offers without referrals, which gives me a glimmer of hope. One person mentioned they were contacted by a recruiter on LinkedIn after being laid off, and ended up with a better-paying contractor role that turned into a full-time position. Another shared that they received three offers at once, with one company reaching out after they sent in their resume. Hearing these experiences makes me wonder if I should be more proactive in networking or if there's still a chance for someone like me without those connections.

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I recently experienced a frustrating situation where a job offer was rescinded after I had gone through three rounds of interviews for what I thought was an amazing opportunity. The company had checked my references, and I was ready to sign the offer when I decided to negotiate the salary slightly. After I brought this up, they mentioned they would need to check with upper management. Unfortunately, shortly after, they pulled the offer altogether. I'm really taken aback by this experience and wondering if others have faced something similar. It feels like a harsh lesson in the current job market.

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I’ve been laid off twice in my career, and each experience has been drastically different. The first layoff was massive, affecting over 4000 employees, and the second time it was just me and one other colleague. What really surprises me is how many people from the second company have ghosted me completely. A simple ‘hi, how are you?’ on LinkedIn seems like too much to ask. It’s baffling, especially since my biggest supporters have come from the first layoff, which happened over 15 years ago. I’m left wondering if this is survivor’s guilt, or if I’ve suddenly become contagious, or maybe they just didn’t like me all along. I can’t help but feel a bit hurt by it all. I know I’m not alone in this feeling, as I’ve seen others share similar experiences. On the bright side, this has shown me who really cares and who I can count on in tough times.

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I recently faced a tough decision at my last job at a tech company where I was working as a software engineer. The company offered me a choice: leave immediately with a severance payout or enter a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP). Given the circumstances, the PIP seemed almost impossible to succeed in, and I wasn't enjoying my role anyway, so I opted for the payout. Since then, I've been on the job hunt and have had several interviews. When asked why I left my last position, I explain that it wasn't a good fit and that I'm looking to take my career in a different direction, which is true. If pressed about whether I quit or was let go, I admit that I was let go. So far, the interviewers haven't seemed to dwell on this, but I still haven't secured a new job yet. Now, I'm grappling with whether I should just lie about the circumstances of my departure. I worry about the risk of being caught if they were to contact my previous employer, but I also feel uneasy about being dishonest. It’s a tricky situation, and I’m looking for advice on how to navigate this without compromising my integrity.

Job title: software engineer

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I have an upcoming interview for a management position at a non-profit organization, and I'm really excited about it. However, I noticed that the job posting initially listed the pay at $18/hr, but they've since reposted it without any salary information. Given my 4+ years of management experience, I feel that the pay is below average for this role in my state. I'm wondering if it's still worth negotiating the salary, especially considering the current job market. I know non-profits often have lower pay, but this position could be a significant stepping stone for my career. I'm looking for advice on whether I should attempt to negotiate or if that might jeopardize my chances of getting the job.

Job title: management position

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I was laid off in mid-July and had anticipated it, so I began applying for jobs a few months prior. By the time I received my redundancy notice, I had several leads in the pipeline. I even made it to the final round of interviews with two major companies in my industry. I was optimistic about getting hired quickly, especially after one of them verbally offered me a position. Unfortunately, they later canceled the requisition due to changes in their budget and headcount. After that setback, I intensified my job search, but it’s been three weeks since then, and I've only received one callback with no interviews. Initially, I felt confident that I would find a new job soon, but now I’m experiencing a dry spell. I'm unsure of what steps to take next.

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I was laid off from my fully remote job in June due to company restructuring after five years in the role. Recently, I received an offer for a new position, but it requires me to be in the office four days a week, which means a daily commute of 90 miles. The pay increase is minimal compared to my previous salary, and I've tried negotiating with HR and the hiring manager for better terms, but they are firm on the hybrid schedule and pay. I'm feeling conflicted about whether to accept this offer or hold out for a fully remote job that might come along. The job market is tough, and I’m worried I might be too picky. Should I take this job just to get back into the workforce or keep searching for something better?

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I've been working at an engineering firm for about 3-4 years and recently started looking for new opportunities as I'm hoping to relocate. I've submitted a few job applications, but I've encountered some frustrating experiences. One potential employer asked me to complete a task to demonstrate my CAD skills, which felt a bit excessive given my experience. They even mentioned wanting to see if I could draw a straight line, which honestly rubbed me the wrong way. I have a solid portfolio that showcases my skills, and I believe that should speak for itself. Additionally, the salary they offered was below my minimum requirement, so I’ve decided not to pursue that position further. I'm curious about how common it is for companies to ask for these types of exercises during the interview process, especially for second interviews.

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I just started my job search and I'm feeling overwhelmed as this is my first job application. I could really use some guidance on how to approach it. Any tips on what to include in my resume or how to write a cover letter would be greatly appreciated!

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I've been on the job hunt for nearly four months now, trying to secure a position as a professional driver, but I haven't had any luck so far. I hold a range of driver licenses (A, B, C, D, BE, CE, DE) and even have an international driving permit. On top of that, I've completed CACES training and obtained permits for operating various machinery, from forklifts to heavy-duty vehicles. I’m also certified as a warehouse keeper and a construction worker, along with a training completion certificate as an HSE inspector. Driving is my passion; I've been doing it both personally and professionally since 2015. I've invested a significant amount of money into obtaining these licenses and certifications, all of which I've funded myself through hard work. It’s been a financial strain, especially as I also speak four languages and recently passed the IELTS with a B2 score, which cost me around $300. It’s tough to save that kind of money in my country. Despite the ongoing discussions about a driver shortage, I find myself struggling to land a job abroad. I just needed to vent because it feels like a distant dream at this point. Wishing the best for myself and everyone else in the same situation.

Job title: professional driver

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I've been on the job hunt for about two months now, and honestly, it feels like a second full-time job. I've been applying for roles in my field, but the effort required just to get a rejection or silence is overwhelming. Tailoring resumes has become standard, but the multi-step application processes are exhausting. For instance, I recently applied for an entry-level position that required me to upload my resume, manually fill out every detail from it, answer 15 screening questions, and even record a one-way video interview with just 30 seconds to prepare for each prompt. Last week, I spent almost two hours on an application that included a personality assessment, a skills test, and three short essay responses about hypothetical scenarios. And guess what? I never heard back. I understand companies want to filter candidates, but the process feels bloated and discouraging, especially for those who might actually be a good fit. I'm investing 20-30 hours a week just applying, and it often feels like my efforts are vanishing into a void. To keep track of everything, I've started using a spreadsheet because I genuinely can't remember where I applied anymore. Is this the norm now, or am I missing something? It's tough to stay motivated when the application process itself feels designed to wear you down before you even get a chance to speak with someone in person.

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I was hired by a small company about five months ago for a management role, but this week I was informed that my position has been made redundant. I had been contacted by an internal recruiter earlier this year and went through several interviews before being selected over two other candidates. I started in March, and during my brief time there, I noticed several concerning trends. For instance, I heard that the company had previously replaced their entire C-suite team and let go of many employees, which they referred to as transitioning from '1.0' to '2.0.' Shortly after I started, I was tasked with conducting annual performance reviews for my direct reports, despite barely knowing them. I also witnessed the sudden layoff of a long-term database developer without any notice or farewell, which was unsettling. Moreover, the company had begun consolidating teams and halted interviews for candidates, opting instead to hire in India. They aggressively pushed for AI integration, often suggesting that AI could replace human knowledge, which was concerning given the loss of experienced employees. When I had a one-on-one with my manager this week, I was told I was being let go, and both he and HR emphasized that it wasn't due to my performance. I questioned the decision to hire me only to eliminate my position five months later, and received a vague response about the company changing direction. It turns out several others were also laid off this week. Overall, it feels like a reflection of poor leadership and planning within the company, and I’m left wondering about the future of the organization.

Job title: management role

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I've been on the job hunt for about a month now, and unfortunately, I've faced a string of rejections. I'm really anxious to find a new job quickly, and I'm starting to wonder if my resume is the issue. I've reached out for feedback and would appreciate any tips or insights anyone might have. Some comments suggested that I should include my college name, while others pointed out that the structure of my resume might need some adjustments. I've also been told that my job titles seem misaligned. I know a month isn't a long time in this tough job market, but the rejections are really getting to me. It seems like the economy is affecting everyone right now.

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I recently received an email from a new company that has taken over a contract from my previous employer, OldCompany, which lost the contract. The email mentioned that they received my information from their Contracting Officer's Representative and expressed interest in discussing the position I applied for. They provided a link to schedule a time for a brief chat about the next steps. I'm feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness about this opportunity and am eager to see how this conversation unfolds.

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